pintsized Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 Hi, I'm only 8 and a half stone and a size 8/10 however on an almost weekly basis my boyfriend tells me I'm fat and need to lose weight tonight he's told me I look as though I eat 5 pizzas a week how can I tell him this is obliterating my self esteem and to stop making comments about my weight? Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 You dump him.This. No one should need to be reminded not to be a jacka**. Link to comment
Girlnumber1 Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 Him constantly telling you that you’re fat is emotional abuse. I know that he probably has some good things about him and it may be hard, but you need to sit him down and talk to him about it or leave him. If he doesn’t stop doing things that he knows hurt you, that shows he doesn’t care about your feelings or you at all. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 He is a bully! Dump him! He does not respect or love you! Link to comment
limichelle Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 I would leave him and never look back. Your boyfriend sounds like a real loser! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 I would tell him he has a small "...." and dump him. :) Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 Yes, dump him. Any guy who enjoys hurting you is not a guy who loves you. Link to comment
Jeffbobo Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 You dump him. ^^^ I mean this ^^^ Link to comment
Lisii Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 All the above - you don't deserve this cra& Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 Especially in light of the current average size woman in the US as being a size 12 to 14. Your guy is clown. Believe you deserve better. Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 You dump him. Yes you dump him. There is no other option. Link to comment
Starlight925 Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 Even if you were double that size, I'd say dump him. It's about respect. Show some for yourself. He's doing this to make you feel insecure, and he's winning. You can win, when you lose him. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 how can I tell him this is obliterating my self esteem Self esteem is not the same thing as boyfriend esteem. Someone with 'self' esteem wouldn't date that guy. She'd find boyfriend esteem elsewhere. Head high, and walk ON. Link to comment
ShatteredMan Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 He's probably unhappy with himself in some way (mommy issues, bullied, etc.) or feels some form of inadequacy. This doesn't excuse his unkindness and disrespectful behavior towards you. Put his stuff in a box, drop it off at his place unannounced and then delete him out of your life. Link to comment
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