darealshady86

great poem, everything it talked about is what i think too.

look on this board, everyone feels exactly the same way as you do when they lose someone... i was the exact same way and i still am.. ive gone so far alilttle more then a month so far on NC and my ex is still with the guy she got together with a day after we broke off our 1 yr relationship.. you feel find somebody better and you will find somebody you love just as much as you did the last... just remember it takes time and you need to be strong.

well ill warn you the best i can my girlfriend of 1 year drunkenly cheated on me I forgave bc she was drunk my girlfriend cheated again I broke up/got back together and forgave bc she was drunk AGAIN my girlfriend cheated I was so in love i forgave again also she said she was drunk do i have to tell you what happened next? anyways now we have been broken up for a month and shes been seeing someone since the next day we broke up... my word of advice, its not worth the hurt.

yea man i went through alot of the same things except i went out with mine my junior/senior year.. after a year of going out i found out she cheated on me and was extremely sorry... awell i forgave and it happened again and she still was extremely sorry.. well more stuff happened and she kept wanting to come back, and then would get confused and change her mind and if a girl is doin that to you, its not worth being with her... when you said holding her and runnin ur hand threw her hair, it sounded just like all i ever wanted to do to my ex. i was in love but its been a month, shes been with a guy and im slowly recovering.. itll take time but look at it like its over bc thats the only way youll move on ... if u keep sayin theres hope you will keep gettn depressed.. goodlcuk if ya need help contact me.

well ill make a summary... me and my ex went out for a year... the first week i met her i asked her out w/ flowers (both 17, seniors). well shes a REALLY beautiful girl and said she never had a long bf and never went father then making out, i was like wow i have to take this... really hot girl thats innocent? first month we go out her dad died... i didnt know what to do but i stuck throuhg it with her and she was heavily into drinking/partying and always with guys and i always heard rumors of cheating... i cheated n she cheated alot more times bc of soo many thing. well after awile i got her to quit drugs/drinking/partying/being bullimic/ and taking alot of depression pills. i found out she cheated on me like 6 times and like 4 times the day before our 8 months anniversery... She said she just was messed up and madeout with them... well 2 weeks before our year anniversery i heard she was flashing a bunch of guys awile back and i flipped out and broke up with her.. the next day she was dating a 20 year old guy... that crushed me all i thought was wow something had to be going on... and she always told me im the only one she has ever done stuff with... (lost virginity to her). and how she was changing and would never cheat again and how she wants to change her life around for the best and stuff...... but then she finds some other guy and says she doesnt want to be with me bc i dont give her trust anymore bc of what she did in the past?? HOW can i trust her?? i think i gave enough trust to stay with her? but shes expecting to give her flowersevreyday and act like i did at the beginning of the relationship.. well a week ago i found out she had sex with some guy this summer while we were going out and that broke up my heart.... i pictured her this whole time being innocent and she promised me i was the only one.. now i found out this and i think about it everyday.... she denys it to my friends but one of my friends knows the guy that had sexwit her and she always lied to me when she cheated before... well i saw in her school and i coudlnt contorl myself.. i called her a (s.l.u.t) and she went down to the principal n filed sexual harrasment!.. im like omg right now i got a warning and if i do it again i have sexual harrasment against me.... but i know she did that bc she doesnt want ot be labeled a (s.l.u.t). (awhile back when she cheated she lied to my friends and admited to me bc she didnt want to be a (s.l.u.t) so right now i miss her so bad... she was beautiful, sweet when she was wiht me, her family is rich, hottest body, and no matter i cant find any other girls that compare to her.. but i cant and wont let myself go back. ive been on nc for like 3 weeks.. but shes with that 20 year old and seems so happy and im jus going crazy over here. i cant believe she would have sex with someone.. thats the most hurtful thing... and she wont even talk to me which makes me think if she didnt do it she wuld try to clear it up.. but i know 98% she did it i just dont want to believe that.. i dont know what ot do..... shes everything to me and she fukd me over so bad............i know i can get alot of girls and theres alot of super hot girls but NO ONE matches her, i wish i could go back in time and she never did all that... i just cant believe i get all this disrepect after we break up... i savd her life.. wha should i do??

yeah listen my girlfriend of 1 year started seeing a guy the day after we brokeup... 2 weeks later she calls me saying how much she loves me and misses me and wants to try bla bla,... then i break down and say how much i love her n then she says she doesnt know who she wants me or him. she just switched all of it in the means of 5 minutes i think bc she found out i wanted her back to... girls want to move on but dont want you to move on.. just be careful

yeah listen my girlfriend of 1 year started seeing a guy the day after we brokeup... 2 weeks later she calls me saying how much she loves me and misses me and wants to try bla bla,... then i break down and say how much i love her n then she says she doesnt know who she wants me or him. she just switched all of it in the means of 5 minutes i think bc she found out i wanted her back to... girls want to move on but dont want you to move on.. just be careful

man everday i find out how my ex cheated on me and had sex with guys and it sux so bad because you miss her so much and hearing that just crushes you? well its hard man but some people are so cruel... i would forget her and just tell her that you need to stop talking to her... dont let her say oki wont talk about guys, ull always be hurt when u hear her voice n how happy she is with other guys. goodluck man im in the same boat as you.

ive been through this alot, me and my girlfriend just broke up a week before our year anniversary and she started seeing a guy 3 yrs older then her the day after.. (we are 17) and she called me up the other day sayin she wanted me back and all that n then said she was really confused and didnt know what she wanted. ive tried NC and ive broke it many times.. you've done what is the hardest thing to do but if shes confused about it do you really want to keep going through that back and forth? try to be single and try to be happy, itll take awhile but if its meant to be shell be back.. i think you made the best decision for you and her. its time for me to let her go now to. =-D GoodLuck.

man i feel for you, every girl i have been with and loved alot has always acted like i was their world one second, and then the next they could act like i didnt exist.. ive found this to be true with all girls no matter how much you think they arent. try to hold in there and know theres someone there who will always love you and need you, your daughter.

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