rafanada

Thank you everyone for your responses. Now I have to think about it all. It will be a long night walk.

Yeah this is exactly what brought me here. I am generally a very optimistic positive person and I have fixed lots of people. One of my close friends and my actual brother, both were really depressed at one time, I helped them set their life together. So I just think maybe if she is a genuinely good person, I could help her out.

Would just like to add that we are both religious so in that context it's directly marriage when we meet. I am in a different country right now studying for my degree.

Not met in person ever. Not met each other's family. Not an arranged marriage. We are both religious so that's why I mentioned we will officially marry when we meet each other. It's supposed to happen in a couple of years.

We have not met in person ever. Her biggest complaint about people is that everyone makes her do all the work. Be it her grandma at family home or the girl she shared an apartment with. She says everyone takes her being good for granted and she ends up being the housemaid. Her parents have had marriage problems and she puts the blame entirely on her father. She also frequently rants about how men in general are evil but she always says you are an exception, a good man. Also, she has been suicidal before and once attempted suicide but stopped when her mom begged her on the phone. She is exceptionally moody too.

Hi, I (23,M) am in a LDR with this girl (23,F). She is from a different country. I have known her for 3 years. I really love her but it has been bothering me that she does not get along with anyone be it her family or friends irl. She has been living alone now for some time and talks only with her mom not more than once a week. She maintains no contact with her dad, siblings and rest of the family. She frequently tells me about how everyone around her mistreats her. She is very comfortable around me and I try my best to uplift her mood. But this thing has been on my mind now for some time. How is it that everyone around her has a problem with her. Could it be that she is a person who doesn't get along with others. This worries me as I am very close to my family and when I do marry her, my family will try to become close to her. This may cause a lot of problems later.