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The only way the stupid war on (some) drugs will ever end is if individuals make sacrifices. One such sacrifice is eschewing employers who foster the hypocritical idea that casual drug use is in any way more harmful to an individual's job performance than casual alcohol use.

Burn your credit cards, pay them off and never use them. They are the tools of the devil. A bank checkcard is just as convenient and doesnt charge you 14% interest. I'm sure well disciplined people can handle credit cards, I can't and I'm going to be paying for it for a long time.

Try online dating, the ratio is remakably favorable for women. You will have your pick of dozens less than desirable men! One I like is link removed because it is free and the tests are cool even if you don't do the dating thing.

I think that is a problem and you need to take that into account when you consider your relationship. I personally couldn't be with someone who didn't enjoy sex (at least with me). If she doesn't like sex is she physicly affectionate in other ways like kissing or touching?

Don't work at any job that requires pre-employment drug testing. None of their damn business.

Who the hell wears a watch these days? Would looking at your cell phone do the same thing? People give much more suble clues than that.

Try to fix it now because if you don't you will be haunted by it for the rest of your life...like me. I wish I could give you good advice but I can't, lay off the sugar and caffiene maybe? If you figure it out let me know!

We don't cry where other people can see us.

Thank you for the compliment Mr. Smith, though I wasn't fishing for one, I was merely responding to Freedom's question. As for the insight I'm an internet relationship scholar, and I've read just about everything google can find on the subject. It is a lot easier to present the appearance of being confident and erudite online than it is to be in real life.

Translation "They couldn't get laid in a women's prison if they were passing out pardons."

You didn't say if you were a dude or a chick so I'll answer both perspectives. Dude: If I don't have enough to offer my parter that she would drop her panties for a random doofus who winked at her then it is my fault. It is my fault twice. Once for misjudging her character in the first place and twice for being such a doormat that she can justify cheating on me in her mind. As for me personally I'm a wimpy beta male so as soon as I know a woman is seeing someone I don't try. Not because I'm against the idea but because I'm sure I have less to offer than any other potential mate she might have. Chick: If someone is attempting to mow your lawn it is a compliment to you in your mate choices. If you think your man might be interested in getting something you can't or won't give him then you need to re-examine your relationship. If you think you don't have enough to offer him then maybe you bit off more than you could chew and next time need to aim lower on the relative attractiveness scale.

don't stress over not enjoying a club they are places dumb people congregate for the purpose of inhaling each other's chemical odor producing products and dry humping And to answer you question most people suck and there is no point. However to distract you from that fact here is a cute picture of my cat: link removed

"Men only want sex" is a line women use to intimidate timid men into feeling bad about what is natural. All men want sex, some want more. If a man wasn't willing to sleep with a woman until he was married he probably has sexual hangups due to repressive upbringing.

title says it all

Somewhere along the way I lost the ability to get angry. That was where all of my energy came from when I was younger. I would just dwell on how I never got laid in high school or how my parents screwed me up or or how I was a virgin well into my 20s or how I wasted my life. Then when I was good and mad I would get stuff done, like homework, my job, working out, or whatever needed to get done. Nowadays I've gotten too reasonable to get pissed off at myself or anyone else. I can rationalize anything. I can't blame other people on my situation because there are so many things I could have done differntly to make things better. It just seems like nothing is worth the effort and where I am is my fate, trying to change it just causes misery. Everything that I'm not satisfied with I can just shrug and think that's just the way it is. Is this what getting old is? Things that used to matter a lot become trivial and not worth caring about? And if I can't hate myself for being who I am how can I motivate myself to stop being the generic inept nerd that I had so much contempt for when I was younger?

I'm adjusting my diet a bit so I'm not such a fatass and also removing caffeine to see if I can concentrate a bit better without it. I'm not sure the timer thing would work because I would just do a crappy job of it just to get it done. Then again a crappy job is better than no job at all so I might just try it.

I'm such a crackhead I quit 6 months ago and I still read the forums. Night Elf druid...no pansy pvp easy mode horde for me!

I didnt read the post because it was long and I don't have that kind of attention span...however in response to the title, if someone says "I need space" you can just add to the end of that "without you in it."

There are certain activities in life that you need to do to maintain yourself. But these activities aren't enjoyable or satisfying, they just prevent decay. How can I motivate myself to do all of these activities when I can just change my perspective and be satisfied with the lower standard of living not doing these activities causes? For instance I know I should wash my car at least every week. But I don't feel like it and it gets dirty. I know a clean car would make me look better but when I get the chance it always feels like the effort isn't worth the reward. Same with laundry. I hate folding laundry and putting it away so I just wear it out of the basket. I know it would save time every morning to have my clothes sorted and ready but I just can't justify the extra few minutes of effort. For all you seven habits worshipers these activities fall under the category of important but not urgent.

Better advice...never get married

start by learning how to talk to women that you aren't interested in, like the bank teller and the grocery clerk and the person at the mcdonalds drive through

the best way to meet someone is to be set up by someone you know that way you automatically have something in common (the person who set you up) I have no idea how people who don't have anything in common meet but they do all the time....

Body type that deviates from the socially expected ideal (shorter man/rounder woman) + dysfunctional upbrining (no/bad examples of relationships) + above average intelligence = loneliness

Get too used to living alone and you will have trouble making the compromises necessary to live with other people.

It is quite possible that you make him stiffen up in one spot....look for him to adjust his pants and walk slightly bent over.