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yelloemail

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  1. break up are very hard. they can be extremely hard at times. i have had three really bad ones thus far. each one i thought was just as painful. go ahead and cry and than cry somemore. call some people you haven't talked to in a while - tell them what happened. rent some movies, order a pizza, take a nap, do whatever it takes to feel better. you have the power in you to overcome this situation - i know it!
  2. i broke up with a guy. i knew the relationship wasn't really going anywhere, but, i still feel bad about it. we dated for 4 months and i feel like i knew nothing about him - he was very secretive about himself. i feel really alone right now i know i did the right thing though - deep down inside... anyone else broke up with someone and felt the same way i do??
  3. i am so pround of you.. i know so many women who would just continue with the relationship for dependency reasons. you, however, are an independent woman that is VERY smart! personally, i feel as though you should get him out asap. what a jerk to take advantage of you like that. i wish you well - i know you will make the right decision since you are so smart. good luck!
  4. to be completely honest with you, it sounds to me he just wanted to have sex with you. maybe i am being stupid, but, i really got that feeling..
  5. wow, you have a lot going on in your life. my personal feelings on this girl is that you should just leave her alone! it sounds like you really care for her, but, does she care for you in that way? don't you want someone who is crazy in love with you that would never want to break up? do you think the relantionship would sustain in the long run? you sound like a nice person that deserves better. be patient and your time will come!
  6. wow, what an ultimatum! my gut feeling, and remember i am not you so i don't know how you feel, is don't get married to him. using an untimatum, in my opinion, is a cruel thing to do. a man once gave me one and thank god i didn't do it. this is something you really have to think about. if you have serious doubts, than you know in your gut what is right. have you ever considered counsoling to figure out what is going on in your head? that might be a very good investment for your future.i mean that in the kindest way. heart break is hard and it sounds like you had a lot in your past relationships. i wish you well and hope you make a wise thoughtout decision.
  7. i really feel in my heart that what you are seeing in the mirror is just your normal anatomy. please don't get worked up with what you read on the internet about sti's. what i mean is, get tested, get the results and that is it. don't make this worse by working yourself up about the possibilities of what can happen. most likely, you are fine! really i mean that. women have cysts down there that are totally normal. i will say a prayer for you.. please don't worry about this - get tested and leave it at that!
  8. shy soul.. i have read many of your posts and let me say you are very very wise for you age. are you going to work in the human services such as a social worker or a counselor? you diffinately have a great gift that god has given you. i wish you well!
  9. you really made me feel better already! thank you i really appreciate it.. have a great day!!
  10. what struck me about your post is that you moved in with someone rather quickly after being married for ten years. it sounds to me like you really never spent anytime single so you can get to know yourself. getting married at 18 is very young. you have a lot of time to have children still. play it safe and meet the right person to get married to and have children with. it is much nicer to be single than to be with someone you aren't supposed to be with - believe me!
  11. i just want some outside insight from you guys. lately, i feel as though my life is so confusing. i have been dating a man for the last 3 months. my gut feels like i should end it. he is in his thirties lives with his parents even though he has a really good job (redflag?). i just feel like i will never ever find a good relationship. i go from boyfriend to boyfriend getting bored with each one. i feel like i will die single and alone. i also am getting jealous of friends who are getting married and having children. anyone have any insight to make me feel better. i am pretty much positive about most things in my life, just with men i feel as though i am out of luck in that department. i need a pity party... jk
  12. i know what you mean. many of my friends that are married try to set me up with the first man they meet who is single. many times i have felt almost insulted by some of the men they try to set me up with. one friend even tried to set me up with her husband's friend who just got out of prison.. give me a break!!!
  13. no, i would not worry about the age difference! i myself like dating older men. you will always be the hot younger wife no matter what age you are...
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