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Well it has been 10 days with NC and I can't tell you how much I miss her I just don't think I am going to be able to make it. I never in my life have even had dreamed about what life would be like without her. All my hopes and dreams and my future is gone without her I don't want anyone else and I don't want to be alone either. I just know I will never find anyone again.

Just wanted to get some advice on getting back with my ex we have separated about 6 months ago we lived in the same house (we didn't sleep together) up until about a 2 months ago. She moved in with her new BF. They lived together for about 5 weeks then they broke up. She then moved in with her friend and has been staying there 3 weeks we have seen each other a few times even went out on a couple of dates. I am not really sure where she stands but I was wondering how I should go about seeing if she is interested in getting back together. How should I ask her if she wants to get back together? Or do you think I shouldn't even attempt to get back with her. I really didn't want to break up with her in the first place but she thought she was in love with the other guy but she found out she wasn't. I guess my question is how to ask her if she wants to get back with me and the second question should I even take her back. any suggestions would be appreciated.

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Why is it every woman I talk to seems interested in me and then they tell me they just want to be is friends. I have more female friends then anyone I know (male or female). They all want to talk to me about there problems, and ask for my advise but none of them want to be my GF. What am I doing wrong or is it I am just not any of these women's type. I am trying to figure out if I am to ugly or what?? Any ideas ??

My ex left me for another man about 9 months ago and it didn't work out with them. She moved out of his place 2 weeks ago. At first she said she wanted to get back with me but she is still seeing him some what. they went on a date friday night. She told me she didn't want to date him any more but she went out with him Friday night. She said she still has feelings for me but she is not willing to make a decision on what to do. I will admit I still have feelings for her but it feels like I waiting for her to decided what she wants. I am now tired of waiting for her to decide. I was just wondering if anyone has any good suggestions how I can tell her it is over and I don't want to be with her or be just friends with her. It is to hard for me to just be friends with her at this time. I want to move on in my life and I can't do that until she stops playing me. I would really like some help in how to make her understand its over between us and I want to move on in my life Please help!!!!

we are very frendly towards each other but im a little worried she may want to go farther then just being friends, I am a little worried she may want to try and start the relationship up with me again and i am not readty to do that at this time and i may never be ready for it.

My ex called me today and ask my advice on how to breakup with her boy friend she ask me if she should tell him now or wait till she got all of her stuff out of his apartment, she said she was going to go with him tonight to the store and ask if she should tell him then I told her she should tell him tonight and not wait till she gets her stuff but I also told her it was up to her. Then she ask me if she could spent the night on my couch I told her to call me when she is done and I would let her know.. What do you guys think should I let her spend the night on my couch or should I tell her no???

My GF and I broke up about 6 weeks ago and we had very little contact the first 4 weeks or so. The last 2 weeks we have been talking on the phone every day. She told me Saturday she just wanted to be really good friends, I thought it would be hard for me because I still have feelings for her. She wanted to breakup and I wanted to stay with her. She called me on Sunday and ask me if she could come over to my place and talk, and I said yes. She got to my place and we started talking and then she kissed me it was a passionate kiss to (French kiss) so I pulled away from her and ask what she was doing well she didn't really answer me so I just let it go and then she left. Well she came over again tonight and we were sitting on the couch and we started talking again she then went and got a drink from the kitchen and when she came back in she sat on my lap and gave me another one of them kisses and I kissed her back we started kissing each other it really started getting quite hot and then I just stopped. I explained to her that I was having problems with what was going on. She just told me it was hard for her to stop kissing me when I kiss her like that and she couldn't help it. Then she said she would call me in the morning and she left. I am really confused on what this woman wants she tells me she just wants to be friends and noting more she actually told me she was thinking of starting to date other people. I can't figure out what she wants with me. Does she want to get romantically involved with me again? or does she really just want to be friends? I really could use some input on this, if anyone has any suggestions at all I would love to hear them Thanks