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Update Thinsgs are not going that well, I have been trying to get in touch with her but she never answers to my call I call her and leave her a voice mailmostly everyweek, as I have been going to her town almost everyweekend for work purpose and always call so that I can meet her. She responds to me after weeks. I also email her sometimes about my plan but she never replies back and always makes an excuse that her phone dies or she is too busy with her things. I am planning to visit her next week and take her for a game, also please advise me if it is too early to say the "L" word as she is leaving for hoildays for a month for christmas.Also advice me how can i hint her about my feelings.Myabe I should just call her or email her and tell all abt what I feel for her.

Thnks VultureFury and bethany for your wonderful insights on the topic. As per the gesture she was looking at me and smiling. The biggest problem is communication as my busy schedule doesn't allow me to visit her that often, I can keep in touch by calling her all the time but then i dont want her to think tht i am worrying her a lot by calling. Plz advice me how to avoid that

hey guys i know this girl from a long time and good friends with her and have started having strong feelings for her. I have been thinking about her a lot these days and deeply in love with her. She is two hrs from where i live we dont get to see each other that often.We do keep in touch through phone. I just visited her this weekend and for the first time i found out that we have quiet a lot in common, in fact we think alike on a lot of issues. She also told me some secrets which she hasn't told anyone and tells me tht she shes kinda impressed with me.We couldnt spend a lot of time together though. I am planning to visit her again next month. I still don't know her feelings for me. Should i confess her everything or wait, as i dont want to stain our friendship. i think i should go slow and steady. Has any1 in the same situations plz advice.She is very busy and i m the one who calls her all the time she never does tht maybe she is not intrested in me. please advise me how to find out her feelings for me also i want to hint her abt my feelings for her in my next meeting. help

i dono if i m at the rite place Hi guys I have a friend. she stays like two hrs from my place.But i hardly get to see her.We are in constant touch over the phone. Recently I have started having feelings for her and thinking abt her all the time.I know she likes me but maybe not the same way as i do She is visiting me in the nxt two weeks. I wana break the ice and speak my heart out and tell her that I love her. She is single. I need advice as I am not sure how to go ahead and confess her my feelings, at the same time i dont wana stain our friendship.how shld i proceed?Has any1 been in a similar situation before. what did u do? plz help

hey ayekasong & denise_14 thnx for the advice. I am academically doing good and put a lot of time to studies. I will PM u as i m back as I am off to DC for the weekend. I have a plans to meet few old friends there. I m looking forward to hangout with them.

I need some advice I feel totally depressed these days. reason being i shifted to a new university and its been more than a month i don't have a single friend to rely on. I don't even have a job rite now and its very hard to pass time out here. I don't have a girlfriend either. I am a very fun loving person but can't do anything alone.I . I feel lonely and depressed all the time and feel like running away. Please help!!