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    Hey bro, if she _really_ did miss you, she'd call ... her Aunt means well, but is slightly biased in that she wants you both together ... whereas your ex-chick kissed _someone else_, so she has the issue. You don't want to put yourself back in that situation, what happens if she does it again? Same problem all over again. She may miss having you around, but she doesn't miss _you_, because she hasn't made contact. There is a difference. Let her sweat, you took the high road, let her get on the highway as well. later,peace
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    Hey SxcLady, these chicks are scared of the unknown. I have diabetes, same issue with women, soon as they find out, boom -> gone. Best strategy is to not tell, until she has totally fallen for him, _or_ she asks. He shouldn't volunteer info like that right off the bat ... who knows, she might have something just as trying, but most likely she woudln't tell right off. later,peace
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    total wisdom girl, total wisdom later,peace
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    You know what man, make yourself busy ... fold socks for crying out loud ... the next time she calls, say "I'm busy, sorry". You are not lying, immediately go and fold socks, or whatever, even if you weren't doing anything before. You need to break this cause-and-effect things that's going on with her. later,peace
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    You need to back _way_ off, and give her tonnes of space, make her chase you. Don't ask her why you can't go to these functions, it looks needy. She obviously is second guessing things (slowing it down), so if you start asking "why", and come on hard, she'll bolt. If you get _any_ more warning signs, end it. later,peace
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    Confidence plays a large roll in it, but also, she's gotta be interested in you ... don't waste any time on a chick that dates your friends, or uses you to get things. She has to be physically attracted to you, if she isn't, it's a no go from the start ... nothing you can do the change that. later,peace
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    This is a hard one, because I believe once you split with someone, you never go back ... in the smallest of chances, sometimes it works, but there was a reason for the initial split in the first place, and rarely is this resolved. A lot of the time, people will come on hard like his is, because he can't have you ... simple as that. I know it's difficult, but try and evaluate the situation without relying on any feelings whatsoever. I think he just wants you cause he can't have you ... but you're the one that has to make that call, cause your the one in the situation. Good luck. later,peace
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    yeah, he should send her packing, I would have after the first time, she has _zero_ respect for him ...
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    yeah, it means "ur so lame" ... always let the chick initiate contact, it's self control. If she hasn't touched you in anyway during a date, like brush up against you, touch your hand, something ... she's still not comfortable, and not totally interested in you. If you initiate touch before they do, it usually freaks them out, I mean 99.999999999% of the time it freaks them out ... later,peace
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    Yeah man, don't waste your time if she jerks you around. You don't need that, but I think you already know that ... later, peace bro
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    enough attention? I doubt it bro ... immature woman use that one all the time ... don't let her throw things like that back on you. later,peace
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    I hesitated to post this previously, but a lot of this is rooted in the fact that a _tonne_ of women get off on when a guy is mean to them, except most won't admit it. Unless they admit this fact, and take corrective measures, most relationships turn into a total drama ... later,peace
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    You can't really do anything ... you can't change someone to be what you want them to be. The best thing is to just give him space, and keep yourself busy. If u push him, he'll just pull back more ... later,peace
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    My gut says yep, but why whack ur brain about it? You can't change what he's thinking. I am under no illusion that something like this is easy, but like they say, after a situation like that, just "act" like it doesn't bother you, don't initiate anything, and move on. If he contacts you, then you can make a decision. later,peace
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    my view is, friends no, acquaintances yes, eventually. later,peace
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