Jonboy582

First off wow what a good gues by me (kinda). O right well therein may lie anouther issue not saying its be all and end all or even an issue. But your 30 and live in the country side, people there have different tastes than in the cities, your cloths dont seem bad, infact timberland is very expensive, but many people will look for a more safisticated look in a 30 year old, more smart/casual. I am by no means a fation guru but here are afew suggestions. Jeans are fine, but maybe try afew more shirts, personaly I would avoid McKenzie as to some that screams the term "chav", I am not one to lable people but its steryotipcaly worn by "chavs" along with tiberland but that does retain some class. I would just like to reinforce I am not insulting your appearance just offering afew suggestions here that may help, also one last point your hair looks good dont get me wrong, but a little more length (not much) would also not go a miss (although this is coming from a bloke who has long hair, so I may be a little bias). Anyway choose to listen to as little and as much of what I suggested and sorry if I caused any offence. Hope all goes well. Jon

Whats that even got to do with anything remotly linked to this topic. And I think he was referring more to more social rules people tend to follow, and if we did anything we wanted there would be no restrictions on what we burnt and used and there would be far more pollution in the world and these problems wuld be escalating quicker. And as for Ross_K just have confidence in yourself, that always helps alot and the ladies pick up on that. This may seem irelivant, but there are many other social factors that in general women of different sorts like depending on where you live. Can you tell me like where you live (im not a freaky stalker) I mean in general like "A big city" or "Glasgow" or whatever you want to say. As I have observed different traits are more in demand in different areas. Also the way you dress often puts the ladies off or attratcs them, what type of clothes is your usual casual wear youwear out?. This is just a gues and please take no offence if im wrong, but I gues you live in a large city area, perhaps London but very likely more up north nearer Liverpool? Jon

I don't wish to complicate things but women do think differently for a start they wish they could conceive without the need for a menstruation cycle. And women are really not that hard to get along with. Just don't talk about football a lot (unless they like it) or "birds". Be polite and civil and you would be surprised what wonders that would bring. Just joke around and have fun. And as for the 40 year old virgin being well you know what you said. Maybe the film is not like real life, but the moral most certainly is, you are never to old to find love, and lack of experience is not the end of the world. HAHAHA that did make me laugh actually, I like what you did there. There just building the *censor* up would you not say. Jon

Yes its a hard situation, I havemade sure she understands all the facts, he cheated on her twice he will most likely do it again, and he is not a good person and all that. Gues thats all I can do, and be there to pick up thepieces when itall ends in tears.

I can do my bets to introduce her to guys but problem is we are now separated by like 60 miles so seeing each other is a problem and so would the guys I know. And I know I cant change her mind but grrr this guy has treated her bad and will continueto and she will just take it and throw away 2 years of her teen life for this guy, your meantto be out enjoying yourself not waiting for some scum bagto get out of prison. I have done, and im her only place of support right now, familly all getting anoyed at her and can see he is bad news, but are handleing it wrong, they are basically punishing her for waiting for him which they should not do. Im not questioning their parenting skills but it could be handled better.

Basically I have grown some strong concerns about one of my friends and herboyfriend lately. To sum it up he is scum she is most deffinately not and deserves alot more. Now this is the story condensed;- 1. They ben going out about 4 weeks 2. He has cheated on her already and she took him back 3. He continues to play her and send texts to anouther girl saying he loves her (well they stopped now for reasons you will find out). 4. After she forgave him he would go off and say he got to go out, but would really be off with this other girl. 5. He has now gone to jail for 2 years for attempted armed robbery 6. He spoken to her asking her to wait for him (very selfish) 7. He has asked her to marry him by TEXT MESSAGE and LETTER (how romantic) this guy really has no idea about life. And it enfuriates me that he should get such a nice girl, when he is complete scum. She herself said she is only with him as she thinks she can't do better, although she would be better off with no one. This is just because she lacks self confidence, due to beinghurt previousely in relationships. She said she clicks with him but she needs to get as far away from this dude a quick as she can but she also says well I feel sorry for his mum as she findinghim in prison hard. Not meaning to be harsh but its not her concern they only been going out a maximum of 4 weeks its not as though she got strong family ties allof a sudden. So really her caring attitude is getting her drawn in. Just thought I would right this any comments of any form are appretiated. Jon

Well I must say I am slughtly metrosexual aswell. But strait all the same. I have many face products ranging from exfoliants to face masks to moisturisers. Also I file my nails rather than cutting or bitting them, take alot of care over my hair with best shamppos and conditioners, all clothes have to be clean and immaculate, and sometimes act very gay. I mean I have myspace (ashamedly) and my profile is a pink theme with my little pony asthe back ground and sone of my favourite songs are "barbie girl" and "im coming out" But despite that I am strait and dont have a doubt in my mind, looks can be decieving. But from the fact yous aid your going out would imply to me he is just metrosexual/camp and not gay, so I would say you have got nothing to worry about. 100% agree, and sorry to bring it up again, but I am a prime example it can happen, get called gay all the time though, but doesnt bother me.

I paid for a bus pass to get me from school to bus station then bus station to home. But walk the 2 miles to bus station for fun. (actually that was true until this term as I passed my driving test now im bone idle) And wow im supprised all you people have lifts in your schools we dont in ours gues that means a long walk up 4 flights of stairs, and also gues the handy capped are screwed really. Jon

Does she not realise that is going to make you less likely to become a religious person as she is forcing you, and all the religion is bringing about is pain and suffering? Have you raised that point with her. But I really do feel sorry for you, it must be soo hard on you and your father. One thing I hope it wont agrivate things, but research the religion and see if you can find anything in their scriptures that says anything about people from outside the religion? see if it mentions anywhere we are all equal no matter what religion you are, or freedom of choice whether to believe. If so, you may wish to confront your mother with this to open her eyes to what she is doing.

As for the going to a school that I gues you or whoever your talking about does not want to go to. Have you/they spoken to the mother stating that it is her religion not yours/theres? plus told them you/they do not think it benifitial to your/there education to go there. Don't want to spark anything off here, but it could be justifiable IF. Someone got stranded on a desert island and could not be found 2 years later he was pronounced dead BUT infact was kida still married to the woman, and say after like 1 and a half years technically they still married but if presumed dead you cant blame the woman for being with other men so the cheating could be condoned lol. But I agree 99.9% of the time cheating is not acceptable although in my eyes it is bordering it in this case (and I am someone who hates cheating) but it would be brought upon herself by the mother if it does/has happened. p.s. please tell me who this is referring to so I don't have to say "you/they" all the time. Jon

Not if you dont get rid of them, just take out the redness, which just takes off the edge, but if you put too much on where you can see the make up you just look stupid. Best thing have found is cover up stick they help cure the spots while also hiding them. And thanks avman, never heard of cystic acne before but I know what you mean from what you said, I seen people with it and must be bad btw I hope it all went well Jon

What are cystic spots???? I know cystic fibrosis but thats a genetic disorder And erm cover up stick is all I can say or foundation (dont be scared to use that even if you are a boy judt dont go over the top). Erm also pop them in a delicate manner, and erm place an icecube on them strait after, that reuces blood flow thus stopping them redden and swell. Good luck Jon

haha I cant own a gun I live in England. Infact think you not allowed to even own a gun these days unless your a farmer or use it for proper sporting needs. The just did a big call and got people to hand in all the guns they have without the far of prosecution. And wow a machine gun I would not mind one of those. Thats probably why in America they have released that car and for an extra $70k you can get a machine gun turret on roof and stock you have bullet proof armor and its mine proof (not a Hummer by the way). Jon

Good luck matey I have every confidence in you that it will go well. Just don't fuss and go with the flow.

haha yeah I thought about that, but can't quite remember where he keeps it. I threw his last gun in a car he stole and set on fire lol. But they told me once where it was kept, wish Icould remember And the most weird thing about thisis I haveno idea why he is like this. And the email I wrote was in a hurry and Icould have done so much better if I tried, but well he wont understand that so whats the point. Jon

Basically there is this person I know who haves many criminal links and has a past that is not in line with the law. Has been arrested and charged on numerous occasions for GBH and ABH. I was friends/acquaintances with him. Until the other day he came online mouthing me off saying he going to put me in hospital and stuff like that. Even to the extent he would shoot me (he has a gun with no serial btw). As of yet he has given me no reason of why he is annoyed all he says is me and my mate are back stabbing pr**ks and we are also c***s. So I emailed him asking what it was up and this is how our email conversations have gone. And do you think I handled it well thus far? I said nature twice that ruined the whole email. Wish I spotted that before I sent it

Infact I have never been rejected lol, but I fear the rejection so thats why I lacked the courage. And thats why it feels good so same way but in a more round about waysas you if you get me lol. And gratz mate, I happy I got the courage up just the same.

DiggityDog I see you been ready PocoDiablos posts lol. Genious that bloke lol. But good advice all the same

haha yet again I can relate to what just happened. As I asked a girl out on a date and we going out on it on Monday and it feels good not to be rejected And well done and good luck on the date. Jon

You going to comment or not then?

I have read the whole article I just meant something worth while, as traveling that far just for coffee then going home could be abit of a waste of time. I mean spend more time doing something. And were you serious bout the picnic (different menu though) as that seems pretty nice except its cold. I did not take her to the gig she was already going and so was I and thats when I wanted to ask her out. And yes she said she would go on a date with me I just need to set a date, and think of something to do. And I know she likes me already now which is good. And I know her nowso thats why I thought could do something other than coffee. But thanks for your long and detailed and thourough answer

I also noticed this when I had my mate in the car who just split up with her boyfriend then Ne-Yo - So Sick came on and just saw her face drop so had to quickly change it. I don'tlike the song anyway its overplayed. And I think its your more aware of these songs rather than they are played more. And as for other crying songs I remember "Symple Plan - Welcome to my life" used to make me cry all the time when broken up from my ex. And "Uncle Kracker" always makes me cry even when im happy for some reason it just triggers something in me lol.

Well here is an update on the situation the outcome was the same just didn't happen in the way I would have liked. We both went to the gig and had a good time, but I did not get any time alone with her all night as basically everyone there was her mate and they all wanted to talk to her. And the one time I tried asking her I was literally shouting it at her in her ear from 2 inches away but could not hear a the music was so loud. So that did not work either. So basically I had to wait until after the gig and text her on the way home, which I did not want to do (asking her out by text). But still I explained this in the text and she said yes of course she would love to. Now im left with a problem I never thought of what to do and when. So anybody got any ideas of what I can do? (and I know PocoDiablo it says go get a coffee or something like that and know exactely what and when you want to do something, but this slightly different as its not as though I have not been out with her before, but all these times it was with other people, so I do know her. But I could always do that, I just dont want to bore her hehe and im doing a round trip of like 40 odd miles so I want to do something worth while) Jon

Ok then I will have a couple of pints first which will work out nicely as she is coming to gig like an hour after it starts. Lets just hope I dont chicken out. I don't want to get drunk seeming as I have drunk every night since 4 days aggo and last night the liver started hurting so I stopped after two cans. The thing is if I can get the car at all now, becuase I have used about £40 of fuel in the last week alone on my excersions Butif she says yes im sure I can make arrangements. finally I think the great and almighty PocoDiablo did make a tiny typo hehe.