Jonboy582

This thread seems very similar to one I started yesterday. Here are afew more peoples tales. Some people managed to brake bones and thats just the foreplay ! ! ! My most recent is a friction burn down my penis, taking skin off the head and shaft. I have also had friction burns on my knees and elbow. As for girls trying to keep turning you on as someone mentioned I experienced that. My ex and I within 8 hours had had sex 4 times lasting about 3 hours. Then she kept forcing me to have sex with her. I mean I was totally drained. And within 16 hours we had had sex 8 times. It wasa case of fall asleep get woken up, forced to have sex although I said no then fall back to sleep then repeat. It was horrbile. Erm just a general embarasing level. After I had sex with my current girlfriend and I had had sex. Ourfriend walked in the room, and we had left the condom on the floor. The girl first of all was like oh it smells funny in here. Then 10 min later she picked up the condom which we werehopingshe would not see(she has bad eyesight and did not have her contacts in) thinking it was some false teeth. Then she ran around the house screaming going ewwwwwwwww and stuff.

You can use an oil based lubricant to combat this

^^^^^ what they said ^^^^^ And as for not telling parents in general. Sometimes us guys just get embarased telling them (I know I do). I end up keeping it a secret for as long as I can. But I don't take the girl any less seriousely. I know in my case, my parents are just sooo embarasing and ask me lots of questions, and are also very old fationed in their beliefs so basically. I find the relationship much morerewarding if they don't know. The only reason my parents know of my presant girlfriend, was I was driving about 20 miles there and 20 miles back twice a week to see a girl when I see all my other friends who live similar distances away about once a month. But for about a month they believed she was my friend. So really I don't think it is a biggy. Jon

HAHAHAHA FCTex, thank god im not the only one to feel this pain. And hmm drunk people and flames don't go together well it seems, and ouch burnt nipples sounds painfull.

As for having sex with my girlfriend as she lives fairly far away I can put off seeing her for a week, so hopefully it would have healed by then (it seems to be healing very quick like your mouth does). As for infection, well it is fine, the antiseptic healing cream stuff is working well. And I am nota person to get infected, my cuts rarely go septic even if I don't bother washing them. And oh dear a lot of you people seem to have experienced pain, broken bones in foreplay I wont even asked what caused them, all I can guess is falling out of a window or doing it while driving. And deep cuts on your back when you lost your virginity that's really unlucky. But I do agree maybe a bit of communication would not go a miss. If anything happens again then I will tell her if not, I will spare her the embarrassment.

That was me. And atleast im not the only person. But I mean this is bad, to the extent blood has been drawn slightly, and I am missing alot of skin. Hmm yes communication would have saved me alot of pain, I just would prefer to feel alot of pain than run the risk of embarasing her. As for the lube, to tell the truth, we were in my car, so we kind of don't or wouldn't have any handy. Actually, I had that on my knees and toes, and even elbows before. Carpet is really not a nice surface to copulate on.

I am going to just basically talk about the drinking. And not sure what other people have said as I am short for time and not read theirs (sorry). Basically, one factor is how much you drink. The other is what you drink. First of, drink slowly, at first if you don't feel the effects. DON'T drink any quicker. Stay at the same pace, I can make a pint last up to an hour. Basically I will drink 5 or 6 pints in one night but as I have spread them over about 5 hours. I have basically been on a constant high for at least 4 hours. As you are a lady, and not really built up a tolerance, obviously you should drink less than that, and you may find like one glass of whatever will keep you going longer than you think. Then when you feel effects wearing off buy another. As for what you drink. Well many rules here;- 1. Don't mix (I am bad at this, and always end up mixing vodka and beer) As a general rule stick to the same type of drink all night. i.e. If you start with a spirit that is "white" only drink white spirits all night. And don't mix beer’s with wine (where they saying "Don’t mix the grape and the grain" came from). 2. What you drink even at the same strength will determine how you feel. Personally Traditional Ciders that have like been stored in oak barrels make me feel bad. But another example is. Take two bottles of wine at the same strength one is white one is red. They are a medium strength of around 8.5%. I can drink 2 bottles of the white and not be sick. But 2 bottles of red and I will most likely throw up. The reason being it is not as "clean" and contains high amounts of tannin (which also increase the risk of a hangover). Surprisingly a lot of red wines even contain arsenic. This leads me onto my next point. 3. Some alcohols are considered "clean" meaning they have less additives and also there chemical composition is different. Alcohol is 2 main substances, "ethanol and methanol" Some alcohols such as vodka contain pure ethanol, but whiskey contains high amounts of methanol. Primarily the ethanol is broken down first, and the methanol is broken down second which is what leaves you feeling sick, and as you put it "makes you want to rip your skin off" Also the unwell feeling is coupled with the depletion of salt and sugar reserves which are used by the liver to break down the ethanol. As a whole the methanol is a contaminant and found mostly in cheap red wine, port, whiskey and fruit brandy. 4. After you have finished drinking, top up your water with water. And if you have had a heavy drinking session, mix this water with salt and sugar (it well help reduce the hangover and any liver pains you may be feeling) Careful though if you already feel sick, as it doesn't taste very nice. I hope this has helped. Jon p.s. I can't promise the grammar is any good, as I have taken bits out and added as I went along.

Indeed they do. This is actually my second one I have ever had. First was from my ex, basically we just had too much sex in too short a time and it was more of a sore. Anyone else?? Girls included.

Hello, I was wondering if anyone had incurred any sexually related injuries in the past. Reason being I just got one and not planning on telling anyone. Last night I was with my girlfriend, and she was pleasuring me with her hands. Thing was we were both pretty drunk, and she got some bedding caught up in her hand, and managed to give me a big friction burn on my member. Now I am missing skin on the head and shaft of my penis which is actually very very sore. The worst thing was, I didn't want to embarrass my girlfriend so I did not tell her. So she carried on with me in agony. And She tried again this morning, but I could not cope so just rolled over on top of her. Please tell me other people have suffered such traumatic experiences. And ohh what's the quickest coarse of action to recover. At the moment, I am applying antiseptic cream (Fucidin H) twice a day. Thanks Jon

I am sorry but squirting is not a myth. Just watch some porn movies. Somehow I dont think they are releasing fake fluids OR its added by special effects (as they are too low budget). I have just done a little research and if you don't believe me go to link removed and get some of the free video clips. ITS A PORN SITE SO UNDER 18s or 21 in some US states dont go there. There may be evidence against it, but nothing has disproved it as they said they do not know. And it would be ignorant to believe everything on wikipedia is true as it could be written by anyone. I mean I could put my own article on there and refer to scientists that may or may not exist and it would be put up and believed by millions even if untrue.

Your wife is "squirting", thats many mens fantasy, and not many women can do it, and if they can not all men are good enough to enduce it. Don't worry about it, if she does not like it then well you can give it a miss,because form the sounds of it wasnt most pleasurable time for both of you. You got a bitter taste and she felt uncomfortable. Ohh btw if you are unsure about what I mean by squirting, take safe seach off google then type it in (Adult Content btw)

If you are really worried you can get condoms from Durex that contain benzocaine (or something like that) this slightly desensitizes the penis allowing you to last longer. You also can get special lubricants you can use on the inside of condoms (not outside or you desensitize the woman) this works identically, just be sure not to use too much or you cannot hold an erection. Hope that wassome help Jon p.s. I will try and link you to some of these condoms EDIT: They are called "Durex Performa Condoms"

Hello just thought I would write this out of interestI gues and to see what people think. I have posted a similar post lately but this is slightely different. I am not the most experienced of people in relationships, but extreemly perceptive of situations that surround me and happen unto me. So do know alot more about these goings on tan most from similar or more experience. Well basically this is the lowdown. I have only 1 previoue serious relationship, and and now venturing into one that looks like its going to last a pretty long time. In both of these I had sex very early on in the relationship. The first one I had sex with the girl after about 6 days of going out (also loosing my virginity), this latest one I had sex with the girl the day before we even went out. Am I missing out on a crucial bit of a relationship. I spoken to friends who have been together like a year, and never had sex. And they say theyy are so glad they had not and that. Well thats all really Jon

what can I ask whats wrong with that??? Maybe im missing something here but in sunny England we have 3 choices when we get to 16. One is leave school, the second is stay in school and go into the 6th form and final choice is collge. Im guesing it is different in America then. And hehe I think everyone has given a unanomous decision here. Don't loose it with just anybody. I lost mine at 17 with some girl I loved, we broke up 2 months later but hey atleast I was inlove at the time Jon

ok I have not even read your post, and dont need to. The fact you are even asking means you are not sure. And if you are not sure the answer is NO ! !. NO NO NO NO. And again no. Only do it when you are 100% sure and with someone whom you love.

I have/had a similar problem but it is clearing up now. I suggest, the obviouse cleansing with a face prodcuct that contains salycilic acid but not an exfoliant as this irritates the skin more. I use "Clean and Clear, Deep Cleansing Face Wash". Also you say your face is dry, try moisturising with an oil free moisturiser. Do this once a day and in a VERY thin amount as not to clog your pores. Also make sure all producs are OIL FREE ! ! ! I cant stess this enough. Also I have found changing bedding very frequently helps so much. Say like use each side of your pillow for like 3 days then was the pillow case, also change bedding atleast once every week. Before I did not bother with this but now I do, am my skin is looking great (for me). One final thing DIET, drink lots and lots of water, make sure you drink atleast 2 litres of pure water a day this flushes out alot of inpurities and hydrates the skin. Also cut out alot/ reduce intake of fatty and sugary foods, also bread which has been linked to increase in acne, the bread (if you are in America is alot worse than over here in the UK aswell, because they add sugar to it for some strange reason). Hope this has been of help and not said loads of times (I could not be bothered to read all posts because im lazy sorry). Jon EDIT : Just skim read the posts and people already suggested pillow case, but do it with ALL beddig as that comes in contact with face alot. Ohh and CLEAN towls like every 3 or 4 days. Ohh wear make up as least often as you can. I even though am a bloke, decided to use cover up which was meant to treat things aswell, but it always makes it worse.

Raykay dont worry im not blaming anything, heck I loved it. Well relationship up until now had basically been well like we were a couple just not made official, and I had been for like 3 or 4 weeks now, so its not as though we have not not emotionally bonded. Also I did not feel obliged to make this a relationship because we had sex. Ta_ree_saw I dont think something has been spoilt, I was just seeking reasurance that this would not come back and bite me in the butt later on in the realationship. Also the last relationship I was in turned out not too peachy in the end, and we blamed much of it on having sex early on. But I gues if it comes back to haunt me depends on how we handle the relationship for now, aslong as we don't neglect the emotional side we should be fine (which brings me onto my next point). My one problem is, this girl I know ALOT about her but NOTHING at the same time (if that makes sense). I know all about her at the moment and who she is now, and alot of things she has done in the past (exciting things, nothing bad or dull though). But well I don't know what has happened in her past, I have not really heard of any bad things to happen to her, is this a bad sign? or is she just doing what alot of people suggested and well basically dont say your bad points and show your a fun loving person, and that makes the whole dating thing go alot easier? Thanks for all your replies so far Jon

HAHA well thanks, its just I heard from alot of people sex too early on in a relation makes for a un-happy relationship. But I gues that could not always be the case Took me kind of by surprise, was not expecting it at all.

Hello just well looking for your opinion. There was this girl I was seeing that I like very much. And well basically last night I was round hers and we got pretty close, well then one thing lead to anouther and before I knew it she was undoing my belt, taking my top off and we were well having sex. What I wanted to ask was alot of people say sex spoils a relationship, especially if it occurs early on, and although we are properly "going out" instead of "seeing" each other sincethis morning (not that there is much difference, just abit more formal. We had sex before we even were going out, is this a bad sign?? Thanks for any advice or comments Jon

haha yor about one of thonly people who stuck to this post good on you, and wow there may be afew things I could learn from that aswell.

Ross can I say one more thing, you say you "don't care" about your situation and "accepted it the way it is, as its less painful" (not exact words but close enough, also taken from other threads). I am not wishing to start anything, but really that obviously isn't true otherwise you would not have sought out this site and written about 160 posts all on the same/very similar topic would you. If that is true, just look iniside yourself and admit you do want to change and may be willing to live a more painfull existence, if not and you don't want to change, im sure alot less people will be willing to help you. Well as I said keep us informed on how it goes and good luck, because to me it sounds like you want change but keep contradicting yourself.

O rigt I thoughtyou meant in this thread, well I will check that out (not that I can do anything but it does seem out of order). And for now I don't think there is much more advice many people can offer until you have seen the therapist. Be sure to tell us how it went and hope it proves very enlightening Jon

I agree here, your not going to meet new people if you don't give them a chance to see what a great guy you are. As for this, thats good I hope you don't leave I am sure you can help or receive help from many of the wise hands of eNotAlone. But as for blocking peoples posts, im not sure who you are referring to, but its not a nice thing to say as everyone who has posted here has done it to try and support you.

haha no problem, atleast you not one of these people who would end up moaning at me. Anyway Ross erm anouther thought, what do you do to socialise? where do you meet new people, if at all? Do you go to the pub? got any hobbies? do you have a job if so what is it, and is there much chance to meetnew people? As I was thinking it also may be less incompatibility and more not being given the oppertunity to meet the right people.

O right fair enough, was just a suggestion after all, and aslong as your confident in what your in thats what matters.