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yeah watch tv, get on the small couch together, go rent some movies, play on the internet, clean, cook, same stuff, just together.

i say let yourself be naive! the feeling of elation is something to cherish, whether it be real or not, let yourself be happy and not worry about it. if it feels good to you to tell him you love him, then so be it! love is in the eye of the beholder, not something anyone can define. you could fall in love in 3 months or 3 hours.

weird ghosts have cucumber melons

uh what is this?

virginity is a phobia god-fearing people instill into their youth to shy them away from sex at an early age. its really nothing, hell youve probably broken your hymen from inserting a tampon. that thin piece of tissue is the only difference between being a virgin and not for a woman. other than social stigmas and personal thoughts on the subject. personally, i think everyone should be comfortable with their own bodies and know themselves sexually. try masturbating, unless thats something you just dont want to do. the main point of that is to relax, its not something you should be worked up about.

yeah, shes keeping you on the back burner for her emotinal support. shes using you as acrutch for her heart in between her relationships. leaver her alone forever, dont make her chase you.. dont chse her.. just put her out of your mind completely.. i understand you say you cant, but you can. pick up a hobby. what are you interested in? do groups of people meet for these? cause you need to get out and do things, other than contemplate about her. are there any activities that you do that keep your mind off of her?

i agree with bethany, dont be second best to anyone. you're 19. there are a plethora of women who are probably clamoring to get at you. i understand having feelings, but again, youre 19. this is the time to get out and experience everything life has to offer.

foundation for the win~! you wont see anything in a dimly lit atmosphere anyhow.

i still think she was trying to save your feelings. she may have had an inclination of an invite for the festivities tonight. maybe she just wanted to go out tonight and was holding out for the invites. who knows. i mean, youre 18, one nye at home at 18 years old is like.. breaking up with your boyfriend at 18. it pretty much amounts to nothing, you have an entire life to prepare for and youre worried about one night alone? did you spend last night at home alone? there isnt much difference.

typically men who accuse their wife of being unfaithful are being unfaithful themselves. he needs to get counseling for his alcoholism. no doubt he is losing your trust with his story-changing. i hope everything works out for you and your situation. from what i have read, it would seem clear to me that he is seeing, or has seen, another woman. i dont want to sound harsh, im just blunt. you though, are a very strong woman. anything that he has done is not your fault. i would suggest marriage counseling, because, obviously, you love this man. from what it sounds like, you already have your suspicions. again, good luck, i hope for all the best.

i have one piece of advice to situations like this. as per all relationships, you need to let your partner know your feelings, turn-ons, turn-offs.. communication is essential to a good relationship, as is trust. so let him know that you get aroused by dressing in men's clothing. personally, i get turned on when my girlfriend wears my boxers to walk around the house.

haha the bar maiden.. the only way i coul tell that one dug me was that i had left the bar completely smashed and paid a 10 dollar bar tab. i went back and said to her "if you pour me another drink, im going to have to stay at your place tonight".. the rest is hostory.

yeah id say that was over-reacting. people say white lies to spare feelings as well, maybe your friend just didnt want to come over and wanted to sapre your feelings. she should have just been honest with you, saying that she had an invite to go out, and that shed rather be out on nye.