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    If one is working for some anti-terrorist government organization, and is tortured many times over his career, each time carrying with it greater pain, then when finally he is tortured the greatest amount of his life, then does that really make the torture of previous years more desirable, or the pain of the new torture any lesser? I can not see how these small hills can prepare the wagon for the mountain, richgabe. Emotional Pain, to me, comes in different forms, each one in its own way unbearable. I do not think that a bad relationship experience here will aid you in a both-parents-die-in-a-car-accident there. I do not presume to be stubborn, but hope to represent to you my point. Thanks for the feedback!
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    I think the true measure of how much you care for someone is not how good you feel when you are with them, but how much it hurts when you are without them. I suppose this is why people in HS can just blaze through person after person. In my own experience, the hurt from simply trying to get into a relationship isn't justified by the successful outcome in the same situation. Why would one want memories of the worst emotional pain of their life?
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    The way I see it, it is impossible to lose your virginity if you have not had sexual intercourse with someone of the opposite gender. Even if your hymen is broken while masturbating (which I doubt), then idealistically speaking you are just as much a virgin as a newborn baby. Don't be scared and ashamed-people have done far worse while motivated by sexual entertainment. Wash off the toothbrush holder and wash out your shame-you have ways to go yet before you lose your virginity to that lucky guy methinks.
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    What is the point of high school/middle school relationships? It makes very ltitle sense to me. Both parties involved know that they won't stay together for 'the rest of their lives' and many know they'll break up with someone before they even go out. Even in the most successful HS relationship, break ups happen as the two need to go to different colleges-or they attempt a long distance relationship doomed to failure or boredom. Even in the highly unlikely event that one actually does 'love' another, all I ever see is that there is a world of hurt in it for the lover or the female gets pregnant. I hate to be so skeptical, but perhaps your opinions will enlighten me. Thanks! -GG
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    The answer to the main question of the post is quite simple-you can not trust him again, nor should you. This guy sounds like world class scum and you need to drop him like third period french. In all seriousness, have some self respect and move on-however hard you may find it.
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    Cory- Hang out at your gf's house. Your mom needs some time away from your gf and anything associated with her. Continue your relationship-it sounds like a strong one, but try not to mix mom and gf. If your mom is rational enough to allow you to do whatever you want with her, then surely she is rational enough to grant your gf the respect she deserves, as you do. Your gf seems to understand the situation, so you are fine in that regard. Try to avoid conversation or providing information about your gf or her mom. Like physical wounds, time can help to heal this. Good luck!
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    You aren't implying that there's something wrong with flirting with single girls, are you? I don't look at other people's girlfriends myself, and I maybe I'm just misunderstanding your meaning, but it seems that to you guys checking out attached girls is ok.
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    Browse the forum a bit-if only you could switch with some people having the opposite problem! If you don't act on emotion or respond to his-you'll be fine. If he advances on you, just let him know how you feel about things. Good luck!
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    crizlee... Your beliefs/religion are your own choice, your parents cannot legally force you to remain part of a religion. What your parents are doing is a bit extreme, especially considering that you have a genuine concern about it. You need to work with your parents and try to see if there is a related religion they wouldn't disapprove of you joining that you like that you could go to. You need to reach an understanding with your 'rents on where you stand and how far things should go with religion. Best wishes!
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    Glad you could vent your anger. Congratulations on the post-relationship relief.
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    mtastic--- Take a shot at this girl and save yourself a lot of time. Your present concerns can only build up and overload you with anxiety, which will lead to you being to nervous/anxious to ask her out. To address your first concern, a new relationship is a very effective way to get over an old one. Secondly, it is more painful to remain lonely and regretful than it is to deal with the lost opportunity of not being lonely and regretful. Your third concern is not altogether a big one. Your first two concerns will only make you a more understanding and practical guy, which will make up in spades for being low on cash. Continue working on finding a job and strengthening your relations with this girl. Best regards!
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    Datguy- Your plan isn't all that different from what "alot of people say." If she accepts going out with you, then you'll 'get to know her' on the date. If you can't stop thinking about her, maybe it's best that you attack anyway. While I wouldn't condone your methods, I wish you the best of luck!
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    Shellie..... This guy has a legitimate interest, be that interest in a relationship or a valuable friendship. If your circles of friends are indeed close, then evidently you have a good chance. Be more empathetic-perhaps he is in the same boat you are. If HE can get your email of one of YOUR friends, then it seems logical to assert YOU could get his email off one of HIS friends. Maybe, like you, he is scared to contact you. When you two do talk again, be sure to make him feel more comfortable contacting you. Welcome him and then you can be the one making him wonder if you are interested. Good luck!
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    Hope, it would appear that if this girl has taken as much initiative (if not more) to communicate with you as you have taken to communicate with her, then conversely she likes you just as much (if not more) than you like her. Tell her how much you like her in the environment you are most comfortable in (online is the most likely). You need to find a conclusion with this girl if you are to be able to move on, be that conclusion a relationship or an understanding in the form of 'just friends'. Good luck!
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