I've been here before -- about a year ago, but forgot my password -- so now Im back with a different name....
I went thru a divorce about a year ago... my husband for 10 years went out one night and didnt come home. moved in with my best friend at the time. 5 months after he left me they got married.
I was married at 19, we'd been thru hell and back together, he had cancer, just before we were married -- he or we fought and beat it. ..we went thru unemployment, college and all the things that make or break a marriage -- and survived it -- making us stronger... or so i had thought...we had tried for many years to have a child naturally, but due to his chemo weren't able to.... before we faced the infertility issue head on we wanted to make sure we were financially stable....
we would have finally been ready to this year... and he had left me a year ago.
well him and his new wife got married and did the fertility thing right away she was pregant by april.
I get home from work today and turn on the news... and there they were , had the first baby of the new year.... god that hurts like hell seeing that. I am so angry, upset, hurt and jealous. That was supposed to have been me. Why when I finally start thinking I can feel better about this all does something like this come up? and most of all why does it still hurt so bad. I want to be over it and him, want to move on with my life. I have a great boyfriend, but these things still hurt. I still feel like a failure that I couldn't make my marriage work. that I don't have a family. and every time i take a step towards healing i get pushed back like this. I just want to curl up somewhere and cry my heart out -- but i am so sick of crying over him...