Anthony81J

I’m not looking too far into that she already said her daughter had a father and she doesn’t expect me to take on that responsibility. Just be a kind positive role model and keeping her mom happy and supported emotionally is all I am looking to do. who know where it will lead.

I get it, I am not worried and look fwd to it none of it really concerns me

Wat are you going on about? How is any of it alarming settle down

I have nobody I put lotsa work into myself since I got MS in 2017 and I know I’m sacrificing a Childfree life but I’m not going to shy away from it. But again I’m just dating time will only tell

She already slowed down with me we communicated it out we’re on the same page about that until a year or more we will see where we are. we agreed to just date wen we can and introduce me to her daughter wen we are both comfortable. date for a year and just enjoy our connection im not thinking too far ahead here I’ll meet the child wen I meet the child and I’m sure we will get along really good. staying positive here not many major concerns the more we see eachother the more I learn give it a solid year of dates

I embrace it and everything it entails I’m not worried about that really too much tbh opportunity to grow as a man and a person I see the positives

Well I’ll be involved yes, just not a dad

Wat why? It’s established I’m not there to father her daughter she has a father for that but I can be a positive supportive to her mother and to what’s most important to her (daughter) Kinda works for me. I stay in my lane. The dad is the father I’m in no way going to cut his grass

I don’t understand. our connection I can’t pass it it’s pretty notable to me and her. We are very similar in alot but not in all I take heed of that and flows naturally it’s very new and exciting territory for me

Yes of course I do have some idea wat dating a single mom is all about but it works for me with her. I embrace the fact I’m not her no.1 priority wen it comes down to It but she has a great attitude that she makes the time for both, I do step back cause her daughter in number 1, I get that but also look at the positives for me and growth personally to help her mom and create a positive loving environment for everyone. I’ve totally changed my view on dating a single mom cause every situation is different and having her parents as a solid support system is big.

We only be seeing each other for almost a month, saw her 5 times. We been to each others homes I slept over twice now her once. We text a little every other day. But ya in person dates get planned and I pick her up and we hang out and talk more

She has custody of her daughter all weekdays and every other weekends she pays child care but now after school care and her parents are a really big help she says. She moved wen separated into her mothers but settled down in a condo of her own. all green flag after flag in Canada 1 year separation the can file for divorce. Perfect to date every two weeks and maybe a few weekends for a year taking super slow that’s my play everything seems to be lining up in a really exciting way

Well thank you, exactly why I’m posting to get feedback it’s helpful

I am CF and she doesn’t expect any fatherly duties and I ain’t gonna play daddy, *** that just make a good friend and watch a little girl grow up. And maybe get serious but that’s too far in the future

Smoker alcoholic husband who really didn’t care about his baby daughter she did all the heavy lifting taking care of her and still never appreciated or valued with verbal smart remarks wore her down from her douche bag husband sounds like a real goof she also put the down payment on their home and lost alot it seems but bought a new condo which I love she’s got her *** together more than me I dealing with MS which ravaged my finances but I’m in a muuuch better place since 2017 her marriage she was done with for years. she doesn’t bad mouth her ex or talk trash never brings it up unless I ask about it. Looks like she is well established and emotionally healed. however I’m just dating like every 2 weeks, until her divorce is finalized then I’ll see