Jonboy582

My sister and her husband broke up for about a year before they got married. Now they have 2 kids and married for 11 years. Although they are now getting divorced, but I think the message is still the same lol.

There is nothing wrong with that. It may just mean your girlfriend is really good at handjobs. I cum ALOT quicker when my girlfriend gives me one rather than sex. Besides it doesn't really matter if you cum quickly from a handjob as it is one way pleasure and the worste thing that would happen is she wont get a tired arm.

Ohh and a few more I find it best if I am lying on my back and my girlfriends fingers are like on the oposite side of my penis to her hands, (if your confused what I mean ask him to grab his penis when he is hard and his hands will be on the same side as you would want to be). And anouther thing, dont shake the penis (change its angle). Try and keep it at all times at its natural 45 degree (ish) angle from the body and move your hand up and down not the penis, that should stay still. Ahh the dreaded blue balls.

3 tips (I don't give them but I receive them just to clarify) 1. Don't hold too tight, tighter is not always better 2. Start off slowly and when he makes obviouse signs he likes it go faster EDIT : 2.1 when going faster make sure you dont bash his balls around so they like hit his leg and stuff that can be quite painfull even if it doesn't look much. 3. USE LUBE its not necesary but makes the whole job so much easier

I also enjoy morning sex, I try not to kiss my girlfriend much though due to the potential breath issue. It can be anoying aswell though as I found out from ex. She would wake me up at all hours demanding sex when I just wanted to sleep. Would be at 10pm then 4am then 8pm, and each time I would fully satisfy her till she could take no more alot of the time I would not even cum. So well too much or too early morning sex is deffinately not good. But with my present gf its great, waking up hugging. And tbh I wake up with morning wood, I need to get rid of it somehow.

Hey thanks for asking Well basically im going to leave things until after christmas, tbh I don't want to risk spoiling things for anyone. And the thoughts are not really troubling me anymore ever since I spoke to you guys so its all cool. Thanks again for asking Jon

For starters the way the condom came off it is veryunlikely you got any sperm inside her, probably like a 2% chance so you probably have a 1 in 9310 chance of her getting pregnant after that and the pill, if that makes you feel any better. I mean the "Entrance" (don't know what to call it) to the condom was outside her vagina and the reason it was on your stomache was most likely it dripped out onto you, so hold the panic. I had a scare once, but the condom had actually totaly split as I was using one that was too small from the family planning clinic and I came inside her. She was on the pill so she trusted that would stop her getting pregnant and thank God it did. It's always nice to have something as backup e.g. the pill though.

I agree with what everyone says. My girlfriend forces me to let her pay, for example at the cinema for me to pay I physically have to push her out the way when she goes to buy her ticket and buy two. And even then she buys the food. But hey Im not complaining But I agree I really like it when a girl offers to pay.

Slim fast diets do work, but I suggest you tell her to do her own diet such as rose2summer said. Its alot more effective and a hell of alot cheaper. Besides all slimfast shakes are horrible except strawberry. Oh and as for the sugars and stuff yes they would be high if it was meant for a snack like a normal milkshake but you are meant to have a shake instead of a meal. I am assuming that means your from America and you have different dress sizes out there. Otherwise you magically got a size 7 that doesn't exist and now can squeeze into baby clothes for the size 2.

Yes if someone looses their job or just leaves without a trace you will have to fit the bill. My brother ended up paying like 3 months rent for someone who ran away as he could not pay the rent. You have to make sure you move ib with someone you really trust, and will not let you down. If not just hold in there till you feel you want to leave.

Ohh and thanks everyone for getting my mind strait I do feel quite alot better and enpowered. The shock of reading people saying she is using me helped for some reason. I will report back after I have had our little talk, hopefully not tearfull and posting about a breakup. Cheers Jon

I hear all you people and very enlightening. Its just I really know her, and she isn't the kind of person to use someone. I get told all the time by my friends and hers (including her best friend) how much she loves me and how everyone envies us and what we have. I think it may also be more of the case that she ASSUMES we have to break up when she moves away and thinks that’s the only thing people do when they move away. I will be having a serious conversation with her though, to find out if she is using me or not. And will raise a LDR, and if the answer is no then I will go about ending things. As I know it has to be done.

I will suggest a Long distance relationship nearer the time. I will try and ignor it for now, looking on the brightside all the time we have shared together I got all that and a month extra to come and a Holiday together after Christmas. And I guess I have to suggest a LDR as it would be so sickening to give it all up, and not even try to stay together, it just seems plain madness to me. Besides it is all rather confusing, she has said "I never wan't to leave you" and spoken about how I will be dating a jurnalist, that referring to her after she has her degree I find this all very confusing.

I do indeed have VERY strong feelings for her and I know she feels the same way back. Thats partly the reason why this came as such a shock to me. I guess all I can do is put up and shut up.

Hey I have posted a similar topic before, but now I am really worried and I know I should not be (well for now anyway) but I can't help it. FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN'T BE BOTHERED TO READ DETAIL GO TO THE END ITS SUMED UP Basically what’s the matter is in 8 Months time (provided she is accepted, but she got very good grades so most likely will) my girlfriend is going to Uni about 400 miles away. This has been bugging me for some time, knowing this will happen but I have not raised this with her. Then last night she raised the point and basically said we will separate then. I know we may well have split up by then, but our relationship has been great for 7 months and I can see us getting closer in the future. So her saying that hit me hard as you can imagine as I don't know how I would cope with that, especially as if we still in love to just end it not through a fault in the relationship would be gut wrenching for me. I wanted to suggest a LDR but could not be bothered to bring that up (didn't want to sound clingy), and she suggested we could be f**k buddies then as I would only see her ever so often (but if we still in love don't think that’s a good idea). She suggested I transferred the course I am doing to where she is but the course I do is only run where I am, and the one she does is only run where she is. So moving is not an option. This all gets me really really depressed, and I know I should not let it but I can't just turn my emotions on or off they are what they are. Even though we may have 8 amazing months in front of us, just hurts she has given up on us already. Doesn't help her Auntie advising her to be single when she goes to uni, as she says that means she can have a better time, (that’s what her auntie did and got back with her bf after and married him) but I doubt things will pan out like that. Well that was long so here is it all in brief if you could not be bothered to read it;- - Girlfriend going to uni in 8 months on other side of country - Given up on us already, but for in 8 months time - Getting me down and sad - Can't stop myself feeling like that although I have 8 months left with her Thanks Jon

It’s much more personal to Speak to someone rather than text. It should not be used as a substitute for speech, use it for things like "Meet you at the Cinema in 15 min" not to have a conversation. Also texts often get misinterpreted. For example I text my girlfriend once saying something (can't remember what) and I was being kind, and she took it as an insult just because she could not understand the context it was used, and certain emphasis needed on different words. So in cases like that yes it can ruin a relationship, it can make you grow distant through lack of quality conversation and may offend others even if not intended. Ohh and as for dumping someone but text, that is LOW.

Im sure with $1300 left over evry month you can pay of the student loans very quickly. After thats done try and find a friend or two who would move in with you. That way yu split the rent considerably and basically get the feel of living in your own home and paying bills. Its worse here in England as rent prices are atleast 3 times higher. Thats the reason I can't move out at the moment, while at Uni (unless I want big debts).

Get protein from Eggs, Nuts, or Protein poweder(you can buy this from health stores) And as for needing to take extra vitimins you should not be on a diet that is malnurishing, all the minerals and stuff should be in your food. Remember starving yourself makes you put on weight.

Hey thats terrible to hear I guess in some ways its good your numb. And I think I know whats making me numb, its not being with my girlfriend if you understand (nothing as serious and traumatic as you General Lee). I managed to get a lift with my parents to her house today, and emotions all came back, was strange, but reasuring. I had like a flood of emotions, happy, sad, frustrated and embarased but mainly happy. Then I come home again and its going dull.

That sucks The amount I need to pay has gone to £450 for a bumper my mates new car will cost only £200. And the thing that slightly frustrates me, and this is the only thing is the accident was caused by a 3rd party driver who quickly fled the sceene. Guess its good im not getting overly annoyed though. One thing though you can get a second hand reliable car for 5k, unless you are into big cars/ones with power then thats different(or 5k in dollers being £2,542). What did you get btw?

Ohh dear, that really really sucks ! ! ! ! !. But a motorcycle sounds fun, alot of freedom. Hope things plan out ok, and you find a new job and settle in well. May I enquire into why you lost your job, or is that just being too nosey.

Well, technically I do not have to pay for it all now as we are going through insurance but still a £350 ($689 for the Americans of you) excess. Also it was not a traumatic crash wasn't at speed, just into the back of my friends car at 10mph, so I doubt it was supression. As for a student loan I have one of those as well already for the sake of it, so I have alot of money and nothing worth while to spend it on (except for the car crash now). Maybe I just find it hard to be stimulated these days, you hear about people like that, who need to jump of a building (base jumping) to have fun. I found it weird after feeling like that I went to a rock concert that night, that was slightly stimulating, but what I found weird, is it took me to get excited I had to end up injuring myself in a moshpit. I ended up spliting my eyebrow open when my head colided with someone. I found it all rather amusing with all the blood and what not. Basically left a inch long gash in my eye brow (probs needed stitches but I did not bother with the hospital, and now its kind of open but dried up and crusty). I just find it quite disturbing that I had to have that happen before I started feeling proper excitement. Maybe I should take up base jumping and some other extreem sports. Jon

Nope none at all, only a long course of antibiotics but that has none of those side affects and been on them for like over a year and a half. Thats whats confusing I just feel numb and dead inside, don't really care about much anymore.

Hey, I was just wondering what is up with me. Lately I havn't really "felt" anything. I don't feel angry, frustrated, sad, depressed, happy I just seem to exist. And if I do feel anything it is completely dulled down. This has become worse in the last couple of days. For example, I was involved in a car crash (nothing seriouse) but was in a brand new car which I basically spent all my money I ever had on, and I am going to have to pay for the damage as the car that caused it drove off. I would have thought I would have had an adrenaline rush or got anoyed but nothing, I felt nothing. Only thing that I really get feeling from is being with my girlfriend, other than that life is so dull in between. And saying that I can't even visit my girlfriend until the car is fixed. I also used to price money quite high and respect the need for it, e.g. saving. Now to me it holds no value, and I know I should be worried about it, but I am not. I put this down to getting loads of money from the government for education allowance which is giving me an unfair easy ride compared to some as I am living with parents and not moved out. Well thats about all, don't know what I want to here, I just want to feel stuff again really. Thanks Jon

Thats just crazy 20 year olds 19 year olds and 18 year olds are all leagally adults. But someone 7 years older than them who is going out with them is a paedophile. Pedophilia is "The attraction to pre-pubesant teens" how in any shape or form is that a 20 year old. You can be 30 and dating a 15 year old (admitidly I think thats wrong) but if they are not pre-pubesant the adult is technically NOT paedophile. Also its stupid a 20 year old cannot date a 27 year old BUT a 21 year old can date someone who is 65. But I am sure a 2o year old dating someone alot older would never even get to court, as it is most likely an outdated law.