sweetdesire Posted February 9, 2017 Share Posted February 9, 2017 Hello, I have been in a relationship a year this month, February and we have recently been having issues in regards to going out. We see each other every day and I'll spend the night. I'll go over his apartment around 9:30-10:00pm since this is best time that works for our schedule, his son, our gym time etc. Well be in bed by 12pm. We've been doing this exact routine for the year. I become upset because those few hours we do get to spend time together are lost when he chooses to go out instead. I understand you need your space in a relationship and going out with friends should be okay but what is appropriate? 1x a week, 2 a week, 3 times a month? I also feel i have an issue with this because I'm not into going out as much as him. For example, i wont go out during the week however he does. Fellas- Is there a reason you guys choose to go out us girls don't know about or may not understand?? How can you measure when you feel your partner is going out too much? What are some things to consider with an issue like this? How can i go about this situation and or talk to him about it since it really is bothering me and I'm noticing is happening quite often. P.S he believes he doesn't go out a lot. Appreciate the advice! Link to comment
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