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Something similar happened to me once. I was being introduced to a girl I haven't met before and she gave me a hug. Usually its a hand shake first but It doesn't matter. It could be anything.

Some more details would help out. Im a bit confused. So you want to live with your dad but your mom doesn't like the idea and your concerned on how your brother and your dog are going todo without you? Just tell your family how you feel. Why do you feel that your mom will get upset? Maybe you could work out a compromise like 1 month you could stay with your dad then the next month vice versa.

Keep yourself busy. Spend more time with friends, find a new hobby, join a club, do anything that is enjoyable to you. If both of you are ment to be things will come around, if not dont be hard on yourself. You'll find someone better.

Just like friscodj said. your only 16. I didn't have my first till 17 and things just happened. Ive only had 2 relationships.. the last one was bad.. My suggestion stay away from having a girlfriend until college. Worth the wait, and things happened when you least expect them

Its been about 2 months since ive been talking to this girl in my psychology class which meets every tues.+thurs It started out a bit slow then it became easy for me to talk to her without feeling nervous and she seem intrested in invloved in the convo. Ive got her # around 2 weeks ago but I had no luck calling her cause she said her cell phone wasn't working and was planing on getting a new cell phone. She said that sometimes her cell phone wouldn't have Signal for a couple of days then work again, and also this has happened before. Recently conversations feel ackward with long pauses/silences. I called her the following weekend I got her # and left a voicemail and have not got a response yet. I also feel that she is trying to make me jealous, just by noticing the way she talks to another classmate. Last thursday i noticed her Doodling I "heart" and something written inside the heart on her notes. Kinda felt like she was trying to make me notice since she wasn't covering it. I haven't tried calling again her yet. She mite not be talking as much since she isn't feeling well. She's taking Antibiotics for strep (no she doesn't have strep, takes them to make sure she doesnt get it, thats what she told me) and took nite-quill but didn't take day-quill. (could be the reason why she doesn't feel like talking much) Well anyways I plan on asking her someday and I dont know how. But does it seem like she has lost intrests? How do I tell her how I feel thats not commonly used? Thanks

Tricky decision to make here. Lets see, looks like she trust you well so there is a possibility that she is interested in being more than friend. follow your heart since you said . Its best to take it easy, in time you'll know when its right, it could be a month from now when you visit her or maybe before new years!. Try to see how she acts when your with her. does she tease you or constantly stares at you? something like that. As for giving her hints I cant think of any.

who does this? my ex called my old cell (my bro's cell phone now) 2 times last week. I dont now why she even calls, she broke it off. anyways maybe he's looking to be friends again or get back together or just closure. If you dont want him in your life let hin know.

thanks for all your suggestions. I have another one. How long do you wait until you call that person?

how do you ask for a girls #'s other than saying "whats your number?"

whats going on? maybe... 1: she is hurt from her last relationship and misses you because of that 2: feels guilt for leaving you so the only way for the guilt to go away is to contact you 3: just playing you 4: wants to reconcile I wouldn't believe her rite away. You mite get hurt again

Update I think I missed my chance on thurs She said something like "I didnt get to eat lunch yesterday and I wanted to grab something to eat before class but I didnt want to be late for class" my last class ended early and I just came back from the cafeteria! She was acting weird last tues. She kept looking at me and stared at me for a good moment. I happened to be looking at her direction before she looked at me. When we worked in groups she kept doodling on a piece of paper. " la la la" all over. I havent got the chance to asked her # yet eather... and Ive got 2 days off of school this week....

Yea it hurts similar to my sitation were my ex broke up with me then 3 days later she hooked up with my friend. I didnt find out until 5 days later.. Hang in there, your hurt will pass. Focus on other things to get your mind off of him.

She finally said hi first on tuesday ok today I asked her after class "I going to get something to eat at the cafe now. umm you wanna hangout for a bit?" then she said "you mean me??" guess she was surprised like you said. after i sad yes she said she has to goto work right after class then "maybe when my schedule changes" Im taking it easy anyways i got until the dec when the semester ends. I'll see what happeneds i hope i dont run out of things to talk about!

Its been a while since ive posted. Its the 3rd week of college. So far Things have been slow. People in class seem anti-social but I was able to talk one person in my psychology class. I dont understand myself now. It seem like i have feelings for this girl. I would get nervous when she comes into class. She also sits next to me. Ive posted another thread here about this situation link removed Its been about 4 months now. Its still been difficult. I would feel happy one moment then sad/depressed the next. Ive kept saying "I have nothing here, Im all alone, Why are the important things in life taken away from me" etc. I guess under the 5 stages of grief im still stuck in "depression". I seem to have some anger on my ex friend who got invloved. worst of all he goes to the same college as I do. I did run into him once, he was saying hey along with another friend, i looked at them and kept walking. I didnt say hello back. My family tells me i should forget the past. It was great but near the end things got bad. Misunderstandings and such. Sometimes i feel its still fixable at some point but im probably just gonna be wasting time. Things have been slowly looking up. I cant understand why i seem to feel a certain way when im talking to this girl at my psychology class. tomorrow im planing to ask her if she'll join me in the cafeteria after class. club signups start next tuesday. I'll make more firends there. "Be strong everything will get better soon"

from my experiences just wait. first off you gotta heal from your last relationship or else things will end up being the same. Second DO NOT go out with your ex's friend. My ex went out with a friend of mine 3 days after she broke up with me which really kills... Yes looks like your getting a bit desperate. If I were you dont think about relationship too much your age!!! Girls your age are just playing around!! You could be good friends with them fine but dont think about going further you'll end up getting hurt. Just wait until college or after you finish school and start working. Its hard but give it a try.