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thanks blender i appreciate your advices. i will stop contacting him because i dont want to look like a desperate person . i'll show him that im doing ok and that i dont need him in my life anymore. i'll just go on with my life now. im sure i'll miss him and as time passes by, we'l get over this. i know i will be fine. i know how to deal these. its not it happened to me first time hehe. i know how to do it. it hurts me so much..so much pain inside... im sure in time i'll be healed. i have faith in myself. and maybe in time if its meant to be we'll be back toghhter. its good to have some kinda hope. if we dont then we could be just friends if that is possible. it'll be hard for awhile..but i'll get through this from help from my friends, family, and people here. i probably come here more oftenly with my problems. its good that i could talk to ppl about it. im sure u and everyone know how it feels to loose someone you love so much and care for.. but its a lesson to be learned and an experience for me. maybe it wasnt meant to be for us to be toghther.. we'll let fate decide on this. its so hard to let go of the happy times we had toghhter.. i was reading my diary and the things we did toghther.. put a smile on my face. so its been only 2 days i havent spoke to him.. and i'll keep stop contacting him. i do get tempted cus i see him online... kinda hard.. it'll be okay from a month or two from now.

thanks roasted carrots (cute name, hehe) yeah, we had a lot of problems in our relationship...we both made few big mistakes in our relationship.... i started to snoop around his emails and stuff ( he knows this cus i told him) i feel so bad but i guess him liivn w/ an ex n of course other ppl.... it made me uncomfortable. he pushed me once out of anger... which i forgave him after awhile. im sure he'l forgive me for snooping on his emails. which was a bad thing ive done.. so, i guess for now i'l go into NC for awhile. i'm going to Korea nxt month for 2 weeks. so, it'll be good for me. so i coul d come back nxt year feeeling good n happy thanks all for your lovely advice... its been so painful for awhile..

thanks blendor yeah, i'll stop talking to him.. whether or not he wants to get back with me or not. i need some time to myself to heal from the pain and the loss. i know it'll be hard because i do get tempted to email or IM him sometimes. just like today, i saw him online i was tempted to IM him but i didnt. I just signed off. if its meant to be, we'll get back again.. i'll let fate decide that for me and him. by the way i started to contact him...and not him i do have a question, i wonder why he didnt reply back from my last email?

thanks ! i do want to get back with him but im not sure if the "problem" we were having will be solved. the reason we broke up was because there was too much problem in our relationship for a year! he was living w/ an ex (went out 13yrs ago) although they are friends... i couldnt handle it but i stayed anyways. we argue a lot for a whole year. i became a lil crazy...started to be jealous...and had trust issues. . i dont know how he is feeling abot this? yes i heard about NC... i stopped talking to him from yesterday. i send him an email about saying how confuse i was and stuff...he hasnt replied back.. so i dont know whats going on?

i understand wat ur goin through. bf n i broke up 2 weeks ago.. so im startin to go thru these things as well......as many of ppl tell me same thing.....keep urself busy......go out w/ friends.......and in time u'll get over it.......i know its so hard.......trust me......i cry everyday for the last 2 weeks.. i stop talking to him yesterday..cus it was jus too hard for me.........i know u and i and everyone who is goin thru this....we could make it!!!!!!!!!! maybe u cuold send him an email to say hi? jus see how he is doin but....trust me...it'l be hard if u stil have feelings....u'l get confuse as well as i was confuse too...

my ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago. so its pretty new. we both were in contact briefly last week. we chatted online few times and through emails. we both miss seeing/talking to each other but nothings happening now. so i emailed him over the weekend...saying "im confuse about us two and theres nothing we can do right?" and its pretty hard and im sure if time goes away we will forget about all this and that im not unhappy and stuff. he hasnt replied back. do u think he is confuse too? i dont know what to do now. i havent talk to him all day yesterday and today. im very confused now. he said he miss seeing/talkin to me too.. n he doesnt mind talking to me......do i keep talkin to him or stop? i do want to talk ot him too i feel happy when i do...but when i dont im not ... i miss him so much right now! im goin crazy any suggestions?

im doin ok . car was damaged a lot. but im okay. thanks hey u guys thanks for the reply. i been feeling down all day because of this. i went out with a friend.. i got my pedicure and manicure done hehe. but still in my mind.. im not feeling good. i was suppose to go to a rave club tonight with her and he r friends but.. i do not want to go because i wouldnt be havin a good time and i dont wana spoil everyones fun u know? so i just home. i just got home now. ate dinner. i was out all day today... but in my mind.. still thinks of him .. well, he didnt reply back.. im not waiitng for it..... i'll leave it as is and wont contact him for awhile...mun, u are right.... if he really wanted to see me.. he wouldve came and saw me by now..but nothing has changed... so i'l give it this time and move on.

ok, im a little confuse now.. i knew something like this wil happen . we broke up a week ago.. we didnt talk for 3 days and i gave in and. just recently i got into a horrible accident ( which im okay) so we started to talk again. i told him that i miss seeing/talking to him.. but theres nothin i can do now.. but to leave him alone and not bother him u know? so he reply back saying, im glad ur not seriously hurt from the car accident and that he miss seeing/talking to me aslo. im confused about this? so i emailed him back..explaning about my car accidents and saying how im confuse about us and theres noting we can do now. and also said im sure in time we'l forget about this but im not happy now and i wish i knew the answer. he stil hasnt replied back. im waiting for the reply. i love him so much cus he treated me so good n nice. he showed he care for me like no body else and its so hard to let this go.. i know he feels same way too. what do u guys think about this?

no, im all alone here. my ex was the only person i had. i had few friends but they all moved out.. i have some friends i dont really hang out but they kno wmy situation so i wil try to hang out w/ them. im viisting my father nxt month in korea. so i think it'l help me. i feel very down now.. of everything.. mostly i feel bad snooping around his emails and telling him was the hardest thing i ever did but i had to. guess we both are even right hehe

hello all, as many of u guys read my boring story about my problems. i've decided to move on with my life. i just want to share my story with everyone and what i learn in this relationship. sorry it might be long. I met a guy and fell in love. i havent felt this way in so long. he was the best thing that happen in a long time. and he felt the same way too. we were in love and care for each other alot. we were happy toghether. relationship stared out good but ended bad. we were having too much problems. he was living with an ex girlfriend ( went out 13 yrs ago) although they were close friends. i was threatned by their friendship. i wasn't okay with the situation but i stayed anyways. my ex and i always stick by and work out the problem. the problem was it was never fixed or solve. i started to get jealous of her and him. i started to loose trust in him. i started to snoop around his stuff. things got bad and one day outof the blue he pushed me. he pushed as a guy would push another guy in a fight. from that point on, i was shock that how could someone u love do this to you? so i guess him and i are even. he pushed me.. and i snoop around his stuff without asking him. we both made mistakes in this relationship. we argue everymonth because i always start it. i shouldve left when things were getting bad but i stayed because i loved him. i forgave him for pushing me cus i loved him. he was a sweet and loving guy. he was always show how much he care and same goes for me to i showed him how much i care too. i guess things happen for a reason and i guess it wasnt meant to be. maybe in the future if its meant to be we will end up toghther again. i learned in this relationship that i f things arent going good i should just put my foot down and leave. and for my issues that came with it (jealousy and trust) i will work on that so i could be prepared not to do that in my next relationship. i am sad and upset that this happened between us. i cry still now. i know that i wont get back with him again or see him ever again. i wish i could change things to make it better but maybe i could if fate gives me another chance. i know my ex is still in love and care for me.. he doesnt show it though but i could sense it. maybe i could be wrong. We are had our good times toghhter. we went to a lot of places and stuff. great memories. i just want him to be happy wherever he is. its really hard to let this go since we were happy at one point but things got out of hand. we started to briefly talk a little yesterday and he did say he missed talking to me. i know i should stop contacts for awhile until i am over him. i am still deciding that now. i still love and care for him and it'll take awhile to get over it. i feel very bad that things happen like this. but i guess it wasnt meant to be.

im in the same situation as u. bf n i broke up a week ago cus it wouldn work out we both love/care for each other but it just wouldnt work out.. guess it wasnt meant to be . im tryin to let go of this too.. try to talk to him (friendly way) to him last night. we talked a little..but it made me cry..so i know what i need to do.. its so hard i know what ur going through. i cry myself to sleep n wake up crying.. but if there is fate.. maybe if its meant to be.. u'll be w/ him again but don get ur hopes up though.. so i'l tell u... move on.. hang out w/ friends... do things u like..and then keep urself busy...and one thing u know.. ur already over him!! it takes time to get over someone u love.. some takes weeks, months,, or even years. depedning on that person.. jus take care of urself and keep urself busy .. if u want u can PM me to talk ..cus seem like u and i are in the same boat take care

i decided to move on and do not wish to go back to the relationship i was in. it wasnt healthy for me and him. although , we had our good moments but cant ignore the problems we were having. even if he did came back i would simply say no to him. things happen for a reason and nothing u can do. i do still love and care for him but i know for sure i wouldnt wanna go back to that relationship again. we jus started to talk a lil and will make convo as short. i'll be fine. i wanted him back but then i realize it wouldnt work out. its sad that it happened but what can i do but just to move on!

i wish i thought about that too with my ex bf.. but my emotions took over and blinded everything.

i went through same thing with my ex bf . I had trust issues and jealousy. I was in a situation where i became this. He lived with an ex ( 13 yrs ago) but for some reason i became jealous n didnt trust him or her. and it got worse n worse.. everythin they did i always question them. they didnt do anything wrong but i couldnt take the situation good. so that is my reason why i had trust/jealous issues. its a sickness i tell u. i started to snoop around and i was goign crazy! no trust= no relationship. to build trust. u need to learn to trust urself...

thats a tough one when u and ur ex have new bf/gfs. would u like ur new gf bee kissing her ex? how would u feel? jus becus u and ur ex have some left feelings.. i dont believe that was the rgiht thing to doo. u both jumped the line. its up to u if u wanna get bak w/ ur ex or not.. but follow ur heart and wherever it leads.. just wish for the best.

thanks!!! do u know why he replied back right away? u think hes already over me? he broke it up but i told him i was planning on breakng up too.. so its a mutual break up? i am sad that things didnt work out good cus we were so in love. but it didnt work out. i know that i want him back and stuff but i dont think i wana get into that relationship again it was very hard for me. so do i still keep in touch sometimes ? or jus let fate decide n give time. and just wait til he contacts me?

im 26 yrs old and we dated for 1 yr and 3month

I havent spoke to him for 3 days. and today I decided to break NC and send him an email. i know i shouldnt do it. It was nothing about our relationship. It was something else. I send him a link about baby pandas because he likes those. I didnt expect him to reply back but he did. He wrote: it's no biggie, thank you for the link. I can't see the video tho. I'll have to try it on another computer. feel free to email me when ever John It seem as though he stil wants to be friends, which is cool w/ me. but do u think hes over me already? i mean it was just a week ago. u cant forget someone that fast right? Do i still keep contact w/ him only sometimes not everyday? or not at all? and also, should i reply him back ?

im goin through the same thing too now. all i can say is. give time and space. dont call,email,im, go over their house n etc. give time and move on.. and maybe in the future u could remain friends thats what im doing now. he is the one who broke it up although i was planning too hehe...but he doesnt want to talk for awhile so im goin to give him all the time and space he needs. i know our relationship is over but i do believe in faith and hope. our breakup wasnt that bad.. jus didnt work out thats all. so remember , time heals the pain n give him all the time he wants and maybe one day he'll contact u first to say hi n stuff.

we use to talk online everday for the whole year! and now it feels werid. i do see him online and it makes it harder for me to move on. i block his sn just for the time being. will i ever get through this? and fall in love again? it really hurts so much and i cant stop crying over it. i know our relationship was goin bad cus we had too much problems... i was goin to end it myself too.. but thinking about our good times n stuf...makes it harder to let it go. we are both adults here. im 26 and hes 33. so we both know how to handle these things. our relationship is over and theres nothing we can do about it. i guess it was not meant to be.i dont know if hes feeling sad and hurt too jus like me.. but maybe not. i hope in the future we could still remain friends but for now im going to give him his space and me too. he said he doesnt want to be with me now and that he needs space from the dramas. and maybe later if we both dont find anyone maybe we could try again. i wake up in the middle of the night thinking about him.. and thinking someting is missing. im trying not to stay home as possible because i will go crazy thinking about it. im starting to go back to the gym and work out 4 times a week. and try to go out w/ friends too ( not really in the mood but i gota get away) also, im planning on goin out of the country next month. i hope that will help me through this. so by nxt year, i'll be all new and good. i know it takes time to get over someone and that time heals the pain. im sure me or like anyone out there in this world could do it. we all could be strong. im sure it was hard for him to let me go because he loved/care for me so much. i guess he just couldnt take me anymore. if u wanna depth of what went wrong u could ask me and i'll tell you. i know in time i wil get over him and everything be fine. i do want to get him back but i know getting back now is impossible because the problems we were having. im sure he'l find someone and get married soon because he is at the age now . i want him to be happy wherever he is or doing. if its without me then its fine. if i cant make him happy then i hope someone will. thats all im asking from GOD. to give him happiness in himself and his life.

yeah i posted that. my bf is living w/ an ex n i couldnt handle it . i went a lil crazy so he broke it up. and i agree too. we had too much problmes cus of it. everything happens for a reason right. in my bf and his ex case.. they went out 13 yrs ago so they are pretty much over and moved on but.. him living w/ her.. it wasnt normal to me. if he was living alone and friends w/ her.. i wouldnt mind at all. unless they are over each other...but he lives w/ her.. im sure nothings goin on betweem them... but unfortunately, i couldnt handle it. is it all my fault that this happen between us? cus i was too jealous and havin trust issues? i started to snoop around n stuff he was a nice guy, sweet n loving to me. he treated me so good.. but everythin happens for a reason who knows maybe he wasnt still over her..

why is that? can exes be friends later? just like only talking not like hanging out or anything like that? we use to always chat online and maybe after awhile when we are both over it. we could just chat. i dont think i'l be able to hang out w/ him like friends.... i never had exes that i hang out.. i only talk to them sometimes.

hehe thanks! yeah, time only will tell right? maybe, if he realize how happy he was w/ me (without the problems) maybe he'll come back. if not then oh wells. it was fate.

we were toghther for 1 year and few month.. we were serious but too much problems.. i dont think he'l come back...iono maybe.. he said maybe if we dont find anyone good then we could try again in the future but for now, he doesnt want to.. so that prety much means, its over right? he wouldnt wanna try again right? and also, his bday is nxt month.. u think its ok if i send him an email wishin him a happy bday