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  1. ONE SXXY LADY
    Rickster, hun I think it's time for you to move on and find other "friends", that aren't rude to you or make excuses why they cannot talk. You've been posting about this girl for months and it's bordering on obsessive, regardless of WHAT you say your intentions are with her. Let it go hun.
  2. ONE SXXY LADY
    I have a couple questions on No Contact . 1) What's a good time frame to expect results on doing NC? Like when does the other person start getting curious about you? 2) How should I react if and when this happens? 3) Should I even bother telling him my plan? Last we spoke things did not end very well. My intention is to get back with this person at some point in time, after I have dealt with my own issues.
  3. ONE SXXY LADY
    BigSkye, No offense but you are acting like a creepy stalker. All the calls, texts, saying you almost KILLED yourself. Thats just pathetic. Why would you DO that to yourself??? No one is worth that statement, EVER. Be glad she did you a favor and MOVE ON.
  4. ONE SXXY LADY
    OK maybe I am the exception....but I HAVE tried to set a guy up I REALLY liked with someone, to see if he would do it or not. I did it to see if he would decline and ask ME out...and since he didn't I assumed he was still "shopping". Why don't you ASK these women if there's a reason they are trying to get you out of THEIR hair? lol...You might find out the truth.
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    Well be honest with yourself sweetie. Is this what YOU want?? I mean you can justify here actions till you're blue in th face but that doesn't change a thing. She is STILL not back with you, is she? The important person here is YOU,NOT your ex. How bad can she want you back if she won't even leave a message when she calls you?? That just says..oh well, I'll call him back when I'M ready, OR well if he sees my number he'll probably call ME back. Thats total arrogance in my opinion. So should you tell her to stop calling you? I would say for the time being ..YES. You have only gone backward since that one two hour conversation, when ALL she gave you were crumbs. Now she's back to her silly phone routine. She is the one who said she would call you last time, so let her. You might even want t consider sending her an email....getting it ALL out if you need to. Then walk away.
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    Some people are selfish and don't realize their actions..or NON actions affect people. Someone can be wonderful but if you have expressed YOUR feelings and intentions and she is still "lukewarm" about you, then I would say..."see ya". Otherwise you will gorw resentful and even feel like she is stringing you along, when in fact she probably does not even realize this. The truth is, she probably expects you to ALWAYS be there, and why shouldn't she?? You have been. Heck she's got it made. A "no strings attached boyfriend"...she doesn't even have to have sex with you... All sarcasm aside.... Make a clean break and find someone who loves and cares for YOU.
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    OCD, You keep making the comment..."I'll try not to make any mistakes"...I'm sorry, but WHERE are YOU making mistakes?? You are merely living your life, nothing more nothing less. NOT answering a phone call, is NOT one of life's "mistakes"..let's put this in perspetive here. If you keep tiptoeing around this girls feelingsYOU are going to grow extremely resentful, I can promise you that. What if you pine for her another couple months, and she STILL doesn't say the words you want? Or worse, she says she just wants to "be friends"? You can try to play it down by saying it wouldn't bother you, but I can ASSURE you , you will be furious. You know why? Because you will have built up all these expectations, while keeping ALL YOUR feelings and thoughts and emotions to yourself.....for NOTHING. Now you can do what you want, because it's obvious you are going to wait until you explode at this girl, and believe me , you will. You can waste another 6 months of your life, or you can get it over with now. Sorry to say that, not to be harsh, but I have been down this road. I am just advising you to not make the same mistake sweetie.
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    You said he just lost 100 lbs? Was he REALLY big before?? Just a guess but this new change could be affecting him. Maybe he's not used to so much positive attention. How was he before? WSas he very sociable? I am not excusing his behavior..BUT it could give insight to his sudden change...
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    Cap... Turn your question into a question posed to you from someone else. What advice would you give THEM? "Maybe I want my cake and eat it too"? This said AFTER you two just had sex? I don't know about you..but that comment would have made me feel like complete dirt (which I am sure it did).... My advice....action speaks MUCH louder than words. If you TELL him he's lost you forever...and then start giving in, and talking to him ..what exacly is that saying to him? It's saying "Regardless of what I said...and how you treated me, if you pursue me enough I will give in". This sounds like a BIG game to him....you're better than that. Aren't you??? I wish you luck no matter what you decide.
  10. ONE SXXY LADY
    Hannibal, If you REALLY want to see her true intentions, then cut her off altogether. She's trying to have her cake and eat it too...who's to say IF you get back together she's not going to start texting the OTHER guy with the same crap?? YOU need to be the one to teach her this lesson...and that she can't just treat people like this and it's ok... good luck.
  11. ONE SXXY LADY
    LOL Annie..I was being facetious.......sorry!
  12. ONE SXXY LADY
    How about a card with a hundred dollars in it Dogg??? She'll think you're the "mack"
  13. ONE SXXY LADY
    Wow Keefy, impressive! You keep doing what you need to do to move on and feel better. Let her know who's boss!!!
  14. ONE SXXY LADY
    The question should be if YOU have moved on....thats one way to gauge their feelings about you. If they know YOU have moved on they will most likely gravitate towards you more...and if they don't you have your answer too...BUT you won't care as amuch.
  15. ONE SXXY LADY
    OCD I think you handled things perfectly. She felt too "pressured" because she had to bring her child??? HUH??? She ever hear of a baby sitter?? Don't feel bad, not everyone you date is going to pan out...it's a numbers game. Also...not ALL guys would have been cool with her bringing her kid on the date. I think it was pretty rude to be honest...she should have asked you first. So please don't let this deflate your confidence......consider it another lesson in dating I think you handled things with complete class. You'll be fine!!
  16. ONE SXXY LADY
    hehehehhehee......Maybe he found a hundered dollars.....
  17. ONE SXXY LADY
    Day 5 of NC ...no word from T or C yet.... The thread is alive and kicking Keefy
  18. ONE SXXY LADY
    But Keefy, are you "hitting the bottle"? Thats the important question...lol
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    Then why did you post???
  20. ONE SXXY LADY
    Dogg, Mail her a card with a dozen roses, that ought to bring her back. NC is for weaklings.
  21. ONE SXXY LADY
    Thanks for those who 'stepped up' for me...I appreciate that, but it's not necessary. I think everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions...without being judged for it. But thats just me. Maybe I should not have implied I was "playing a game"..because thats not my intent. My intent is merely to step back and YES see if they DO in fact intend to pursue further. Sorry if some don't agree with that....although its certainly your choice.
  22. ONE SXXY LADY
    Oh and your suggestion would be?? To throw myself at them and see if that tactic works? How about I wrap myself in saran wrap ...and while I'm at it, bend over backwards to show them exactly HOW far I'll go to get their attention?? Me choosing NOT to call someone is MY choice. It's NOT manipulative. I am protecting MYSELF from getting hurt. If they call they call..if they don't they don;t. Period.
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    LOL thanks red..I appreciate your opinion
  24. ONE SXXY LADY
    Thanks Hubman.... You're right I should have used differently "terminology". My apologies.
  25. ONE SXXY LADY
    LOL Dogg....If I wasn't calling or contacting someone it wouldn't hurt MY feelings if they were doing the same. So again..WHO am I hurting? Now what WOULD be stupid is if I posted here that not just one but TWO guys I was seeing were pulling this "disappearing " crap on me..and I persisted in calling or contacting them...what the FIRST thing I would hear? DO NO CONTACT!!!! NO Contact is a concept ..NOT a law. There is nothing saying you HAVE to be DUMPED to do NC on someone... This is a personal choice....whether anyone agrees or not
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