tattoobunnie

If you move out, she gets zero. $1300 is too much, and unless you are getting married, your finances are none of her business.

I stopped involving my mom with anything medical since I was 16. It is your body, and your choices. If she is there for you with everything else, then I would let it go, since this is an matter for you, not her.

So are you okay with your kids doing DMT regularly throughout the day with him? No kid is happy around an adult that is doing drugs throughout the day, every day. Think about it. This man has zero coping skills other than with drugs. This is not a safe and healthy environment for your children even if your divorce was awful.

Wow...please don't take any offense whatsoever, but have you ever been tested for ADHD? Your post is a sounding board of symptoms of having ADHD. The rejection dysphoria; the disinterest, the all or nothing thoughts. Coffee actually letting you chill and work. Being diagnosed will honestly help with adulting and life. For me, work till you don't have to or it doesn't make sense. Never rely on one source of income.

By myself, nope. If I am not interested, it's just a wave hello from across the way.

That is who she is, 100% of the time. It's very hard to stuff it down after a few months. Their abusive selves show more as more time goes on. I once dated a guy who planted some random condom in my car to see what I would say when he accused me of it being there. I wound up having to get a restraining order from him. There's a reason why they make us watch the Shaken Baby video before leaving the hospital with your newborn. People like your current sweetie aren't sweet people; they are insecure and abusive.

You've learned from your past, and understand your needs now. It opened you up to finding the right person for you, or your mind can recognize what works for you and why. You are where you need to be. That's why it works. It only takes one to make it right. Good luck with your upcoming procedures!

hell yes!

Because she may have checked out of the marriage long before they separated. My friend started dating her current boyfriend a few months after separating as well, and have been happily together for 3 years now. Her ex-hubs hadn't touched her in 3 years prior to separating. She was done. In some states, including ours, you must be legally separated for a year before you can file for divorce.

It happens. If your kid has never bitten or been bitten in daycare, then you are among the very very few. Two boys, full time daycare for both; biting happens because they are unable to communicate big feelings. You just address it, and give them love. They pretty much aren't biting other kids for fun.

Have her visit, and introduce her to your family. Then, you will know. And the fact you don't know how she would be yet, do you really love her? You love a person for all their crazy and awesome.

Ask her to grab coffee or something to eat, just the two of you.

Yes, definitely this! Little kiddos need special time too to feel loved. Having them "shop" pick out gifts for eachother also helps the transition too.

She's not your mom. Why don't you reach out to her, and invite her to do things? Why do you feel you are entitled to be treated like her child?

Read up on Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) They aren't motivated by sticker charts or treats or positive affirmations or time outs. Definitely get him evaluated by a developmental pediatrician.

Her yelling and throwing is reactive from you yelling and throwing. What you are doing is abuse. Abusers always say "we both do it" to avoid accountability...I would suggest counseling for yourself, and work through your own issues.

First they start off with grand gestures. Then, they nitpick your clothes, hair, what you eat. Then it's who you hang out with, your family. You are in an abusive relationship. Please let your friends and family know what is happening. Then, slowly pack your things, move things over to a friend or family member slowly, then one day when he's off at work or whatever, move everything else, and don't look back. Watch the movie, "Alice Darling". It's not love; he just likes the control.

Talk about an entitled friend. Even her own doctor or family do not have to "check up" on her. What was she expecting? For you to drop everything, and bring her soup? I've had friends like this who thought I should be able to read their mind. And those rich people are her employers, not friends. I have never had to babysit or do errands for friends.

There is no such thing as a free lunch. And there is such a thing as compulsive liars. No one needs to pay your bills; take a money management course, and live within your means. Get a second job. Strangers don't offer to pay your bills; it doesn't matter how long he's been cyberstalking you. Now that he got your goods, he can bail at any moment. Read about George Santos.

She is jealous and deflecting. I would just take a break from her. Don't enable horrific behavior.

I never tag my hubs. Married well over a decade, and I post a ton of photos. I would just tag yourself, and call it a day.

My family has sponsored about 50+ families over the decades to bring people to the US. The fact they you automatically think she stinks, you may want to reconsider the relationship.

You've never met her, but already assumed she's a giant child and a burden? That's sad. She made your girlfriend the woman she is, so I guarantee she's probably fricken awesome, and you'd be lucky to have her as a MIL. And, I am not sure why you can't share your hesitations on the situation. You bought a house with her. Speak your mind. Either way, you don't just become come to the US and stay. There's a lot you need to do, also with a ton of money to sponsor someone.

WOW! Tons of hugs. If it helps, 1 out of 22 people are psychopathic. And, we come across them regularly. Several of them are married with kids like Ted Bundy. The Gilgo Killer that just got arrested, Rex Heuermann, who by the way, I know people who knew him. My buddy is related to Joel Rifkin. I think you should go play the LOTTO like now, because you are one lucky duck!!

What?! 🙄 Guess he's not exactly the type to get his hands dirty to go camping or be spontaneous. And he didn't follow up with another date to get something to eat. He sounds like a GIANT SNORE. NEXT!