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    Yes i know. I'll just stop talking to him and Im sure he'll understand why. He knows that I need time. We dont talk everyday only sometimes but even that makes me feel uneasy. I dont mind talking to him but its just different. I guess i'll just need to start NC and stick with it......plus, i'm going away to another country for 2 weeks this month.. so that'll help me alot. thanks!
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    im not sure..but yeah that is a good idea.....i dont wana tell him that i need time he knows that i need it....but i keep contacting him....so i stopped but now he is contacting me .....and i seriously do need some time for myself.......so i'l keep in touch w/ him sometimes just to say hi....but thats about it. u think thats ok?
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    My ex and i broke up a month ago. we been in contact on and off. Last time, I spoke with him was last wed then he stopped talking to me. So, for 3 days I didn't try to talk to him online. On saturday night, He sent a message on AIM. I was happy to hear from him. So, we talked a little bit and I signed off went to bed. Right now , I change my AIM/Yahoo sns so I dont appear online on his list. So, I wont get tempted to IM him or him sending me messages. I know it sounds stupid and silly but I have no other choice. I dont feel good about avoiding him. I do want to talk to him just how i use to before...but things are different now. So, I don't know what to do. If i stop talking to him then I'll miss him.....if i continue then i'l be happy but probably get myself hurt or something. if he tries to talk to me does that mean he still misses me or isnt over me?
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    i dont plan on getting back with him now.. i mean just want to be in good terms so wecould be friends later or maybe get back later........but i just dont like the idea how he just hang me in there without saying anything...and yes the weeknds are very hard for me..im so use to hanging out w/ him but hes not wiht me anymore. but i'll give some time n space.
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    i got all my stuff from his place few weeks ago. so its cool. i guess i'll give it some time/space. thanks for ur reply
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    aww, hugs...i lost my bf too cus of my trust n jealous issues but then again in my situation it just happened... he was livin with an ex gf (13yrs ago) with other ppl.... i would always talk about stuff n get jealous... i went through everything by snooping around his stuff and etc. terrible thing...... i think we both could relate this problems. so i understand what ur going through....if u want to talk about it more. u can send me message. hope u feel better soon. yeah u gotta move on. thats what im doing now.....but it is very hard.......it'll take some time.
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    Hello all, My ex and I been together for an year and few month. We been having a lot of problems so he ended the relationship. Now, I miss him so much. We were in contact briefly 2 weeks ago. and it was cool. We were having friendly chat online. He wanted to see me and give me something but that never happened because we got into an argument. So, after that I called him up and said we shouldnt talk for awhile becase i need time away from him. he said that was okay. anyways, i kept contacting him online from that point on. he does reply back to me but he doesnt seem like he wants to talk now. i might be wrong but that is the feeling i get. or he could be just busy. last time we talk online was on wed morning. it was cool. we carried a conversation. then i ask him a question about a tv show. he didnt reply back. nor he try to talk to me. maybe he was busy i dont know. so after that i stopped talking to him online. ( he doesnt talk to me too) so its been 3 days of no contact now and i'll keep stop talking to him i guess. i wil move on with my life. but do i give some time bfore i try to contact him again in the near future?
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    i know. i understand the situation very well......and it wasnt good. a lot of dramas and a lot of arguments......its hard to let go.....cus he is the first one for me to actually say i love u too......never said that to anyone.....and he was the best thing that happen to me in such along time.....he felt that way too but the situation ruined it all.....nothing we couldve done or not.....it just happened........ i even had a chance to see him again last week cus he missed me n wanted to see me n give me someting.......i made a big deal out of it n said why give a gift? were not toghthehr anymore....n got into a big argument...now, he doesnt talk to me.......we talk a lil but its not the same ..did i ruin things more as it is? or what? when we were arguing.....he said to please move on and erase all feelings he said he doestn want to confuse me anymore.........isnt that a harsh thing to say?
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    yeah i know. its really hard. i really miss him so much and at times i hate him jus for the cause of the problems we were having.....' i'll give some time and space. thats all i can do now. is give time/space......maybe after awhile we'll talk again......im sure he feels he needs space too..
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    yeah i know. something i wouldnt wanna get back too. so let me ask u this......wat do u think its a reason he jus stopped talking to me or doesnt IM me online anymore? u think he doesnt care to talk to me anymore??
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    well, im sure they are many other options to solve the problem we were having.. i was in a situation i couldnt handle. i guess we both didn have good communication skills. but if i had to change things.. i would be more understanding and trusting him more. but in my situation that is kinda hard...( he lives w/ his ex and few other ppl. (they went out 13yrs ago) i guess i couldnt handle it and i became jealous n had bunch of insecurites. ( that is something i'l need to work on)
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    yeah i could sense that too cus we really love/care for each other but we were havin too much problems..........so he ended it.....and i dont know whats really going on here. he wants me to move on and erase all feelings of him...but ppl say wrong thing when they are sad and upset.......so i dont know. im curious on why he never reply back to my answer and ignored me all day. and so i didnt try to IM him at all. i seriously dont kno what he is feeling or anything. he wont tell me. he did say he missed talking n seeing me a week ago before the argument what do u think of this?
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    thanks. yeah he did treated me well in the relationship..although we were having problems on the side....but overall, he showed he cared/loved me. so i shouldnt try to contact him then?
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    My ex and I were in briefly contact over the few weeks. We been broken since last month. So anyways, we talked on and off . We got into a big argument last friday over something stupid. No, he doesnt IM me online anymore . (We both go online at work) I Imed him this past few days and it seem as though he didnt want to talk to me. ( i might be wrong) we had a friendly chat about random stuff. two days ago, we were talking and i ask him a question about a tv show but he never replied back the whole day. He stopped talking to me. So i stop IMing him online. He still doesnt try to talk to me. I didnt do anything wrong to him. Maybe he doesnt want to talk to me? Im not trying to get back with him cus we both dont want that now. we just want to remain friends for now. Should I just give each other time and space? I dont want to keep talking to him if he doesnt want to u know? I know he still cares for me.. he was there for me when i got into a big car accident two weeks ago and few days ago i got a flat tire n needed help. and one other thing, i find its werid..all his friends goes on AIM and he always sign on yahoo to talk to me cus i normally use that at work.and i am the only one online trust me...but he stil goes on it.
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    ok, thanks i just wanted another opinion on what im doing. i'll back off now.
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    Ok, to make story short. Ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago. It was sad but it wasnt painful. Due to our problems, I was able to feel same way as him by ending the relationship;although, he broke up with me. but it doesnt matter. we were briefly in contact for a little bit and stopped. we got into an argument last friday about something stupid. so i told him lets stop talking cus i was mad n upset. few days later, i had an emergency and called him. and after that i been IMIng him online!! we talk and stuff but it seem as though he doesnt want to talk. I dont mind talking because im not planning on gettin back with him now. He feels the same way too i think but then again im not him so i dont know how he "truly" feels. ok, so do i leave him alone? and let him contact me if he wants? i dont want to look desperate or anything. or shuold i keep in touch w/ him sometimes n send emails every now n then . and should i not IM him online too?? i know everyone says stop all contacts with your exes..or hate your exes and never talk to them again....i even felt this way too........but in our case, it was a good break up. we didnt cheat on each other ...we did however made some mistakes but then again, everyone makes mistakes n u learn from them...no ones perfect. reason i ask this is becus i ask him a question earlier and he sitl hasnt respond......so guessin he doestn want to talk?
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    thanks jayar yeah, i'm sure i'll find someone who wants to be with me. sad, i kinda feel like he broke up w/ me cus i was havin too much problems w/ them.. that is the main reason. i guess i couldnt jus trust him or her........it was so hard for me when i was with him... day and night i thought about many things...gues it just drove me crazy.. guess my ex did me a favor and left me cus he knew i was goin crazy about it.. were both adults here..hes 33 and im 26.... i think we were havin communication problem and we are not that experience w/ relationship...so that is why it didn work out i know my problems and im going to fix them.
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    i never had insecurities in any of other relationship......jus been screwed over many times. yeah i made mistakes here and there......everyone does....no one is perfect in this world......everyone makes mistakes and u learn from them....i was never psycho i was jus havin hard time with the situation and it drove me a lil crazy thats all.
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    yeah i know.....but he still cares for me and i believe he isnt over me too...he didnt want to break up with me....we were jus havin too much problem n he jus didn see a future with it.........( problem was him living w/ his ex of 13 yrs ago) they were other ppl living there too.....but i couldnt handle it....i dont thnk anyone could.....that was our main problem we couldnt solve.......if it was solved.....we were sitll be toghther... we had our good moments n good happy memories......thats all i can live with...our good memories even tho we were havin problems...........he wanted to see me last fri to give me a gift....im sure he missed me n wanted to see me but i didn let him cus i thought it was for the best....we even argued about it ....i did really wanted to see him but didn happen.....i kinda regret it....but i think it was for the best
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    thanks juliana well, i dont mind talkng to him but then again he wants me to move on and wants me to erase all feelings of him...iono if he really meant that.. we were arguing so he couldve said weird things... but i am gonna move on and not talk to him..... i never depend on ppl.....things just happened to me bad this month thats all.... i will call my dad but he is another continent...so no use.....so my ex is only person i am close to... i have no other friends to call... so thats why i called him......im not using him or anything n i hope he doesnt feel that way............but anyways, i strted my NC today... i don wanna look crazy or psycho...........im not sure he'l see me as that cus i was never bad to him n he was never bad to me.....jus had problems in our relationship tats alll.....but yeah. i'l stop contact now.
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    Do i give some time by not contacting my ex at all for awhile....or do i keep in touch w/ him sometimes? Its been 3 weeks now.. pretty fresh...but whenever i said dont talk to him...something bad happens to me and i end up calling him for a help.. i know it doesnt mean anything..but i cant keep my words. i was planning on not talking to him at all for awhile...until i am ready to talk.but then again i end up talking anyways not intentionally only in case of emergency. we both werent happy in the relationship towards the end cus we were having too much problems.. so he ended it. & not so long ago we even argued about something stupid...and were not even toghether... so i feel as if i should give some space/time between us two. but then again, i end up talking to again... i know i need to be strong...but i dont know. do i give some time by not contacting my ex at all for awhile....or do i keep in touch w/ him sometimes?
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    I see my ex online too. I didnt block or delete him.. Its hard tho cus i do get temped to Im him... but I know i'll have to be strong..
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    im having hard time not contacting my ex...but by reading yall advices...i'll try to get ideas...its very hard...
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