I wonder how many of us given up something (like job, hobbies,etc.) just to be with our love ones?
I, myself have done this thing. I quit my job for my xbf who thought it's because of my job so that we never really got a chance to see each other often. But becuz i loved him that time, i did that thing. Thinking, it will get better. well, i was wrong, it turned out worse and i broke up with him. can't believe i was so dumb before. whenevr i think of that these days, i just laughed at it and say 'he was my first boyfriend and knew nothing about relationships'.
right now, experiencing the same thing. but this time he is my now xbf (second). It was LDR. we both like each other. it's either i give up something to be with him or he give up something to be with me. i know for men, work is their first priority. so i'm thinking of giving up my job to be with this guy. he wants me to live with him there.
what should i do now?