LorenaLee

Hi there NATASH24! I understand this situation and it can be very easy or very hard. Go out and meet new people at places that you enjoy to do things so that they have the same interests as you. Also keep and openmind I know that it can tend to be hard to meet someone new when they are not just like your old friends, but you will find that there are people in your exact same situation trying to the same

I would just be honest with everything be funny when the time is right. When there is something that you feel strongly about or are serious about say it and show it through your actions. Nervousness usually comes from a fear..what are you fearing here?

wow i wish i could help you on that one but it was too confusing!~

Wow I know how you feel that must be hurting you. This is how I see it you were just about getting through this and hearing that put you over the edge. Your being tested to really see if she is right for you. Do you still want to be with her? Or was the date a good one? Just know this...beore you get back together know that YOU can accept what she has done, otherwise it will ruin the relationship a WHOLE lot more.

Wow what a story!! Well please make sure that you do get the morning after pill you dont want to get pregnant at 16!! Before he puts the condom on mext time make sure that his penis is that wet or anything. Also make sure to leave some space at the tip for his ejaculation to go so that the condom doesnt break. Good Luck

I am in your girlfriends position that is why I said that. If you are doing all those things that I don't really see what the problem could be....maybe you guys need to sit down and have a good rational talk Good Luck

Wow that had to suck....of all the things you were hoping it was a mistake.....agh! Well do you know him well enough to know what he is feeling by the way he sounds? Do you think that maybe you have had enough time apart yet.. I would wait a few days then maybe write him and email about how you felt about the phone call and how you feel now...Good Luck

Wow I am sorry to hear that you have had these feelings for such a long time. I know how it feels to be suicidal I have been there, but I know that you do have hope. You sound like a very caring and compassionate person. With music ability too!! That is awesome!! Just a thought..have you ever tried some sort of counseling? Like maybe Cognitive Behavioral Therapy? I have done some and although I dont know if it worked that well I do know I found out a lot about myself andI was able to share many problems of mine with someone. I am thinking that mabye there is a reason that you have always felt so lonely and depressed...maybe you can find out why you are getting those feelings. Have you tried exercise? That might be another idea. If you needsomeone to talk to get my aim or msn messenger I will chat with you..please dont let this put you over the edge again...you could be the next famous write for all we know!! Cheer up! Oh and to answer about why maybe she didnt write back...I am thinking that it might be better this way..you shouldnt have to pour all your feelings out to someone who cant return that to you....friends maybe ?

Hi there I will try and keep this as short as possible so that you dont get bored!! Well I have been dating a guy now for 4 years and we have been having problems. Well I caught him talking to one of my girlfriends behind my back through email. It turns out that he was talking about me and how he had a crush on another girl. Well my "friend" never told me about it and I was very upset. So I dont trust her at all anymore. Well we got in a fight about it and I havent talked to her in a while. She messaged me a few days ago and wants to talk again I am still unsure of the situation. Well it turns out that she is talking to my bf again...what should I do? I dont trust her AT ALL! He just says its nothing....well ther it is!! Thanks!

Wow I can relate to this. I am your girlfriend lol...that is happening to me RIGHT now. Some advice that I could give you from my perspective would be, you need to make her feel like she is the only one. When you are talking and hanging out with other girls invite her....tell her a little bit that you love her and stuff in front of these girls. Make sure that it is known that you are taken and are in love with her nobody else. Just reassure her Also think about if your relationship has changed since the beginning maybe you both have began to feel so comfortable around eacother that you have stopped some of the cute stuff that you have had in the beginning...dunno just something to think about. Good Luck and message me when you get a chance if you would like or reply....

Well I am happy that you got that off your chest it seems like you needed too

I thank you greatly for taking your time to write all of that to me. I am in tears right now knowing that everything you said is pretty much right on the money. I do deserve better and I am a totally different person because of this relationship. 5 years is a very long time so yes that is why it has been so hard for me to let go. Somewhere along the line I have lost my self worth and feelings and let him take them and play with them. I do need to grow, go exercise, and do all those things. Thank you again OMG you have helped me tremendously!! Hey if you happen to have any messenger services check my profile and get on AOL or MSN so that I could chat with you. THANK YOOOOUUUU!!!!

wow in a way i kinda feel like your gf. Well from my perspective I would just believe that maybe you have done something to make her not secure. Do you make it a point to talk about her highly and let people and women know that you are happily taken? That is just how I would think you could improve things. She also could be depressed too so maybe that isnt helping. I can act the same way sometimes just try to put yourself in her shoes. Hearing about the strip club the lap dance and the exfriend thing...makes me think that has EXACTLY happened to me. So those few things could definitely fuel her jealousy. If you didn't tell her the truth about some things what else are you hiding? You know? Get on my AOL (if you can) without getting in trouble....boardgirl987 I would love to talk to you or her...

First off the basics...I have been dating a guy for about 5 years now. I have cheated on him once when we broke up and he has cheated on me via computer relationship. We both have came a long way through everything possible and I love him more than anything else. I do absolutley everything that I can to make sure he is happy my life sadly revolves around making him happy. Well, things have happened recently to make me believe that he isnt all about just me anymore. It makes me crazy. He started talking to this 14 year old girl (he is 21) and she rollerblades and he does too and he wants to teach her. Well he invites her to a skating demo of his and I meet her and dont like her. I walked in and he was walking with her alone towards me and I hadnt even arrived yet. Anyways I just ignored her because I thought she was fake and she acts very weird for being 14. So during this demo she was around him more than I was that pissed me off....Well the next day come to find out she wrote my boyfriend a email about how stupid i was and i am a b**** and yada yada yada mean things about me. I will have you know I was not mean to her at all didnt say anything mean or anything....Well my bf had opened up this conversation with her come to find out...he was apologizing for me being mean to her. He was talking bad behind my back...He says its no big deal and not to worry about it and when I try to talk to him about it he ignores me. Am I wrong here? I don't know what to do? This isnt the first time that he hasn't stuck up for me...please please help!