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unless its a great substantial differ i doubt she really be able to tell. i am takin about 1 to 2 inches. anyways its not like the girls going to measure u by the inch with a measuring tape.

we all now women love taller men but what happens if ur at the age where u stop growing,. there are solutions like wearing a shoe lift or wearing a shoe with a thick log heel. has anyone here worn a shoe lift before a piece of hard foam u put in ur shoe around a inch thick or so to make ur self taller. what do u think and feel about it. i'm 5 6 7 probably more like 5 6. btw u can get em at link removed or anyone tried those elevator shoes. anyone here has a pair of elevator shoes i do they were so expensive 160 bucks canadian since i had to transfer american funds to canadian . yea money. what are ur opinions and feeling and for ppl who are wearing a shoelift how do u like it. where did u get urs

ok letting the guy pay for all ok. then how does hte guy now that the girl is really into him and not just for the freebies.some girls are just big pretenders making u believe they are all into u buit they aren;t or juggling another guy they are into but wanting u b/c u have some specific assets or something. come on dating and going out is $$$. women make good money these days or just as much. my cousin a draftsperson and his gf is accountant she makes more and guess who still pays -yea him it sucks.

to the guys here both white and asian or....etc who have dated asian gals -when u guys went out who pays. i am chinese and my mom says in the chinese culture if the guy and gal(dating) go out in the chinese or say asian culture it is the guy who should pay for everything and anything and this is not just on the first date but every date. how did u guys go about it. was there ever any fights or conflicts. what did u guys do on ur dates. any differ between dating asian gals and white gals -personality wise. i was even told the girl doesn;t even touch a dime b/c if the girl has to pay on a date- i am taking about paying for her own share-the meaning behind that is she isn't even worth it. on wedding day the guy pays for the wedding costs as in western culture the bride family pays for it so cultural conflict arises.

Posted - 5/22/2005 8:01:26 PM for u vancouver guys do u think that havin a car is unneccasary consdiering the bus sysltem in vancouver is pretty good. i go to downtown vancouver and around broadway and the bueses there are quite frequent and available. don;t u guys think havin a car is a non necessary in vacnvouer considering the bus system in van is good. i never had a car been takin the bus since age 16 i am now 24. don't have money for a car even if i did might not even get one. only reason i might want one is if i get a gf or a date to impress the girl that hey i have a car. anyways have any of u guys who don't have access to a car are u still able to date or have a gf and if so how??? are the girls willing to go out with u on dates , how do u tell em? do u ever get rejected b/c u don;t have a car

hey jw43677 how do would u now that i seem like a nice guy by reading my posts?? i not not mean though. anyways i guess u guys are right. btw how many ppl drive nice cars anyways -not many well compared to ppl who drive avg to crappy cars. also most guys have gfs or have had expect for me lol- right but not every guy has a nice car-that is correct. oh maybe i should just get a girl with a car- be it nice or not and not worry about gettin myself a car. lol heee anyways vancouver buses are pretty good these days and pay parking in dwtn vancouver is $$$$$$.

i'm not even talking about ferrarais , porsches, just newer looking and nice cars a new prelude, a new import sports cars -rsx, civic soupe up, new bmw..... anyways not too many to hardly any guys drive ferrarais or porsches. the thing is these guys are young too early 20's and driving these new new recent model cars-ah kinda of makes me little pissed off

hey was in richmond,bc today i live in vancouver ricmond has many asians-esp chinese and one thing i found out is that every guy who drives a honda prelude a new one or better-bmw, rsx.... well new new cars all had a pretty girl on the passenger side. the guys who drove the 7 yrs or older cars had no girl beside him. ok are women really money about a guys car, and really material these days. do they judge a guy if he has a car or not b/c i don;lt have a car. any guys here have a gf a decent looking one and don;t have a car or have a crappy one. thats what i really noticed these days. where do u find a gf who isn't material or money these days. i don;t have a car and i'm chinese cbc while all these other chinese guys have cars and nice ones- how can i be a advantage towards em/ why would a girl want me instead of mr/ bmw or mr new car. is this just an asian thing.

i never asked for her #, i just asked her out right after class and she said No-but with-too much hwwork- this was also the first wk i might add so how can one have a lot of hw. should have went for the # or developed more rapport before askin. i asked for coffee or soda-maybe she thought that idea was too cheap and didn;t want to go. anyways it was a rookie mistake-thats all .

no sure if u guys remember about my leanne situation but this started in december of 2004 when i asked her out and she declined me-i was so embarrassed as she did tell a lot of fellow classmates about what i did. i can tell by the smirks i got directed at me. so the following semester-we didn't have any classes togheter -woow great, but this semester-today the first day we do. i don;t want to come off as not nowing i didn't notice her since the class is relatively small -but should i say hello to her and make small talk. i now i won't be seeing her again any time as now she be finishing off her degree. i looked at her today but she didn;t look back at me. it be great for the members who have read my previous posts about my leanne situtation and give me some feedback. i seen the girl look at me when i'm not looking at her, but when i look at her she doesn't look at me. shy or what. i think a lesson learned get to now the girl more before askin her out.

i'm 24 male asian yea lol. thanks for the free advice on free things. hope girls out there actually would like it

do women out there like guys who are inexperienced in dating, kissing and inexperienced sexually. i am asking this b/c yes i am one. i hope when i do get a gf she won't see me as some weird or inferior for being such a late bloomer.some gals might find it weird. i really don;t even have a excuse for my lack of women other than shyness, quiteness, lack of socail skills and no that much money-i think dating requires money(go out to eat, movies, ........) i mean don;t women all love money so they can go shopping. its so depressing when i go out and see couples my age holding hands-since i am single for soo long and never had a gf or dated. as u or read some of my previous posts.

ok just a random question is it really that hard to find a gf these days. u guys seen my pic i ain;t ugly. 24 m never had a gf or date and its is bugging me so bad these days. i just want to go on a date just one and maybe kiss a girl on the cheek would be good. i don't want to be 33 or older and still dateless. what 16 yr old males have had with a women i haven't even experineced. shyness and quiitness is to blames but i am conqueitring that fear now by talking to more ppl. i just trying to make more guys friends and hoping that one of em would hook me up with a gal. so to u guys is it really that hard to find a gf or date or a gal to hang out wiht and please some advice. this subject is bugging me for agessss

flavour ?? give me some examples please-lines

ok am i considered a player: i like to talk and be friendly with girls-not just one girl-any girl who seems receptive and nice. i usually initiate,but if they show some effoprt i will be friendly back to em. you could call this friendlyness fliritng a little too. this it directed at not just one girl but others too: my flirtiness includes: winks, smiles and winks, hi (her name) and followed by a smile,compliments on her good grade she got in that class- ur smart tahts a very good mark, waves-as to say hello or good bye, compliments on her clothing attire-"i like shoes-they are nike shoxs-their expensive hey-ah but ur worth it and a smile with it and , u have good taste. at times i hold my smile longer than usual. i also give out eyebrow raises as i smile-is this ok. telling the girl i like her b/c she easy to talk to and nice and maybe at possibnel to hang out with her. example this girl i like is in 2 of the same classes i am in too i say" ah we have 2 classes together , thats great it must be fate". or i say "i am so happy we have 2 classes together that means we can study together" anyother ways i can also be a flirt or a better one-examples please-i am a rookie. what is a tease and what would a tease do-give some examples please . what also do they mean by a guy being playful-some examples.

u hear that the way a guy dresses can make a woman want the guy even more-true or not. well for me clothes these days are $$$-i tend to buy some clothes from old navy, wal-mart, zellers, cheap places -hey at least they are new, as i can't afford anything too expensive like name nbrands-tommy, dkny, and even sport brands like nike, puma, fila.... can be quite pricey for me. I remember is HS everyone wore nice and name brand clothes-except for me and maybe a couple of other kids and now in college still same thing-but maybe alittle bit better. yea embarrassing times during my school yrs. well do women really care about the way a guy dresses, the clothes i have are quite new but nothing name brandish just shirts, short, jeans..... plain stuff of clothes. if the gal i like and most gals i now dress in nice brandish kind of clothes would she date a guy that dressed in "not so in fashion" or the no so brandish clothes. just askin i think i even had a gal talk to her other friend about ewwww look at the way he dresses he wears red ... something like that

what does tackly mean. a couple more of my comments we are in the classroom and a ambulance or firetruck sirens are ringing- myself and the ppl i am with don't see its a ambulance or firetruck yet -but i say "oh no they're comin to get me" joey-says for what me-hmmm i don;t now with a grin -and then later i might laugh to myself another comment to a women i am attractd to she walks by i say "ah damn yeaaa" would that work-then later i might laugh to myself i am wearing a muscle tees i flex my biceps em and say ah hey guys which one do u think is bigger and then laugh after i say my comment so u work at xxxxxx yea they hire all the cute gurls there. "ah i knew it a beautiful women like u could never be singel what was i thnking" this is after i ask her if she has a bf-is this a good flirting line a girl classmate offers me a bag of wethers orginals,but doesn't excpet me to take the whole bag of it just one candy,-i say "ah thanks all for me hey" ahahhahahhahahahahh then later after the laughing i say jsut kidding hahahhaha what do gals or ppl think of a guy that says comments and then later laughs at his jokes or comments, but no all the time ,just to the comments and jokes he thinks is funny-not sure if the person listeining to it is funy.

ok do women or ppl in general like sacrastic jokes here is an example. john-i have a friend who has 3 tests in one day me-wow luckly guy hey john-wowo the story we have to read this week is long hey-(its actually 10 pages story) me-yea they should have made a novel out of it we are in the parking lot and i can't find my car i get worried-i make a commnet ah who cares i got insurance it'll just buy a new car ah that what insurance is for right. the bus these days are so slow i bet i could run faster than the bus

ok is it just me or is finding a gf or even a date a hard thing. 24 yr old never had gf or dated before. before i was shy and quiet guy, now changing and being more talktive to ppl but still lack friends to hang out with- mostly ppl who are aquiatances-classmates. to u guys is it really hard to find a date or gf for the typical college guy or is it just me not trying hard enough. yes i read in an article about gals apporaching guys and askin em out...... well this never ever happened to me. what do u do. i have posted my pic here before and most ppl sayt i am avg to good looking. some ppl tell me to be friends with the gal first then ask her out others say jsut ask her out after small talk ... so hard to even figure out of askign out for a date and finding a gf or even a date. the thing is i never even had a female friend before in my life i have had guy friends but not many just one or 2 close ones, i wish i was a groupie once in my life. ppl tell me to join clubs, org.... i done it did it -most ppl end up being aquitances and not friends so whats the use. ppl these days seem to have thier own life and friends and don't want to hang out with me for some reason. i do make sacrasatic comments- an exdample, not sure if its turning em off. john-i have a friend who has 3 tests in one day me-wow luckly guy hey john-wowo the story we have to read this week is long hey-(10 pages story) me-yea they should have made a novel out of it basically i am asking is making friends and gettin a date or even gf really hard these days or is it just me-weird , sacrastic personaltity. i also laugh at my own jokes that i make -not sure if the person would think it is funny or not. maybe that turns ppl off

ur 24 wowo already have ur own apt wow what kind of wrk do u do and ur schooling. i am ur age too but not as established as u are. anyways i am similar to u 24 and never had a gf....what i got to now from gals is that if the gal is a 6.5 to a 10 a good chance shes got a bf , that what i found out.eitehr they tell u directly or somewhere in the conversation or ya hear em talking to their friend or someone and they mention bf. are u asian too. seems like a lot of aisan parents don't want there kids ot date... till later in life and then the kid finds out it is very hard to actually find someone. i usually think that if ur a guy that has a great job and money that women would just flaunt right in front of u-that what mom said, guess not hey

hey shea: did the bf later get mad at u or anything. threatne u . thats why it kind of dangerous to flirt with gals ya never know if they have a bf, and if that bf might beat ya up for fliritng with his gal

ok heres the deal, i now this gal from one of my language classes and shes nice and all right. i saw her at the cafertia and she waved at me saying hello and i said hi back. we chatted about our new substuite being all strict and all and that our new teacher will be back ah thank god. shes seemd nice and really talktive, i asked her if she was going take courses in the summer she said yes and i said i was going to take courses in the summer too. i told her i had a pic on hot or not and she said she would never do that as it would be so embarsssing, and that when she sees it she give me a 10 and e mail me. thats when i asked from an exhange in email. i gave her mine and i asked for hers with her e mail she also wrote down her msn messenger. i did tell her my problems with a girl i liked and hoiw i got rejected and she gave me some advice and we role played-pretend u are the girl and i am the guy thing. 2 days ago i msn messengered her she didn't respond to "hi how u doin" i wasn;t on mesenger for long, today i said" finished one exam one more to go" she didn't resond back. it did say jen(away) but i messeenger her anyways while she was online, she doesn't respond. then like later in 5-8 minutes later shes offline. so why didn't she respond to my messenger while she was online even though away. btw she did mention she has a bf which i don't care i jsut want a female friend to hang with. it be nice , what should i do to make her now i just want to be friends and nothing more. i never had a female friend. i am 24 but told her i was 22 -anyways i look young and she is 18. what should i do if she still doesn't respond. she a nice girl but also ncie and talktive to everyone guys and gals. i could be the finals lots to study and not much time to chat, but what happens if this still continues on after the finals what should i do. just drop it hey

ok last summer i wore a white tank top or a muscle tee as u could say to class-college. the story here is that i got smiles from the one of my teachers-female young and also some smiles from girl classmates. ok whats that about. i don;t necessary have huge arms. i;m 5 7 145lbs. any of u guys who aren;t on the huggeee side wear muscle tees. are they smiling b/c of attraction or b/c they can;t believe a skinny guy would be wearting a tanlk top to class like that. oh ya how can i measure my arms

how would u go about gettin a gal number from -lets say at a coffee place, libary-well basically apporaching a stranger but its a gal and u think shes hot. what do u say. and when do u go for the number before i asked a gal from school-college and was told u had to be friends first and i screwed that up big time. talk about losing face.

when to ask em out? ok do u become friends wiht em first and for how long before u ask em out, orr do u just make small talk with em be a casual aquitance and then ask her out, which ways do u guys do it and which ways work the best. i did the small talk and ask out and got rejected. the is in a school situation-college. what about situtations in the gym, library, bus... what do u do. i heard some gals are afraidn if they don't now the guy very well or at all that it comes off as scary-he could be a creep or something. hmm one thing i never had a gf is i am 24 and like only asked like one girl out in my whole life that is why. so i dont; really have a record