heyduh Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 i'd like you to post 5 to 10 words (non explicitives .. hehe) that describe your feelings towards the ex from your last relationship ... and be sure to mention your sex and whether you are a dumpee or dumper (I doubt we have many dumpers here, but just in case we do ... please mention it) i'm a quickly reforming male dumpee .. hehe and these are my feelings towards her in no particular order: betrayal longing anger confusion hope jealousy denial vengeance (ouch!) bittersweet resignation Link to comment
Closure Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Indifferent Pity Happy Couldn't Give A Expletive Male, Dumpee Link to comment
majord23 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Male, dumpee: Lingering, but not strong: Betrayal Anger Overall: Fondness Satisfaction Acceptance. Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female Dumper (ex fiance) Alcoholic liar manipulator warm funny alone scared weak lost unknowing Link to comment
Lealing Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female dumpee: Emptiness Longing Lonely Sad Hopeless Link to comment
Sad_now Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female/er..dunno...dumpee who initiated the dumping (made him admit there was no point going on like this as he was just having his cake and eating it) Humiliated Hurt Panicky Degraded Stunned Lonely Free Link to comment
shes2smart Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 female, dumper pity amusement (at his actions) disgust (at his actions) disbelief (what the heck was I doing with him?!) but mostly....indifference Link to comment
blackberry Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 male, dumpee forgiving forgetting progressing healing determined to do it for me Link to comment
Boughtandpaidfor Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 male dumper. It would have been braver to dump before I left Link to comment
rose2summer Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female, Unsure of whether dumper/dumpee, probably a bit of both 1. Elated (happy to be free) 2. Grateful (every relationship is a learning experience and I am not sure had I not entered this one, would I have been exposed to what I really don't want in a man) 3. Thankful (for all the help he provided medically for my family) 4. Apathetic (lost romantic feelings towards him) 5. Renewed (new outlook on getting what I want out of life) All in all, a relationship may be successful or it may not, but at least I gave it my best shot and I gave him more than enough chances, and I learned a great deal from him about life, and about how I must be very selective who I marry, and what qualities a man can have that don't deviate from what I want. For the most part, it was a good learning experience. Link to comment
Cassie Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female, dumper. I feel heartbroken, hurt, angry and betrayed. But I like Rose2Summer's response. It reminds me why we are each here on this earth; ultimately, to learn. I want to try to take the good out of this experience and move on with a brighter, more mature outlook. Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 i'd like you to post 5 to 10 words (non explicitives .. hehe) that describe your feelings towards the ex from your last relationship ... I am female and, I am the dumper because he was lying and cheating on me. The words describe my feelings toward him are: Digust, Sickening, Moron, Good Riddance Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female, dumpee (although I lost my feelings for my ex and pulled away from him causing him to dump me). 1. thankful (for him showing me what it is like to have someone care about me and be in a relationship with me). 2. wistfulness (part of me misses him) 3. wonder (I wonder how he's doing. I heard that the girl he dumped me for eventually dumped him). 4. fondness (if I saw him now, I would have no bad feelings about him. We were just NOT compatible) Link to comment
MyTeddyBear Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Sad Heartbroken Confused Abandoned Angry Love Female dumpee/dumper Link to comment
locolady Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 female, dumped him when found he had cheated....but effectively dumped as it was the last thing on earth i ever wanted to do! Negative: Gutted Betrayed disappointed Sad Hopelessly lost Cynical Positive: Grateful for the good times I cant think of any others - oh dear! a lingering sense of loving him that is both painful and occasionally fond. Link to comment
Dako Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Dumpee Shock Understanding Forgiveness Acceptance Grief Concern Gratitude Link to comment
Scout Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 female, dumpee (and had it coming) Positives: Grateful (for the experience of the best relationship I've had to date) Empathy Love Negatives: loss void regret Link to comment
lunatic Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 I will do my last long term relationship. Male Dumpee Disgust (at her and how she could bring another man into her home so quickly (2 weeks later he moved into my apartment) when she has little children) angst(I am still sore at what she did to me) Jealousy (she left me with $30,000 in debt and 10 months later she inherits over $750,000) Anger(She never paid me off or even offered to help me. She threated me with legal action that I could not afford if I persued the money she owed me) happiness(I am no longer with her) Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female dumper-dumpee (mutual breakup) fustrated (don't understand what happened) confused (we never actually said we are brokeup) betrayed (can't believe he did what he did) Link to comment
laboheme Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female dumpee - Regret (I took our relationship for granted) - Awe (how did he put up with me for so long???) - Disgust (with my own behavior, not his!) - Warmth and comfort - Teamwork (together, we could do anything...except actually stay together ) - Self-esteem (he did not make me feel worthless when he called things off!) - Hope (I'm making changes...maybe one day he'll see them.) Link to comment
desertnomad Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 disappointed heartbroken lyed to cheated on unloved anger waste of time anger (toward myself for my own mistakes) sadness male dumpee Link to comment
lunatic Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 disappointed heartbroken lyed to cheated on unloved anger waste of time anger sadness male dumpee WOW you listed anger twice! I hope that was on purpose! Link to comment
desertnomad Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 well anger towards her and anger towards myself for my mistakes and being so blind to her distance from me emotionally, setting myself up for a big breakup Link to comment
lunatic Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Ok now that makes more sense. Thats why when I posted mine I explained why I felt that way and the reasons why. Link to comment
The Crying Pony Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Female, got chucked away like a neon mesh top! Longing embarrassment Jealousy Anxiety Depression Disgust Betrayal How many? Can we give a hundred? But also: Freedom Hope Healing Time to get my sexy on! Link to comment
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