marcusoteroman

This girl I know (A diffrent one) has been acting weird toward me lately. We were kindda cool last year since she would allways laugh at me and stuff and we would talk alittle and I would mess with her in a playful way. On the first day of school, I see her and I say 'hey whats up' and she says 'hey how are you doing?' Well we shair the same class this year but she sits ahead of me and faces me. (The tables are round.) Well after the 1st day, whenever I'd say hi to her, she just either says nothing or says hi in a unhappy way. Thing is, today, the teacher used her as an example and you know how the class looks at the example. (I was too) But when I looked at her, she gave me a long 30 second stair and even if I turned my head and looked back at her, she was still stairing. All I want to know is if she's mad at me or dose she have something else in mind...

I was just woundering what kinds of signals girls give of if they like a guy. Don't say stuff like 'It depends on the girl' or whatever. Just give me a few signals. Please......

You should try being her friend first. That always a good place to start. If your not even close to being a acquaintance to her yet, just start by saying "hey whats up" to her. If your alittle closer than that then you can ask her to hang out with you more and ask her to do something with her. (like see a movie with friends. etc.) Once your very close then you can pop the question. Of course, don't just say 'lets go out' after the 1st day she tells you your her best friend. Wait at least a month after your in that phase then the chances of her going out with you will dramatically increase.

I wouldn't worry about telling her. Trust me, one thing I know about sisters is that they NEVER keep a secret from eachother. (Unless they hate eachother or at eachothers throgts for their parents attention.) Basically, chances are she knows. Now its your time to act. You can tell her how you feel (which she knows) because if you don't, she'll think your either a coward or you don't really like her. If you don't tell her, you'll never know how she feels for you. If you do tell her, be yourself and don't become aggressive and don't expect any one answer (like don't tell yourself 'she'll say no') because you'll be in the mood in whatever answer she might give and you might scare her off. Just do what you heart tells you.

Well about lieing, there are two things you can do. 1.) Take her on Jerry Springer and have her take a lie decetor test. 2)Trust her. Like I said before, if you love her then you'll forgive her, and trust her as well. If she truly loves you, then she'll trust you'll forgive her and she'll tell the truth, but if she dosen't you'll know if she dose it again. Of course, if she's obviously lieing then you'll just have to let her go unless you want to get hurt again. Just do what your heart tells you.

If you love her as much as you say you do, then I wouldn't sugest 'dumpping' her in any way. However, you can't avoid this probblem either. The best thing you can do is ask her why she did it. Don't comfront her in a aggresive way, come off as being forgiving and nonthreatening. Talk to her calmly and justly. Chances are, your friends and whoever else could be playing a trick on you. (keep an open mind 8) ) But if she did do it, well sometimes love requires forgivness so if you truly love someone, you have to forgive them. However, if she dose it again, I can't advise seeing her any longer.

You might remember that I made the post 'A 2 year crush...', well this is kindda a fallow-up or whatever. I'm convinced that I should tell her how I feel but right now, but she currerntly has a BF and since she already graduated, she dosen't go to school anymore. Well to make a long story short, I don't know if I should tell her how I feel. I have her number and I know where she lives but I don't know if its a good idea to tell her how I feel since she has a BF. Should I? Another thing is even if they did break up, I wouldn't know. Now what? (please answer BOTH questions if you can.)

Well my probblem dates back two years ago obviously. I met this girl in my English class and we sat next to eachother. She was really friendly, nice, and pritty and I on the other hand was quiet, shy, and alkward. I said someting and she laughed then I did something and she laughed again. We did more of the same until we became really close friends. We started doing stuff together and I noticed I was feeling more happy and my mood changed and I even made a few more friends. We always did stuff in class like play stupid paper games, she'd poke me in the shoulder, mention my name and then say 'nothing', talk often on the phone, talk about all the stuff she wanted to do (especially marrage), and a bunch of other stuff I can't think of. Well about 6 months after I met her, one of my friends asked me if I liked her and I said no. However, my friend kept pointing out things I did around only her and nobody else then I realized I really did like her. However, she already had a BF which I became jealous of and she spent more time with him than me. Whenever I got to talk to her alone she make up an excuse after saying 'hey' to me and she'd leave. Well I got fustrated so I stopped talking to her and avoided her altogether. Well after they broke up, we started talking alittle but not as much as we use to. Then summer came and she went to another school. I saw her only once and we talked for a while. We were both extremely happy and we couldn't stop smiling and we laughed. Then she told me she was graduating that year becasue of extra credit and now she has a new BF and I haven't seen her since. 2 years after I met her I can't get her outta my head. What should I do?