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lololol. it happens to most girls. well once i was going down on my girl and she farted in my face. ... the real deal. she kinda cried cause of embarrassment but we laughed it off eventually. 21

who's fault is it if a girl cheats on their bf? scenario: the "bad guy" hits on your gf knowing that she's in a serious relationship, goes off, gets drunk together, has a wild night. And you know how the rest of the story goes. ok cause i beat the hell outta the guy my ex cheated on me last yr. just a question i had. And yes, i did take her back.

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yea, i do use my hands but it does get tiring after some point.

1)does using a vibrator really help a girl get an orgasm faster during intercourse? 2)any guys out there, how do you feel about your girlfriends using it during intercourse? 3)how long does it take for a girl to get an orgasm using a vibrator compared to only penial penetration+foreplay(given) ?

she just called!!

my ex-gf and i have been together for 2 yrs. We love each other very much and I guess we still do. She broke up w/ me b/c she said she wants to experience life w/o me figure stuff out for herself so i decided to give her space. I'm 21 and she's 19. We broke up 2 months ago and I haven't seen her in a really long time. We started to talk a few days ago and she said she loves me which came to me as a surprise. Ok, the thing that confuses me is that she never calls me, she says she wants to see me and loves me but she never calls. So now being the one trying heal, I never called her either. Right now i'm sitting here wondering why she isn't calling me if she misses me, loves me, etcs after being apart for 2 yrs. What should I interpret for her actions? I feel that there's a lil hope in us again but I don't want to believe it since I do'nt want to get hurt and be in depression. 21

Watch if she smiles whenever she looks into your eyes. This is a dead giveaway she is interested. Other then that look for how often and for how long she touches you when you're not alone with her.

Ladies. . . Does size really matter? And what would be a good size you'd be satisfied with? And do girls get intimidated if it's too big?

This is pretty off topic from your problems. . . sorry I can't be of any help, BUT have you ever had sex while high? If so, how does it feel? Is it better than being sober?

Hi, i see that you're going through a very difficult time right now. Let me share a little bit of my story and i'll give you my advice i'm using. I've been with my ex for nearly 2 years, our anniversary's 8/21 coming up really soon. I've been apart from her for 2 months and now I guess I'm kinda seeing her again but who knows what will happen or what guys she has been with, for me that's not the issue; it's the love and emotions I'm really focused about. Ok, she cheated on me last september and I found out because she told me when she wanted me back. She told me she wanted a "break" for a while and I guess after she screwed the guy, she realized it wasn't really what she wanted and she wanted me back. She couldn't even go a week without me. Just like you, I really wanted her back no matter how painful and hurt I was. I believe in 2nd chances so I took her back. Now we broke up again and YES I STILL want her back. This is what I did, and maybe it will help you. Just stop calling her. I know you're probably wondering what she's doing, if she's screwing around, having fun etc. but just try to keep your mind off of it. I know it's VERY hard but it's something you have to deal with. DO NOT LISTEN TO SAD MUSIC! It will only make you suffer even more and make the healing process take even longer. Looking on the brighter side of things, how can things get any worse? Your life can only get better from here. So i stopped calling her, stopped instant messaging her online, no e-mails. She will realize that she loves you and she will feel the emptiness in her life which is you. Let her start contacting you. If she says she still does love you then she'll one day regret it, and in the mean time try to move on, be a better person. Your ex-gf will realize that you can survive without her and she'll start to wonder about you more. By not contacting her you're indirectly letting her know that you're not so needy of her love. It will be hard. I had times where I'd hold the phone in my hand and just think to myself if i should call. One time I got so weak inside I did call and she was having fun, going to the beach, and i felt like an idiot for calling her. Just make sure you're ahead of the game. And you know what? look where I am now. . . Although we're still not together, she told me she loves me a few days ago for the first time after the break up and yes she always contacts me first. And until I find out for sure about her feelings towards me, I guess I'll act upon that when the time's right. Well I hope things work out for you and I wish for the best for both of us. twentyOnE

So you have lost all your friends in the relationship and you're feeling trapped. . . that's not really a positive thing. If you really love this person and you feel that you can't live without him, why don't you take a little break from him and have your own "space". Although I have gotten my heart broken by a girl who needed her own "space" and figure stuff out by herself, I feel that it was a courageous, smart move for her. Before you try to know someone else, you should learn who you are first. By taking time off from him doesn't mean meet other guys or do anything to hurt him, but to learn what you want. There shouldn't really be a time limit and only you should know when you're ready to commit to a relationship again. Hope everything works out and feel better! ~twentyOnE~

so you've been with him for 6 weeks now, do you love him or are you IN love with him. there's a big difference there. Just because you were gone for two days shouldn't change his feelings in a snap. Perhaps he has something on his mind and he isn't comfortable yet to open up to you. You should really talk to him and get to the bottom of this but don't bring up the subject about breaking up or he might get the wrong idea and really pull away. Hope everything works out! Keep your head up.

I have two questions... 1) Is it true that once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater? My ex-gf cheated on me once and i took her back. ended up we broke up 3x times after and this time we've been apart for 2 months. We've been together for 2 years since 8/21/2001. 2) My ex-gf is 19 right now and i'm 21. During our 2nd, 3rd, Last break up she said the same thing to me... "I want to see what life's life with out you. I love you but I'm sorry." What the heck is wanting to see what life is like without me if you're in love? is this frequent break up for the same reason a sign that she wants to live a single life but can't break away from the intimacy we shared? It's been 2 months we've been apart and we're going to be hanging out starting hopefully this weekend since I work during the weekdays. She has never said I LOVE YOU to me ever since the break up until 3 days ago. What signs can i expect that she wants to be my lover or friend? I really do love her and I guess in a way I am waiting for her...

I agree with swing fox on this. You guys are having "fun" without any real commitment and you guys are both really into each other. If you guys are sleeping together and sharing the same room, she must still have that sense of closeness with you. I have broken up w/ my ex for 2months now and we've been together for 2 years and yes we are still very close. I say just take it day by day and not rush into love until she's really ready. If she's ready she'll let you know. You have the whole summer, have fun~ go to the beach, take her out on a nice date. 8)

Here's a lil humorous quote: Love is a sensation caused by a temptation, when a guy sticks his location, in a girls' destination, to increase the population, for the next generation, do you get my explanation, or do you need a demonstration?

What if she tries to touch me or make the FIRST move? what should I do? back off? let things go? I have to protect myself from future pain.

Intro: Hi, Let me give you a little background information about myself. I'm a 21 year old college student and i've been with my ex-gf for almost 2 years and we have been broken up for 2 months. I am currently out of the country in S. Korea working for the summer so I haven't seen her since then. Everyday I'm still suffering inside and is still trying to heal my wounds. The Story: My ex-girlfriend and I have been awesome for the first year. I was 19 and she was 17. Now, 21 and 19. I'm the closest person to her still (closer than her family). We had no major problems and we told each other we were meant to be. During the 2nd year we had some big problems which caused us to break up two times. At the final break up, this is what she said to me. -"i've been with you for the past two years, now i want to see how my life is without you." -"I still love you but i'm using my head rather than following my heart." -"I'm sorry." Now it's been 2 months we've been apart and we still talk occasionally and I try not to call and i NEVER instant message her first. I don't want to come off looking desperate, weak, etc. So right now i'm in Korea working mon.-fri. and she decided she wanted to come visit Korea for the summer so i bought her a plane ticket($880) and as i'm typing this now, she's flying her butt over here. The Problem: See, during the 2 months we've been apart, she's NEVER said I LOVE YOU to me and until recently, she told me that she loves me. During the beginning of the break up, we'd saw each other and hooked up, etc. Now since she's on her way here, I don't know what i should expect. I do want her back very badly, yet i don't want to come off weak and needy. Did she just use me for the plane ticket for a free vacation trip? What made her say that she loves me? I don't know if she's saying she loves me as a person or as a lover. How can I test her to see if there's a place for me in her heart?