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  1. Smarie
    I agree with friscodj. Some guys are really shy around other people and dont want to approach a girl with other people around. It sounds like he does like you if he doesnt act like that to anyone else when you two are alone
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    I agree with you 100%. Life goes on. Move on. Dont dwell on the past like that, especially in a hurtful childish manner.
  3. Smarie
    If only I thought like that when I was 16, my life would be so different from what it is now!!! You got a good head on your shoulders. Keep up the good thinkin!
  4. Smarie
    Wow, I really feel for you!! Let me start by saying you tell an excellent story. Sometimes you read stories on here and things are left out and you get confused down the road. lol Well, I know easier said than done, but I would stick through with your plans for divorce. It seems like he is only along for the ride. When its convenient for him, he will come back to you. Forget about what you need or want, its all about him. And on top of all that, to see him making out with some chick right in front of you!!!.....that would be the final straw for me!! Good luck in everything, you are in my prayers!
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    Ahh, the days of partying and club hopping....to be 16 again. But then again, I really wasnt goin to any real club around here at 16 I guess, but now that Im 21, its awesome. To bad I have that whole job thing gettin in the way!!!](*,) Ah well, we all have to grow up sometime. I wish I could still be there.......lol
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    Swing dancing, never tried that one. Really wouldnt mind it I guess. I remember when I was single I would always make arts and crafts things with my mom and sell them at a craft show. I would go to the mall constantly, mostly by myself just to clear my head. And I hung out with my friends alot. Unfortunately when I was younger, when I had a problem with a boyfriend, and we would break up, I would end up getting back together with an ex. I really didnt care for starting over, it seemed like to much work to me and to uncomfortable. Thank god I broke from that stage and actually checked out my options, I never would have found my boyfriend if I didnt and Ive never been happier. The important thing here is that everyone has different likes and dislikes. Whether it be crafts, outdoors, sports, etc etc......you know what you like to do and try to take it to the next level. Youll get farther than you thought, your mind will get all wrapped up in it, and it might turn places you never thought it would go.......whatever it may be!
  7. Smarie
    I think if we all acted on our emotions, then there would be a lot more *couples* out there.](*,) Everyone is always so shy, no one wants to say anything. But you find out in the long run, that the other person liked you too. The best thing to do is to take advantage of your emotions and act on what you feel. You will regret it later if you dont.
  8. Smarie
    Definitely talk to your doctor,....the first thing I thought to was lactose intolerant, but that wouldnt give you a rash on your throat I dont think. Maybe its a little combination of both. Try drinking lactaid and see if that gives you the same effect milk does.
  9. Smarie

    hmmm

    Smarie replied to FamousAmos's topic in Dating Advice

    Rough situation, might I suggest talking to your *friend* about his plan of action to spite you. To me it seems like guys dont care about girls when they are that age, then as soon as one of them makes a comment about any random girl- they all swoon for her and end up fighting over the same chick! lol Well, definitely talk to him about his course of action and let her know your feelings for her. As soon as possible I take it. lol
  10. Smarie
    Hey, I resent that!!!! lmao Im not weird, Im gifted, And spontaneous for that matter! lol
  11. Smarie
    Try to get into an after school activity that shes in that you would enjoy. Or if shes smart ask her to tudor you in a subject or something. Sit with her at lunch, visit friends whose lockers are right next to hers. MSN doesnt seem like a bad idea, but dont be to desperate. Dont message her like once every 10 minutes and say...Are you home yet?.....Are you home yet?.....Ya know, just casually once in a while. Make sure you have a topic that you can really conversate about. Avoid asking her a bunch of questions so all shes doing is typing yes and no.......Good Luck!!!
  12. Smarie
    OMG!! I was the same exact way!! I remember being in 7th grade and I had the biggest crush on this kid that I never even spoke to before. I was always so scared to talk to him, and whenever he said anything to me I would just laugh and giggle and be stupid. I remember cutting out letters out of magazines and ads and taping them together on my folders to spell his name and draw little hearts. ](*,) Wow brings back some lame memories!! But yeah, I totally agree. At that age, everything is weird. Thats the age that a girl could be nice to you, and she would like you. Or she could be mean to you and like you. Or should could be nice to you and not like you. Or......And blah blah blah, I could go on forever. Just take subtle clues and hints. Dont let it get you down, and definitely be yourself!!!
  13. Smarie
    It seems to me like she sorta would feel like you blew her off before, so now shes reacting the same way. If you all of a sudden changed and started talking to her out of the blue, she might think something is kinda suspicious. Try telling her how you really felt about her before, and you did like her just didnt know how to approach her.
  14. Smarie
    Im really not all too financially stable right now. I thought about that already and the few that I called were really expensive. I need to see if my insurance will cover anything for them.
  15. Smarie
    You do not deserve to be in a relationship that is abusive in any way. After 2 years, if you have talked about it before and nothing has changed, its probably not going to change. If you did try to work it out now, its like he would be a wolf in sheeps clothing, thats who he really is, and before long, it will return. A break up always leaves you thinking about the good times and what you shared. It will be hard at first, but you will realize over time that you should not be treated like that. Good luck!!!
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