marcusoteroman

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Well today, I have a new girl probblem. I settled the thing with the old girl I liked and we aggred to be friends or something. Well now I have a new 'crush'. I met this girl like at the beginning of school. She sits next to me in all the classes I have her in so we talk alot. I enjoy talking to her I am able to make her laugh using my charm or someting. She seems intrested in me as a person but I think she just wants to be friends. Instead, shes seeing some guy who seems to be picthing it a little to hard since all she wants is a fling. Well anyway, I really want to get closer to this girl but I don't know how or what to say plus we both are into diffrent fads (Shes a punk rocker and I'm more...not) and all her friends are BMX type people who like drinking so I don't fit in too well with them, of course I can look all past that. Anyway, can anybody tell me what I can do to get closer to her so I can go out with her?

The girl I like has a job at the same place where I like to go to eat alot. Well anyway, at first I havent seen her in a while so I thought she wouln't like me like she did when we were closer friends a long time ago, but now when she took my order she got pretty excited. (As excited as she could get when working anyway) Still, I dunno if she has act that way in her job or she really wanted to talk to me because she knew I liked onions and I asked her how the job was and she said it was fine. I just want to know how I can get the old flare started again when we were good friends?

Well if you ever read my first ever post, you would know that I wrote a topic (A 2 year crush...) about this girl I liked. We were close friends at first but we just kindda driffted apart or something. I dont see her very often (The last time I even talked to her on the phone was 4 months ago) but I still have great feelings for her. Whenever I see her, we both get really happy and there have been times I felt where I missed to pick up on very powerful signals from her. I think about her almost everyday but she has a BF now so I'm afraid to to call her up or talk to her a her job. Now that I havent even talked to her for such a long time, I don't know if I sould just call her up or move on, which I dont want to do. Should I call her and try talking to her more often and stuff or should I just move on to someone else?

Why don't you just take a chance and just tell tell him. I mean at least until he breaks up with hius current GF. From what I hear, you both seem to care alot for eachother and if he truly is your friend, he wont freak out if he dosent feel the same.

YES SHE KNOWS!!!!!!!!!!! SHE WAS A VERY CLOSE FRIEND.

Well you should wait until they break up. Yeah, I know, picking up on the rebound is probably the lowest thing you can do but trust me, it works. However, don't just walk up to her and say "Aww poor baby lets date" but at least show her you care, then later when she's feeling better then you can ask her, and from the way this sounds, it looks like they'll be breaking up soon. Good luck!

This is gonna sound stupid, but one day, I got really bored so I wrote a note to the girl I like (Same one) and folded it like you would normally fold one to give to someone during class. I have one probablem however, and its the fact that I dont know how to give it to her. She dosent go to school anymore so I can 'pass' it to her. She has a BF so I can't mail it because she forgets to do stuff and she'll leave ti somewhere for him to find if he happens to go to her house on the wrong day. I'd call her but I forgot her number. The only option I have left is to give it to her sister to give to her since she still gose to school, but I dont want to do that since that feels very alkward and she'd probably read it. I just want to know what to do with it...?

This is a hard 1. Well nothing happened yet. You just kissed and told her how you felt about her and she feels the same about you. Now that she told you how she feels and told you that shes afraid to ruin your friendship, perhaps she is being less social with you because she dosnt want to make a move or you to do the same. What I'd do is wait until your 18 like you mentioned and then date her. Hope that helps.

Well it would be to easy for me to say 'ask her out,' which by the way, YOU SHOULDN'T DO IF YOU BOTH DECIDED THAT YOU WERE GONNA WAIT!!!!! *Ahem~ However, that dosent mean that you should limit yourself to seeing her. Go talk to her often and remind her that you both agreed to wait. In the mean time, ask her to kiss you once to see what its like from her. Bosically, just give it some time since you both seem likr you need time, but talk to her often and tell her how you feel often as well.

Well for starters, you shouldn't say he's better than you becasue he looks better or has more friends or good at sports and gets all the girls and all that junk. Your good at your own things, poetry. So if you want her to get to know you and vice versa, do what you do best, wright her a poem. Wright a poem telling her how you feel about her as a friend. Of course, tell her a few things at a time and not everything so you have more stuff to wright about. Eventually, you can wright a poem telling her how you fell about her. If you want, ask her to wright poems about you or just talk to you. This will show her that you really care about her.

Well for starters, you shouldn't say he's better than you becasue he looks better or has more friends or good at sports and gets all the girls and all that junk. Your good at your own things, poetry. So if you want her to get to know you and vice versa, do what you do best, wright her a poem. Wright a poem telling her how you feel about her as a friend. Of course, tell her a few things at a time and not everything so you have more stuff to wright about. Eventually, you can wright a poem telling her how you fell about her. If you want, ask her to wright poems about you or just talk to you. This will show her that you really care about her.

Well she either likes you alot or she's a close friend of yours and feels okay doing those things around you because she's knows you won't mind. But either, just tell her. It seems to me you have nothing to lose, and if she dose get mad or whatever, then she wasn't really a good friend. You can start by asking her if her actions mean anything, then if she says yes, then tell her how she feels. If she says no then shes either playing hard to get or dosent like you. In that chase, just stay friends and see if she keeps doing it. If she dose, then she likes you. Hope that helps.

Well I don't know if this is the right forum but I had a weird dream last night. I always get weird dreams about this girl I like and this one is no different. In the dream, I went to her house and she had a kid sister (She doesn't have a kid sister by the way) who like me like you know how little girls always like teenager guys. Her mom was there too so we were talking about her daughters as she always dose. I like at a picture above the couch she's sitting on and its of her in her graduation robe feeding a baby. I didn't have the heart to ask about the picture and why she was feeding a baby. Her mom continues about the girl I like and saying that she wasn't home and she's still going out with her BF. Then I look to my right and the little sister is sitting next to me. She's smiling and says that she like the time we spent together making some kind of decoration. (Remember she doesn't have a kid sister) She moves out of the way and I see that decoration on the table. It looks kind of like a miniature Christmas tree because it has a steam on the bottom but it spirals to the top. It says words I can't read but they mean something about Love or something. Then her real sister comes out from the hall saying something to her mom but I can't understand what it is. After that, the dream ends. Do any of you know what it means. I hope this isn't too weird for you all...

Darn this guy has some weird @$$ probablems... Well anyway, it sounds like to me he trying to mess with your head. He ignores you but still acts like hes attracted to you, he wants you to think about him like this because he probably wants to confuse you, but I don't know for sure. You should try ignoring him for awhile and see what he dose. If he still acts the way he is now then you should to talk to him and ask to get back together. If he still ignores you then just move on. I hope that helps.

Well hardly, but anyway, there isn't a really good answer since this is so hard. A good question is why did your 1st love and yourself have so many probablems besides the fact that you like to flirt? If you answer those questions perhaps you can figure out solutions so you two wont have it so rough inchase you do decide to get together again. However, if you decide to pick one of the other guys make sure its for the right reasons and not to fill the void of losing your first BF. You should pick one of the guys that you feel most comfortable with and one that you know the best. Just do what your heart tells you.

I have a friend who now lives in Texas so we keep in touch with MSN. Well 4 months go he met this girl on the internet. I never really liked her because she was sort of a B****. Whenever I talked to her, she always tell me that she missed her old BF and that she thought my friend was weird, which he kindda is. I'd always tell my friend not to take this thing too seriously but he say " Its true love!!!! (He's never had a GF before so he has a clingy nature.) Well one day, he comes on all depresed so I ask him whats wrong and he says that she wanted him to leave him alone. She then tells me that she really wants to talk to her old BF and that my friend is weird, that's where I got the idea where she wasn't taking my friend serious anymore. Well now shes decided to talk to him again and my friend is acting as foolish as ever. How can I convince him that she feels nothing for him and to search for a REAL woman? (I tried talking to him 1 on 1 by the way and he wont listion to me)

Well my probblem dates back two years ago. I met this girl in my English class and we sat next to eachother. She was really friendly, nice, and pritty and I on the other hand was quiet, shy, and alkward. I said someting and she laughed then I did something and she laughed again. We did more of the same until we became really close friends. We started doing stuff together and I noticed I was feeling more happy and my mood changed and I even made a few more friends. We always did stuff in class like play stupid paper games, she'd poke me in the shoulder, mention my name and then say 'nothing', talk often on the phone, talk about all the stuff she wanted to do (especially marrage), and a bunch of other stuff I can't think of. Well about 6 months after I met her, one of my friends asked me if I liked her and I said no. However, my friend kept pointing out things I did around only her and nobody else then I realized I really did like her. However, she already had a BF which I became jealous of and she spent more time with him than me. Whenever I got to talk to her alone she make up an excuse after saying 'hey' to me and she'd leave. Well I got fustrated so I stopped talking to her and avoided her altogether. Well after they broke up, we started talking alittle but not as much as we use to. Then summer came and she went to another school. I saw her only once and we talked for a while. We were both extremely happy and we couldn't stop smiling and we laughed. Then she told me she was graduating that year becasue of extra credit and now she has a new BF and I haven't seen her since. 2 years after I met her I can't get her outta my head. What should I do?

What if a girl dose all these things to you?: ~Pokes your shoulder? ~Says your name and says 'nothing'? ~Tells you about her 'private ' parts? ~Makes you stay with her when there is nobody else around? ~Laughs at your jokes? ~Says all the stuff you say? ~Says that you would be a good father? ~Makes you go on feild trips with her? ~Tells you shes going out with someone but was lieing? _________________

Wow this is confusing..... Well you should just tell Saul how you feel about him. Don't worry about your Ex since you arn't sure if they're even close friends. As for that other girl who likes Saul, don't worry about her either and just talk to Saul before she gets him first. If he says 'no' don't worry about it, you just wern't met to be. I hope that helps.

Well to show her that you care, a good way to ask her to a dance is by getting her some flowers. I know this sounds corny but it works. You don't have to go to a flower shop and buy a $12 rose, you can go in your backyard and pick a few and maybe even wright a note asking her to go to the dance. That's the best I can think of.

Well this can answer depending on the fallowing question being answered. Do you know her in real life or is she just someone you met who lives somewhere else? If you know her in real life, then you can just do the gradual friend to lover thing most of us have gotten use to. However, if you just met her on the net then telling her how you feel might scare her off. Instead, whenever she comes on, tell her gradual things like if she sent you a picture, tell her she look pretty or whatever. If you have her email, send her mail offten (like once a week) talking about whatever. Eventually, you'll be able to tell her that she is very intresting to you and tell her how you feel. Anf hopefully, one day, you can meet her. Hope that helped.

Well the best thing you can do is talk to the girl. To a girl, the whole point of 'Mind Games' is to play on emotions they know that a guy has for them and to torment them because they know your afraid of them. By confronting them, they know that your fear is gone but remember not to be aggresive. Ask them how they feel about you and by doing this, they'll realize they have no fear to play off anymore. However, if they continue, then she is either very sick, bored, or she needs to lay of the 'spirits.' Hopr that helped.

This guy might be avoiding you because he might be attracted to you. He left the message on your phone because he probably read your post and figured it was you. He left the message on your phone because he wants you to call him back. What I would do is call him up and talk to him about how you feel and tell him its okay to approch you. I hope that helps.

What about if she: ~Pokes your shoulder? ~Says your name and says 'nothing'/ ~Tells you about her 'private ' parts? ~Makes you stay with her when there is nobody else around? ~Laughs at your jokes? ~Says all the stuff you say? ~Says thatyuou would be a good father? ~Makes you go on feild trips with her? ~Tells you shes going out with someone but was lieing (to get you jealous)? Wow thats alot.....