solidcase Posted February 12, 2018 Share Posted February 12, 2018 I've spent all morning googling whether or not this would send the wrong message - and there's SO many contradicting opinions. I've been talking to this guy for about 6 weeks now, this Sunday will be our third time getting together. Our last two dates have gone really well, but the weather has been so terrible and I've been finding it hard to think of dates that will last a few hours, are affordable, leave us with space/time to talk and actually get to know each other, etc. What I envision is going out briefly to grab some coffee and snacks and then come back to just spend a rainy day (which it's set to be) being mellow, chatting, watching TV and playing Bananagrams or something. I'm a bit of a homebody and am very proud of my space; I feel like it says a lot about me that I'd be ready to show to this guy, and my hope is that it will be an environment conducive to a more natural/relaxed interaction between us. I feel perfectly safe with him, and I trust that he wouldn't push me to go further than I want to go (I'm 100% down for a makeout session, but still want to hold off on sex until whatever we've got going on is more concrete). My concern is making him feel awkward... I live alone in a small but cute/cozy studio apartment, but I don't have a couch/living room area - just my bed turned vertical against the wall, towards the TV (trying to entertain the idea of a couch) and a couple of chairs. I've got one would-be furry distraction, my cat, but she's a nervous wreck herself and is probably going to hide the whole time... soooo. I don't want to send the wrong message but thinking of quality, but affordable INDOOR dates is so hard! Outdoor dates are so easy in the area I live, but we're anticipating rain and potentially sleet/snow that day. Link to comment
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