Braidy Jones

My ex has just called me after 2weeks, as this is when we last spoke even though he broke up with me 5weeks ago now. The thing is my phone rang and as i were about to answer it, it went off. I then checked to see whos number it were and it were his... my hearts started beating really fast, my hands started to shake too, i started crying. As i think about him everyday and still love him etc (if you read my previous post my heart waits upon an answer please help you'll understand the whole situation better). And were thinking Id go see him in a months time and see how he felt about me then as he were confused when we broke up about what he wanted etc. Anyway it took my 25 minutes to pluck up and call him as i didnt know what to say etc i thought maybe hes calling as he might want to drop off the rest of my things? i dunno. His phone just kept ringing and as i were about to put the phone down he answered it asking me hy i were ringing, i said you rung me but i were in the shower so missed your call hesaid he'd rung me by accident, so i replied ok then bye.. i didnt put the phone down straight away but nor did he then i put it down as id said bye already. I wished id aksed him now how he is doing etc but didnt as he made it out that id rng him first even though he rung me. I think maybe he wanted to say something or for me to ask how he is etc, im not sure what do you make of all this? I still love him and do want us to get back together again.. PLease give me some advice? Thank you

You must speak to him and tell him how you feel and tell him that if things dont change and he if he doesnt stop lieing you gonna leave, as you can live ad have a realtionship like that. Hope all goes well

Be a friend and be there for her no matter what. Friends are a true link to the past and the present as they all help to make up the person you become.

Me and my ex were together for 2yrs and 9mths and its been 5weeks that he broke up with me. Im finding it hard and amd just living in hope that if i give him time hell come back to me. He broke up with me as he doesnt want to be in a realtionship anymore. I understand were hes coming from as we are young and have missed out on things beening together for so long, biut thiswas our first love, im 19 and he 20yrs old. I asked him whether we have a chance of getting back togther in a few months or so if i give him time and space to sort his head out his reply would bei dont no what i want, there isnt any1 esle he actually wants to be with and loves me to bits. Bascially he wants to be a lad as be able to do what he wants, we said we'd leave it 2months and see how things were between us then but i couldnt do that i found it hard and have called him 3/4 times and been over to see him at his house 3times too. He says that, thats does help as its making it longer for him to know what he wants. As i guess i arent giving him the time we said we would have from each other. But the thing is last monday i spoke to him as he said that if were to have meet now that id be the girl he'd wanna marry, id be his wifey as im the sweetest girl as he would have done whatver when younger. But at the moment hes liking the attention hes gettng from girls etc. I respect him for being honest with me as he could have just ate his cake and had it all by cheating on me and still being with me as, but i know he hasnt cheated on me as i said to him you can do what you want if we stay together with whoever as he said no i wouldnt ever do that to you, id hurt myself knowing know much id be hurting you... But i dont know what to do, i pray every night that in due time we'll get back together but i dont know what to do. Im thinking if i give him time he'll come back to meas he'll realise that beeinig single isnt everything. But it annoys me that he doesnt give me a straight answer about whether there is a chance we could get back together and when i ask him whether he still loves me he doesnt answer what does that mean? Its been 5days now that i havent txted nor called him and im gonna try keep this up until the end of october which is when our 3yr anniversary would have been and im gonna ask him then to give me straight answer as it would have been a month that we have no zero contact. Thats if he doesnt contact me before that or if we bump into each other on nights out at uni. But what do you think hes feeling? do you think hes gonna come running back to me? I need some advice, hes on my mind everyday and its killing me inside.... what do you think hes feeling?