Jonboy582

Only me, and oh and this one girl lol who we shared the bed with. That was something to do with other girl wanting to get taste out of her mouth after kissing some bloke

Poco Diablo I read that before and was good (VERY LONG). And thanks everyone, well im going to a gig tonight and apparently she is there so I will ask her then 1 Small problem though, she lives like 25 miles away, I can drive, but I ordered a brand new car and they make them to order. As somone placed an order of 500 cars it pushed the date of mine back a couple of months. SO I dont get it until May 8th. This means I have to use parents car, and that inturn entails sharing it and as I used it alot lately I have not got much ground to stand on to get the use of it. And there in lies my prediciment TRANSPORT And I think I will have afew drinks before I ask her aswell lol. Thans everyone Jon (oh and by the way poco there is a typing error under what indicates you been friendzoned you typed Yuo not You hehe

Okay well here is the story There is this girl I really like and I am not sure if she likes me or if things that have happened between us were just a run of co-incidences. We have ended up "sleeping" together (meaning sleep sleep) and kissed. The first time we "slept" together was in a tent with 3 other peole, but we shared a sleeping bag, and were in each others arms all night and very close. But I dont know if thats just because she was trying to keep me warm as I was very cold. Anouther night we ended up kissing alot at a party, but we were both very drunk so that could just be because she was very drunk why we ended up kissing. Although 4 hours later after we sobered up alot, we did kiss again. Later that same night we went back to her place + one other girl which I had the pleasure of sharing a bed with both of them hehe And again that night we ended up in the same position as when camping but also holding hands. But yet again is this her just being comfy in bed and drunk, or could these be signs she likes me. Any advice would be much appritiated, because if it is likely she likes me I would want to maybe ask her out sooner than later before the situation changes. Jon

Forget her as a girlfriend. You say she has a history of cheating on people, what makes you think things will be different next time round? Infact she even more likely to cheat on you, as you takingher back after she cheated on you which sends the message, its ok you can do this to me. I would advise stay well clear, and if you do not mind just the "sexual" part of a relationship as you said you done that before with her. Have you ever considered being friends with benifits as that way you don't run the risk of getting your heartbroken again and being cheated on. Personally I think you should search else where but thats easier said than done. Jon

I myself am quite a shy guy and stuck in same prediciment. Basically the reason being I am no good about reading signs from girls that are aimed towards me so I have no idea what this girl is thinking. So for now, I just sticking with subtle flirting and stuff. But thing is, if I found out from someone that she did infact like me, and situations that have occurred between us were for the reasons I hope they were then I would askher out. So basically whhat im saying is maybe get someone to drop a hint that you like him or if you are the guy erm find out from someone if she likes you. (not sure what sex you are as it does not state lol). Jon

Best cure is - While still drunk take "Resolve" or "Alka Seltzer" (stomach setling tablets) - That same night have afew pints of water mixed with salt and double the amount of sugar than salt. - In the morning a product called "berocca" this has all the stuff in that you loose when breaking down ethanol and methanol and you run outof making you feel unwell. - Pure water and erm bread. Alternitively you could just not drink that much lol.

hehe o right thats a different type of snakebite to what im talking about, yours is "Yukon Snakebite" as im sure your awear of. Im talking about the beer and cider mixed sometimes with blackcurrent and vodka. But okies I will take your advice and steer clear. I also been doing research and found/devised the ultimate hangover cure/reliving aid. This using scientific knowlage of what happens not old wives tales. Only thing that is 100% effective is strapping yaself to a dialysis machine while still drunk then you will be fine lol. Jon

OMG people been drinking that a long time. And wow that dont sound good, I best not start drinking it. I thought well maybe I will sacrifice class and taste now and again for say a couple of pints of snakebit costing me like £2 at home or £4.50 in a bar But ohh sounds dangerous, I wont mix anymore also as I heard there is chemicals in the drinks react. Jon

Hiya. I was wondering about the drink snakebite,for those who dont know thats larger and cider mixed together. I wanted to know if this is true whats said about it. Apprently everyone I spoken to and what I read on the internet suggests its gets you more drunk than the sam volume of alcahol if not mixed, and infact many bars in England refuse to sell it because of this. Anyone know the truth behind that? and reasons why it would get you really drunk? Also personaly I would prefer a nice tasting drink and not be rat faced but everyone to their own. Just want to know should I avoid this drink, for my health reasons lol. Jon

Yes I totally understand, she just "thought" she was pregnant and said she would get a pregnancy test if she was late. But as she came earlier thats why she thought she had a miscarridge. Jon

Well he broke up with her. But she went to me first asking if she should tell him if she was pregnant, and they had sex about 3 weeks ago maybe 4 now. Also it wasn't spotting, it was a full on period. I think maybe though she thought she was pregnant, just had her period early (think its due this week and she had it 2 days aggo). And is getting paranoid and thinking she miscarried, or just saying he got her pregnant to scare him (as she really hates him at the moment as he hasnt been the best of people about the break up). She didn't say she had any symptoms of PMT just that she felt "weird and odd", I put that down to her braking up with the bloke she really loved, it would feel weird, one day being in each others pockets the next broken up without warning.

She thought she was pregnant cos she felt different. Didnt have morning sickness and, well as she had her period not much chance of a embryo surviving that. Hence why I believe there is little chance of her being pregnant as you need the uterus's lining and all that to protect it and stuff. (can you call it uteral linning). Also they both really need some education on all of this and contraception. They both blieved condoms to be 100% effective, they also both thought pill was 100% effective, neitherknew about precum and the fact you can get someone pregnant ven if the male does no ejaculate. And all this sort of stuff.

Well atleast we know if she was pregnant there is basicaly no chance of her being pregnant anymore. And believe you me they both didnt want a child or for her to go through an abortion especialy as they broken up and never getting back together. Jon

Hello, im just doing abit of research for a couple of my friendswho have just broken up. But the girl thinks/thought she was pregnant. Now she thinks as she had an early period she had a miscarridge. Anyways, whats the earliest after conception you can have one of these? and what other reasons may her period of happened early? Jon EDIT: added spaces between some words which I missed out.

Well itcould have been rejection. I mean if someone phoned me late at night and I wasn't asleep I would probs go meet them lol, but thats just me. And ok I will chase her for abit, but im not too fussed if it don't happen as I not really looking for a relationship anyway but one would be nice.

Hello erm kind of weird or not weird problem. I don't usualy go in for this talking on internet and then thinking about more than internet FRIENDS with people, if you get what I mean. I believe it not a good way to get to know someone intimately as you lack that basic social interaction. But anyway, I started going down that path. Been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks. Anyway she is friends with one of my friends. Anyway, I feel like I know her pretty well, and me, her, her friend (who I know) and my mate, all went to cinema last night (I get feeling my mate is trying to set me up with her btw, and thats what my friend thinks aswell). So this is basicaly what happened, and I want to know if she was brushing me off or not. Ready that Digity Dog thingy. Said there was acceptance, decline with an alternate date and decline. Sos im drawing this out abit, and saying it un-methodically. -Us 4 went to cinema. -I took the girl back to her house (12:15 at night) -Was about to take my other friend back to hers but we had the idea to go to the other mate who was ith us house and get drunk. -So I text her at 12:45 (abit late I know) and asked if she wanted to come with us. - She replied "Lol! I cnt reli im snuggled in bed! N tired. Nuther tym tho x x" (probs going to friend zone but im not too bothered if we do anyway just curious is that acceptance or not as she did not say a date or time or anything along those lines). Also, the friend kept asking do I like her, do I fancy her,do Ithink she is fit and all that, which is one reason of many I beliege she was trying to set us up. So any answers? Jon EDIT : I say anyway too much in this post, so much so its anoying me lol, so sorry to anyone it anoys also. Gues its because I did not really have a plan on what to say.

S = Suitable Just remembered hehe.

Yous should give your legstime to get better, as the reason for your pain is due to a build up of lactic acid. Also you can exercise the same muscle group with a minimum of 48 hours (2days) gap between them, this gives best results. But it has been shown that you loose these effects quicker once you stopped exercising. So I would suggest working each muscle group twice a week. And as the others have said, vary your exercises. And as I learnt at school. Apply the rules of SPORT while training. S - Cant even remember what this one was lol. P - Progression O - Overload R - Repetition T - Tedium If ya want me to explain them, just ask. Good luck and don't overtrain or you wont see benifits. Jon

Yeah don't worry thats what im doing, I wouldnt ever try nd break anyoneup unless I really knew like they were using the other person or something. So all im doing right now is offering my support. AMde him feel abit guilty though, he is always like I am soo lucky your still my mate, most guys would have punched me climbing over them to get a gf. And all that sort of stuff hehe. I HAVE THE POWER. Jon

HAHA okay cool. Im actually trying to help him (or said I would give him advice) as well he is a friend now. And I ahted what happened to me, and he is now starting to live the same hell. Really he would be better off dumping her right now as things can only get worse, and she will dump him.

I just thought I would post my thoughts here. There not very nice or tastefull thoughts. But recently my ex has been having problems with her new bf (that she got with soon after we split and really hurt me). Well he is my mate again now. These problems are identicle to the ones I encountered. And I am finding comfort in the relationship going downhill. I am also happy for them at same time. I gues this is just as I am now beginning to realise it wasnt all my fault we broke up. As if Identicle problems are happening they are probably due to the other half, which is what all ym friends said. Well thats all I had to say. Jon

Suppose I should really. Thanks From now all I do is tell them they have no clue whats going on, and well just look out for her and make sure Rach is ok. Aswell as Lucy. But I don't understand whats going on now, im not going to talk to people about this. But this bloke he is generally a really really nice guy not the sort you think would cheat. But he convieniently made sure his friend who would stop them cheating could not come back to the house, he also had a new pack of condoms downstairs that was convieniently ready like he planned it. Fortunately I stopped things before they did happen. Especialy as she is still a virgin. So looks like he was using her. But he has now come out and says he loves her, and has loved her for years all through this 1 yr 3 month relationship with his ex which he loved. I not going to say anything to others unless I feel she going to get hurt (she was too drunk to remember). But I really dont understand this guy. He flips from one extreem to anouther

I am not back stabbing, I havnt spread anything. Some kid has spread all the rhoumers about them, and everyone is calling her the hussy. Saying its all her fault, which it is not. I simply have said the truth of the matter that she is not as bad as they all saying, and she wasnt lying on the floor naked she was clothed and things along those lines. Plus everyone keeps asking me what has happened and I always tell them "I cant say its a secret", so I am not giving anything away. Besides im not really sticking my nose in I was there. Thats exactely what I have been doing, and I dont spread things or tell anybody whats being going on anyway, unless they know a warped version of the story which they and all others believe to be true and reflects on Rach badly.

A real friend would not have done what? and who are you talking about me or Rach? And I have told her what she has done wrong and she feels terrible about it. But she has no one right now thats why I feel I have to stand by her.

Well basically encase you have forgotten this is a sum up of everything that happened. 1. Two friends Joe and Lucy were going out. 2. Joe Cheated on Lucy with my best mate Rach 3. Joe broken up with Lucy but I don’t know what Rach and him plan to do. 4. I'm trying to comfort Lucy, but Rach is feeling really bad and pissed off with me for some reason. 5. Joe told people that Rach came onto him and initiated it all, but that’s a lie because he text her and told her to come over and it seems he planned it all. 6. People have been stirring roumers saying stuff about it all and bending the truth that they somehow found out. 7. I had to put these people strait, but me doing that is what I think has pissed Rach off, but I'm sure she would prefer them knowing the truth rather than thinking she is low life scum hussy. I have decided though Lucy is getting a lot of support so even though I don’t agree with what Rach has done. I'm going to support my best mate as she is finding this all very hard as well, she not really said a word all day at school. But she is pissed off with me, so do you think phoning her is the best idea? As I have never actually phoned her for a chat before do you think I should start now? Also I went down the pub to set Lucy strait that her BF was not all he was cracked up to be and was as much to blame as Rach as all blame is on her at the moment. So I was trying to make things better for both of them, then when I got back Rach was in a foul mood with me. WHAT DO I DO? Ohh and this all happened when they were very very drunk. I spent 20 min trying to talk her out of going to his. But in the end she just ran off. 20 Min later I got a phone call telling me to go over for pancakes (2am) so I did. As they had already been kissing and that I left it for abit, also I was very drunk so wasin not fit state to see complete reason or I would not have even let them kiss when I got there. But I eventualy before they could go any further because it was wrong. Picked her up and carried out of the house back to hers. Thats why im so stuck in this. EDIT : Sorry about bad language, was a mistake putting it in there as I copied it from what I said toa friend, ohh and its removed now.