Bjourne

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Since you just wont give up: Go sensual on her. Like further than just hugging and so on... You probably won't be a couple but maybe you can become f-buddies... Girls treat their male friends as genderless, you must show her you have balls.

Not quite. It began in the 19th century during the Victorian Age in Europe and America when people thought that sex was very shameful. They regarded masturbation as a physchological disorder. But even with all the social pressure to keep people from masturbation many boys just couldn't keep their hands of their weenies. So they invented different methods to curb the masturbation problem so that their masturbating youth would not be destroyed. Everything from electric shocks, ice baths, special masturbation-safe cloths to castration was tried. But no procedure was adequate. Well, castration stopped the masturbation but eh, that they thought was a little to inhumane. So some brilliant doctor came to think about the Jews. They removed the boys foreskin shortly after birth and it seemed to reduce the amount of masturbation. Awesome! he thought, and so was the method introduced all over the western world. But the Victorian Era was about to end and the tradition only rooted in North America where today most boys are circumsized at birth. However, at some time shortly before or after the World War 2 people stopped thinking masturbation was psychological disorder. And so they made studies showing that circumsizion had many medical benefits, completely disregarding the fact that only Americans, Muslims and Jews circumsize, the rest of the worlds population manage to live and procreate WITH a foreskin. The old myth was replaced with a new one. My opinion? Barbaric...

It's a common myth that a circumsized penis is more sanitary than an intact one, but it is not true. Countless of studies have shown there to be no medical benefits of circumsizion. In fact studies have shown the oppsite which is not strange since the foreskin has the same purpouse as the females vaginal lips - to protect the glands. Other effects of circumsizion includes: reduced ability to masturbate, reduced sensitivity in the glands etc.. So please do not be worried. Most men in the world are not circumsized.

Is two times a week really that low? Because that's all I'm getting. Should I leave my gf too? Or maybe you should try to learn the fine art of masturbation?

Judging from your story it seems you have taken it very cool. Thats good, but almost too cool. Because what happened to you is what I believe every guy is afraid will happen to them. Maybe that indicates that your feelings for her also dropped in the final months of the relationship? And yeah, you showed her to little affection, unless you can explain it with a very busy working life. The other guy seem to have been obviously playing her. And they say men doesn't play games. There is a line somewhere that a girlfriend and an other male friend cannot pass without setting the alarm off. I don't know where that line is, but I believe they did it. Your ex may or may not have known about it though. But I don't think you could have done anything about it, sorry.

I always thought breast size was proportional to body weight. I believe this guy has no secret motives, but is just saying that he wants to have sex much more than you wants to have sex and thereforeeee is breaking up.

You are more likely to win $50 m on the lottery then getting pregnant in those circumstances. Or much more likely to die in a traffic accident. You are basically using three different birth control methods simultaneously: condom*spermicide*pull out. Very low odds.

She is nice to you of the exact same reason that rock artists are nice to their fans. She knows that you like her and thereforeeee she wants to have you around, because her knowledge of your feelings make herself feel good. She is not flirting with you, only teasing you so that you will reveal that you are interested in her and she will feel appreciated. Guys do it too.

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Why does good girls like bad guys? Cause bad guys tell mad lies.

Yes I go at it with a scissor when I feel that my pubic hair is to long. Otherwise I would be a hypocrite. No I didn't ask her to shave completely. But thanks for the replies.

.. my womans, that is. So I'm trying to convince her that some shaving or atleast a little trimming would do her (I probably mean me) good. It really is a jungle down there, all over the cleft and continuing out on the inner thighs. Very much imprenetateable to oral sex for instance. She skillfully resists my attempts to persuade her by referring to the fact that almost no other women shaves. Unfortunately, I have only seen a very limited number of bushes in my life so I have to take her word for it. She concludes that my brain has been damaged from watching porn and that I should be content that she is shaving her armpits, because if I where dating a German, she probably wouldn't. So my question is, am I a pervert for begging her to do this? I wasn't asking for a clear-cut forest, just for some thinning. Who is right, me or her? Obviously it is her decision... but..

Judging from this thread: All girls shave or atleast trim. Almost all guys prefer shaved (or less). Is that how it is in the real world or are just those who have replied here unusual?

1. lesbians/threesomes 2. doing it in public places