girl friend Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 P.S. It says his last activity was yesterday at 7.13am...? That ll probs just be the moderators shutting down his account. He's definitely dead. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 This is a terrible tragedy that should have never occurred. Mewskitty was a sweet person who was so young and had a whole future ahead of him. I am deeply saddend that he chose to take his own life. If nothing else, I hope this tragedy will encourage other people who are considering suicide to seek professional help, and for everyone to take the posts in the Suicide forum very seriously and approach them with great care. BellaDonna Link to comment
bubblyblonde11 Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 ^^^I totally agree with that statement^^^^ OP should approach people who are very low and down with kid gloves if needs be cause they cannot handle much more at the time. Very saddened by this, found the news very upsetting. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 Oh How heartbreaking and Saddening! Such a young life lost. My heart and deepest condolences go out to the family and friends grieving over this young mans death. May he forever rest in peace. Link to comment
melrich Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 Quote: Originally Posted by Jess... P.S. It says his last activity was yesterday at 7.13am...? That ll probs just be the moderators shutting down his account. He's definitely dead. Some of his family have access to his account and have visited this site since his death. Link to comment
Dako Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 This must be a rough task for the mods and admins. I'm sure you're all a comfort to the family. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 I am here fighting back the tears. This is so very sad. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. If you read this I am so sorry. he was such a special soul that had great things in his plan of life. This is so tragic. I am praying that the angels are walking with you as you deal with your greif. Please feel free to stick around here, many here will be your support. Many here loved him too. Granted we were 'online' I like to think we were his friends. My heart is breaking. I did not know that he was this sad. Link to comment
poloplayer Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 Having personally known quite a few individuals who have struggled with issues, including cases of love gone sour, that have chosen to end their lives, this thread hit beyond the nerve and into the bone. I have not come accross something like this in a few years, but that's not to say that it doesn't happen - chances are we don't usually know of the person or hear about it so it doesn't quite hit home. I think a good point that has already been mentioned in this thread is the severity of issues posted on here or when discussed in person. Sometimes we don't truly know everything that's going on and tend to dismiss it with a peppy 'you'll get over it' while other times things are taken with a grain of salt because we don't know if they truly are being sincere in their intentions, and being an Internet forum, sometimes it can just be flame or trolling. I view this site as a place to obtain good, general advice on issues, and if it appears to be something much more severe, then to escalate 'treatment' to the professionals. It's unfortunate how this story has ended, but I thank the moderators for deciding to post this thread - perhaps we can learn from it when dealing with others on threads here or perhaps someone in a similar situation can learn from it and try to address their issues in the most constructive manner. My condolences to the family & friends. RIP Chris. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 I read his last post...but didn't know what to say, so I passed it by. Now I'm wondering if there's something I could have said. I'm so sorry for his family, and I hope that he is at peace, and walking among the angels now Link to comment
Miss Firecracker Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 I never even saw his thread until he had passed away. I don't think anyone here could have saved him. Looking back at a thread from last year, he had discontinued treatment for depression. Link to comment
poloplayer Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 I don't think anyone here could have saved him. You might be right - we can only help those that want to be helped. There is only so much anyone can do, especially on an anonymous Internet forum. Perhaps I'm just trying to grasp onto something which isn't there? Like I could have done something to intervene, but that's highly unlikely. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 I felt like I had to do something. Im just so sad. I made this for you Chris in paint shop pro. I wish I would have known. image removed Link to comment
flower99 Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 Tragic story, brings tears to my eyes & heart....But such a beautiful soul.... Link to comment
jengh Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 southerngirl-- that's so sweet...i'm on the verge of tears. Link to comment
shyguy1 Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 This sort of thing truly does make one take into account how fragile life really is and how permanent a 'solution' suicide truly is. It's always a sad thing to deal with, especially when it happens to such a young person. If any good comes out of this, it just might be the possibility of it convincing others not to do it.... The outpouring of love on this site is tremendous and these are people that either only knew Christopher from these forums, or not at all. Can only imagine in comparison what this has done to his family and friends. I know as a person that's contemplated suicide myself on a few different occasions, once actually attempting 12 years ago at 16... that this sort of thread makes me glad I didn't. Guys life can be hard... believe me I know. All one would have to do is read my most recent posts before this one, to see just how conflicted and mentally torn apart I am. That being said maybe there truly is a light at the end of the tunnel and maybe I (and those also suffering from depression) just haven't found it yet? I know that even in my day to day life there are 'good' days and while I wish they were more common, it's undeniable proof that good days do exist. The key is finding a way to make the good days the norm, rather than the exception... and this goes not only for myself... but for anyone battling things like depression, I only wish Christopher could have kept on fighting and seen this for himself.... I will keep Christopher, his family and his friends in my thoughts. My heart goes out to them in their moment of grieving and I truly hope they can find closure at some point. Link to comment
Nixee Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 Simply heartbreaking I only read a few of his posts as I have not been here that long, but I had no idea he was in such pain. Things can happen so fast and we can feel like we've lost the world. It breaks my heart that he didn't feel he had anything left to live for... I hope he is at peace now. Link to comment
sarey Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 ... Wow... Christopher, I hope you're at peace now... Link to comment
ButterflyWrists Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 R.I.P Chris I'm thinking of you, and I really hope that you can find peace where you are at now. Love and Hugs.. Re Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 So tragic - someone so young. I guess...I don't know, makes me realise how close to the edge and vulnerable some people are, people who post here when they are at the end of their tether. It's a really sobering thought. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 Ode to MewSkitty: At such a young age of 18, his restless soul yearned for acceptance His only fault was to be human, and felt the pain in silent isolation God's gift of his beautiful soul to us, is what we greatly appreciated The selfish act of his own betrayal, to quench his pain of living hell Blessed is the mercy that's all powerful, of the God we all admire He now finds eternal peace, for God is truly all forgiving Link to comment
shelly7 Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 My condolences and prayers go out to his family. Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 May the Mother and Father keep him safe till he is ready to face the world again. Link to comment
weeyin Posted September 26, 2007 Share Posted September 26, 2007 RIP Chris you will be sadly missed Link to comment
JimJohnson Posted September 26, 2007 Share Posted September 26, 2007 This is Very Sad. I hope you are in a better place and you have everything you want. Its too bad it had to end the way it did at such a young age Link to comment
luvursmile Posted September 26, 2007 Share Posted September 26, 2007 Oh my God...I just saw this. So young...so tragic. My prayers go out to his family...and may he rest in peace. Link to comment
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