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well some of my other converations are like this this situation the students rate the teacher on the instructors performance: me: i gave the teacher like 2 of of 5 in every rating, i don;t like this teacher he sucks and hes a hard teacher, what did u give the teacher rating wise her: hmm i a easy marker so i gave him like 4 out of 5's. yea but his tests are hard that for sure me: omg why did u give him 4, he sucks. oh i now u like him hey, ah why don;t u ask him out-jokin wise yea hey u like him ahhh her: yea he sooo hot-sacrastically stayin it. me: wooo why don;t u just ask him out-teasing and joking with her me: i like our business planning teacher more-easy test, less homework and funny. this teacher sucks i don't like him, i study so hard and i still get a low mark i hate it. her: yea blah blah-not sure what she said. me: u going to a degree after this dilpioma program her-yea i am maybe univ of bc , and how about u me , degree for me would take forever and anyways i'm 24 by that time i be so old like 26 or 27, if i do i do, i don;t plan things. anyways school for me is boring. her by the time i finish my degree i be like 24-so old yea ok that some pieces of my conversations-advice or what should i have said
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ok my converstaion is like this school based. this is a gal that was in a previous class of mine and now is in the same class also this semester too. me-so how did u do in psych class her-good me-yea me too, lot of reading hey i hated it, but it was interesting her-yea i hate reading too me-so what courses u taking this semester her-ah business, physics ,bio, law me-OB, business planning, accounting, me-ah i hate physics can't calculate numbers,why u takin it her-ah i hate physics too, i take it b/c no other electives. goes something like that-pretty much basic cas conversation about something we have in common or experienced. now i'm working at some tech place-yea all guys no gurls so far well just my first 2 days so who nows -but i doubt i see any gals. yea great hey. i was thinkin of picking up and getting gals numbers on the bus or gals waiting for the bus-any advice and tips .well since i have no other way of meeting gals now, that just great hey link removed here are my pics
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ok my question is this is it really that hard these days for a avg guy-asian to get a girl to go out with you-asian or white girl. i have tried like 3-4 x's in my 2 yrs in college, one said no -maybe next time-remember guys if u recall the leanne situtaion like of last yr, another one a girl from my other class-got her e mail after talking to her on the bus-ask her out no responce of 3 e mails, another girl said i wasn;t her type. i have read a lot of advice from u guys and other forums -don;t be desperate, be cool, take it or leave it approach.... for some reason not sure but i do try -i find it hard gettin just a date-girl to hang out with u . these girl aren't stunners like decent to good looking-i'm not a decent looking guy too. the first girl i screwed up with is i went too fast and too eager -didn;t got for the number or e mail addy, second one i did but e mailed me after i e mailed her a second time,-seems like no interest. do girls these days in their 20's don;t want to date or are they looking for the best they can get. what is it how do u guys or gals do it-its hardddd for me just to get a date to get a gal to hang out with u-movies, hang out at the fair, shopping , anything. i treid online-no success either -you talk to ppl on IM but nothing.
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the thing is it did use a condom
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she gave me a bj to get me hard and enrolled a condom with it, i also used condom for intercourse, was very short- i didn;t even cum i was so nervous, i was very short but intercourse -yes. lubricant was used. she gave me a hand j at the end to make me cum-but i didn;t iw as too nervous. tell u the truth i am scared. 24 yrs old only
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ok heres the deal on aug 3 i went to massage p and got a massage and afterwards got well full serice as what they call it. i had sexual contact. the day afterwards i got a couple of small red bumps near the base of the head of my penis. it was midly itchy but nothing too painful, so after like 3 days the bumps are still there but not as showing-somehow it kinda of clear up but not totally gone as before-and no pain or no itch. ok what it can;t be herpes right. what is it. nowing i am experiecing some tightness near more above part the left kidney area . not suire what it is. no pain or nothing just kinda of weird feeling. i went for a std test-blood test and urine too, on aug 8 monday and was told if i get a phone call its bad news and if i get no call it means i'm fine. i have never gotten a std test so i am kinda worried.
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ok lets say u tell her u work nights which u don;t -trying to find a job , and the only time ur free is the afternoons and u go out lets say every fri, or sat afternoons, eventually i was talking to a friend and she said ah no wouldn;t work b/c she'll suspect ur cheating. what do u guys think. and if she does how can i make it without suspecting. would it work for u as a guy or gal if the person u were dating only had the afternoons free- and said yea i work nights. would u go for it. i knew a cousin who had a great job 40 yrd accountant chinese born canadian, old couln't find a gf and had to go back to china-farming place to find a wife and bring her back to canada. tell u the truth every family reunion every cousin brings along their SO while he never ever had one. i asked folks why he had to go back to china and they said b/c he couldn;t find a girl here so . reason why she's with him-better life no necessary for love. i knew some guys that got crap job or a lower paying job than their gf and thier gf or wife made more money than him and they still together. no sure how they got together
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1 to 2 semester and i am finished-but as for job chances well i am very sketchy about it. i have finished a 1 yr IT certicate at a community college and couldn't get a job doing tech support work. tried everything-applying, this and that . its all about ur connections adn friends who get ur jobs-networking and who ya now-as i now no one and has no social life or now anyone i am takin bus management diploma at a univ college don;t think i will go for a degree if i get a job-related and a satified job. are u sure what u learn u will never use on the job-elobrate
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my markrs are like average has always been avg in college and in HS and elementary -never did great in school-it also depends on the subject-thats like wtih every student- easy subjects i get higher marks and harder subjects well i get lower marks-even if i study harder. ah i have talked to my parents about this issue its like my way or highway kind of thinking. yea kind of like the miltary but with chinese parents no joke. my sis gets pretty damn good marks and they are like that with her too-so marks doesn;t really matter. i am thinkin of moving out but i need a good paying job first before i do it, right . if i move out its like i'm on my-no money for u, no nothing , my folks are old school and in chinese culture u don;t move out till ya marry. they would also give me a lot of crap for it too.
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ok llets say u live with ur folks college student-24 yrs asian guy old, and ur parents don't let u go out a night time-b/c they are strict-they want u to study-even in the daytime, but less wise in the daytime-as i can say i go to the library-6pm the library closes so i have no more excuses, they want u to study all day and night and even-weekends too. i live at home and yea they are strict i kinda of want to ask this girl out, what do i do? one strategy was to tell the girl i work at night time a lot, and day times are free-except for the days i go to school, so pretty much saturday like afternoons.-tell folks i go to libary and for like 2 hrs hang out with the girl or so anymore excuses or anything i don;t want to tell the girl-well ah my parents don't let me go out at night time-ah she'll think and laugh right hahhaha, yea and its unheard of. for some reason my parents are so strict-school and career is number one and they don;t care about anything else. friends or gf or sports they don;t even want me to have or participate, nothing just school school and all of it. what do i do. my parents are old school and old fashioned and are chinese immigrants-i was born in canada-most asian i talk to aren;t like this but mine. helpppppp. i pretty much have no life or social life-that what made me antisocial. never had gf or even hardly any friends
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i don;t now why as a guy we have to do everything, take the inititave to talk to the girl, wonder if she is intrested, and if she is ask her out and we might even get rejection and face embarrassment. i mean as a guy i have to do a lot of work. all the girl has to do is give the guy a couple of glances to show she is interested and thats it oh ya and dress up and look nice-makeup, nice clothes. i think its a lot of work especially if ur a shy guy like myself. it helps a lot when u have a girl who likes knows she likes a guy and ask him out and initiate. i myself have had girls looks at me, check me out but never once did i have a girl ask me out or even flirt -that be the case at 24 asian guy i never had a gf or dated b/c of my shyness and quiteness. tell u the truth i probably missed like 5 chances in HS and college combined just due to cluelessness of the signs girls give out(always looking at me, sayin hello, give me pat on the lap,) and not nowing what to do, shyness, quietness- i mean if the gal had found me attractive -why didn't she ask me out or initiate. these days i have changed- i have a friend who is a girl now, i am also talkin-well small talk to girls as before when i was in HS and in my very earlt 20's i wouldn't even go up and talk to a girl, all i have to do now is ask for a gal's numberwhich i have done ,and ask her out which i haven't had a date yet. i did go out with a gal from one of my classes ,but wasn't attracted to her at all-more like a friend date and practice wise for myself. i can tell u this its sooo frustrating. tell u the truth i don't even now where i going to find my future wife or gf -ppl say school but it happening it for me now. i really wish girl were more assertive in getting a guy they liked
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ok here my question, met this girl who was in one of my classes last semester she was waiting for the bus as i was, so i chit chatted with her about how she did in chinese language class,etc..... we also chatted about what courses she took on the bus and sat beside each other on the bus. i never talked to this gal during class or anytime but i do recognizse her face from one of my classes-that why i started talking to her. as i was to get off my stop- i asked her to give me her e mail which she did, so i emailed her after 2 days-sayin hows it going, this and that and that i can help her with english-shes a int student from japan anyways i get no e mail -no responce, whats with this. i was thinkin of being friends and making casual dating her. it has happened to me before but with another gal, we exchanged e mail and msn addy to talk online - i said hi and no responce-this after like 6 x's but differe periods. ok why would they do this? should i have went for the number and would i make any differ-i mean they can just give u a fake #. ok is also gettin a date or have a gal hang out with u these days-is it really that hard. seems like i can't pull nothing. i mean just going for a quiick bite at some cheap joint restaurant and go for a walk or rollerblade in summer with a gal. these gals are also just avg looking tooo i would say a 6 , 7 out of 10
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my initial question was , if a gal wears nice clothes like puma, roxy and other name brand clothing and she looks good does that make her a gold digger.they dress nice in brand clothing and have dyed hair pro done .......and get those manicures...etc whatever, i mean she has a set standard-the way she looks right, would that make her more money grubby , and is that a good way you can tell by looking at her dressing style and looks if she is a gold digger or not
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has any of u guys had a gf or even a dated a gal who wanted you to buy her clothes, and if u didn't have any money to buy it for her what did u do. i mean do u buy it for her. i am a student and i was to work and if i did i barely have enough . all i am sayin is i now this gal who wears clothes like TNA, Puma, Roxy and other name brand stuff which are quite pricey and i am guessing if i date her i might have to fork out some money to be with her- well you now making her like me and be with me or else she might leave me for another guy. she also dyes her hair and it looks like she gets it professionally done. she more like the trendy type i guess-trend settters-something like that myself i don;t wear anything name brandish jsut from old navy and gap mostly old navy i not rich.
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ok with u guys do u usually make small talk about the course u both are taking togther and then maybe after a while of just being casual aquintances and nothing more-just the girl u see in class and , ask the girl you like out , or do u guys be friends first with the girl and then ask her out. the last time i asked a gal out was the first method made small talk and guess what it blew in my face, i asked her out right after our class to go have a cup of coffee with me and she said no maybe anpother time, 3 days later she told everyone in my class-college i got these smirks and smiles -it was embarrassing too considereing the college i go to is small. everyone nows everyone-pretty much. and guess what i didn't even say anyhthing sexual or unappropriate -jsut cas converstions about her courses she was taking my friend said i scared the girl off by going too fast and asking the girl out right away, as i should have gotten to now her more first as a person. any thoughts guys what do u guys do if u like a girl in one of ur classes. funny thing is the same girl had 1 class with me in the previous semester and also in other semesters too was always looking at me , she never went up to me and talked to me. i took the glances and looks as interested motions-yea but then why would she say NO then funny hey.
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what does it mean when a gal says to u -ur scrubby looking. i was talking to a female classmate and one of the guy classmates said do u like that guy and she said no , she said i ain;t into hip hoppers-a guy with baseball hat backwards, and 2 earrings, and then i said if hes a hip hopper what am i and she looked at me and what i was wearing and i guess my hair too and said ur scrubby looking -what does that mean
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as for urself great ur a virgin , but as for the gurl who is 23 who said she is who nows she could be lieing-maybe she likes you and doesn't want u to think that shes a sleeping around kind of gal. as for the 29 yr old or 23 yr old who nows ppl say they are and some say they aren't u can tell by looking at em or anything -u just gotta trust em.
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i really wonder how many ppl % wise -esp the girls lets say in their early to mid 20's in college are even virgins- i bet like none to maybe one in a million. even they shy quite girls i bet aren;t virgin. the ones that say they are -are lying unless they are like diehard every sundays going to church kind of girl. myself being a virgin not by choice but b/c of lack of opportunity. i have explained my situtation in other posts to you guys i think growing up my parents-my folks raised me as a very sheltered, overprotective child and even today she still does at 24, that is why i was raised keep to urself kind of way . i really believe that my chance of marrying or having a virgin gf is slim to no way. some girls may say they are but good luck especially if u have money and they girl likes u as a futures husband or bf she might lie to make you like her. i think in reality i just gotta accept it.
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if he doesn';t have a job and his folks are lazy and lack money how does he take u out on dates and what does he do on ur dates. i usually thought going on dates required some money.
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how did she now i was a virgin just by talking to me
joe45 replied to joe45's topic in Sex and Romance
any help disguising the virgin factor please guys. what to say and not to say and actions...... ok how does desperation allow a sense that one is a virgin or not, it could be that the guy really likes the girl or is interested. i mean for heck all the guy could have lost it with a escort its weird just talkin to her and could tell -
ok was talking with the female group class member today and i was sitting next to her-i didn;t bring my textbook. she bought her ex bf about how he keeps on emailing her to do things this and that and i said why don't u just tell him to get lost and she said she can't. then i asked her out of 10 what would u give me. well anyways she said everyones preference is differ one girl says hot and the other says not-which is true. then i said ah i go for every girl and then she says ah u desperate- and then she said ah i can tell ur a virgin. the thing is i am but i can';t tell how she figured it out just by talking to me. i asked her and she said u seem desperete and can't handle rejection-and some how that relates to being a virgin. anyways i'm 24 maybe look around 22 or so but not sure how she found out. i mean how can a girl find out if ur a virgin or not just by talking to u-she did say she studied pschology before. any thoughts
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REJECTION hurts.. how do I deal with it.. what went wrong
joe45 replied to Massari's topic in Dating Advice
yea i understand i been rejected once-as a new guy to dating it sucks. one thing u gotta keep in mind is never put the gurl on the pedestral, that way you won;t get hurt. -
what happens if u get lower grades than her lets say ur a c plus to b minus students and shes like a b plus. lets put it this way what happens if she gets higher marks then u-will it be a problem.as a whole do u girls care. i usually thought a girl going for a smarter or smart guy meant better earning potential and success which equates to more money-like doctors, lawyers, successful businessmen and anyone who went to univ with a bachelors or higher. women love successful men. i had this problem before in HS got my mark in science 9 scored like 56% yea it was hard and the girl next to me got like 80%(something like that -just scored higher) and said "such a poor mark".
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are girls willing to date , be friends with or hang with a guy who is academically slower learner than she is. i am talking about stuff like math -there is a problem solving component it requries u to think and use forumulas to solve the problem, programming-visual basic 6.0 requires u to type in code and make the simple program work and run, accounting has probles to solve for X and they give u this and that. this is at the college level and also at HS before i was slow.like phsics 11 in HS was hard for me all these problems and solving this and that ah hated it gave me headaches same for math problem solving and some math too-required u to really think sometimes. i usually get it but it takes time i have to ask the teacher after class or on her office break or ask fellow classmates who are willing to help me out. when it comes to straighforward stuff like intro to business class or HR class its easy read the text read the notes and maybe do the questions at the back of the book and ur set for the exam. so i am saying do girls look down on guys and is it a turnoff if the guys is lets say a slower learner and needs to ask the teacher for questions about something he didn't understand. i now if she ain;t to u who cares someone will, but i just want ur opinions and thoughts.
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i'm asian btw and i noticed that women as a whole don;t flirt with me or show any interests this is espcially with asian women most of em are quite and shy and they aren't very talktive. i donlt think i had a asian gal all smiling and flirty wiht me ever if it was its was just friends kind of way. how about ui guys. i hear guys in some other forums and this one too saying women flirting with em and teasing em and talking to em .... well it never happens to me. most gals just talk to me like normally and thats it nothing more or less. are women as a whole more consverative nowadays- go to college in my 20's. i also find that as a guy i have to put a lottt of effort on my part to get to now the girl or if not they won't notice me or anything. is it that hard