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  1. That is it! The person you want to face the good and bad times with. The person who has your back forever. If you’re looking for a way to bail when life gets hard, you’re not ready for commitment.
  2. I hope he gets help too. It is always so sad.
  3. But if you’re terrified of the legal commitment part or legal consequences never live together. My brother is finally getting divorce after 7 years of separation and says he will NEVER live with another woman not even his gf of 6 years because he wants no legal commitment to anyone but his children.
  4. Exactly. Where I live one year of cohabitation you are considered in a common law marriage .
  5. I agree you need to find out what it is to her and why it is important to her , not the rest of us.
  6. The number of tornadoes this year is out right crazy. I heard about one of the victims of the tornado not 15 minutes from my new home. Her son had made it into the basement but she didn’t quite make it she got to the top of the basement stairs. That’s when the wall and chimney fell on top of her. She was dug out by her son and a neighbour. She has two smashed ankles and a broken back, but alive thankfully. Seeing post and the state of her house I am surprised anyone survived.
  7. I agree if she is talking marriage you need to be totally up front about never doing it. If you don’t you may not lose her now but you will eventually. Marriage and non marriage there is no compromise.
  8. You don’t have to spend tons of money to be married . I think a total of $5000 was spent on my wedding for every single thing.🤷🏻‍♀️ Still married 27 years later .
  9. He is a jerk and could have killed you dragging you with his car. Remember that.
  10. Uninstall the App and don’t acknowledge him. He could have killed you . Please just be DONE.
  11. It stands for destination inspection trip. We will be doing that the third, fourth ,fifth of August. Our pre-move inspection is the 18th. Then what I hear from my husband today our pack up is 30 August , our load is 1 September, then that night we have the cleaner come in. Our March out inspection is 2 September. Then our unload and unpack at the other end will be 6 and 7 of September. So 30 August we move into the hotel here. And from 2 September until the seventh we will be in a hotel there.
  12. I mean I don’t know how we’re ever going to feel not nervous. This thing is here forever. But at some point we have to stop living in fear.
  13. I’m not sure how I feel about this one mostly nervous . My husband is going to a Blue Jays game the first weekend they are home. Now the seating will be 2 metres apart and masked but still.
  14. Funny sort of.... The US has been begging us for months to open our border . We finally agree. Then they say nope can’t open our border on agreed time . 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
  15. He is adorable .🥰 Remember though conflicting messages don’t work with dogs like they don’t work with kids. ❤️
  16. Exactly , terriers were bred to be working animals. They need to “ work” like herding dogs need to work. Except terriers were meant to root out rats and foxes and the like . So you need to recreate “ work” so they are busy and tired out .
  17. Don’t allow him on the couch , period. It is obviously too much for him to figure out just sit on the couch and be nice. No couch at all is better.
  18. 9 more days until our DIT. Getting excited I guess. We staying in our new home area for 3 days in August about a month before our move .
  19. Had a migraine last night. It went away and came back today.
  20. There are so so so many issues here. 1. Cheating , no one really truly forgets about this even if they forgive you. 2. You both drink and need help 3. Poopooing his need to feel successful. Yes, men need to feel this through work. You want him to feel successful through relationships. 4. He passively let’s you do what you want and feels resentful while you push your wants. There is so much going on here. Truthfully I would let him go, you are both not happy.
  21. I am glad you were able to say goodbye before they left . Your bf sounds so sweet. ❤️ I often see my mom’s parents. They are in the same cemetery as my other son. They both have been gone more than 40 years. My father’s parents and my father are in a different cemetery in a different city. I had actually never been there to visit my grandmother I wasn’t there when she was buried because they never told me she was being buried until I was at work. And the last time I was at the grave was when my grandfather was buried what is it …. Maybe nine years ago this coming January. Then I was there last year for my dad‘s burial and again a few months ago. Next month my dad will have been gone a whole year.
  22. Today my in-laws would’ve been married 62 years.
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