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hey when i went to my local clinic to ask about what i should do if i ever got pregnant One of the choices that stood out ot me was that there is a pill u can take that aborts the baby out of your monthly period. I think that option is open to pregnant girls who are very early on into their pregnancy. Go check that out kay? If you are well on into it more than a month or so, i know it scary and you think running away may be the best thing to do but when you come down to it, it's really the worst thing you could do. Dont' woryr about it i know you can stick it out. I know some girls your age who have been pregnant and they've made it through. Do what's best for you and your chilld...kay

hey guys I stopped taking my pills a week early cos i lost the pack.. But i got a new pack now...can i start it right away.. how does this affect my cycle..do i have to wait again before i have sex

I'm just in disbelief that I will never experience that pleasure again...(well unless i have children whatever) but ...i dont know what to feel ..i'm so lost. I care for him tremendously and love him dearly. I will give it a try for sure, I just feel like i can't get through it.

Did you use protection? Whenever I thought that I was in your situation, I took a test anyway, but usually on the time frame of taking the test, the day you should get your period should be the 'okay' tiem for taking the test. My other suggestion is, go to a local clinic, tell them your situation, what happened, and that sort of thing ask them what is the best thing to do now. I've done that too, its relieving to hear it from a professional. They know what to do. and if you're as paranoid as me, believe me i've thought i was many times...but i turned out now. And the best thing to do is, go on the PILL and use protection!!

hey girl, No worries about the pill. When i first started i was worried like you. During the first couple of months, it varies. Your scenario sounds just like mine was. I'd say after your 5 month on the pill, you'll really start to see a cycle. Mine started out like yours and now it always comes about the day before i start the new pack! So dont worry, As long as your period COMES you're fine.

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I'm overwhelmed with confusion. I've been going out with my bf for 2.5 years. I love him so much..He's catholic, well, so am I. Except, I'm one of those catholics who believe there is a God but i can't say that my faith is that strong. On the other hand, his faith is real strong and his family is pretty catholic too. So he's been raised with good values and I respect his values..i think we are in teh same path of values, but htey're on diff. levels we've slept together..and the prob is that is a sin. For the main because its pre-marital sex..And I always thought in the back of my head that yeah i guess that's wrong..but you know if the time came and it was right and i felt who ever i was with if i knew i loved him with all of my heart and knew that i would love him for the rest of my life, that icould give myself to him...and for some reason, it just didn't bug me that much. I would never think, "i'm going to hell because i've had sex before marriage or i'm having sex for the pleasure of it not because i want ot have children (apparently thats the only reason to have sex in the books of the church)"...but he has thought of all of these things and it haunts him. He doesn't want neither of us to go to hell because of it. But you kknow...what happens happnens..and we had sex..And besides, we're both pretty sexual people...it was so hard not to ....And ever since, we've always been a very sexual couple... but the guilt has always been with him..adn now it's finally caught up with him where he can go no further..it's mentally torturing him..and here and there, our relationship seroiusly suffers because of it. A couple times we suggested to stop having sex to stop the guilt cos i hated seeeing him hurt like that but, we weren't strong enough to hold back. But this time, it's for real. And we're not having sex anymore. (Starting this week) I even stopped taking my birth control pills to help me as a first step. I love him so much that i told him I will try to change my life around for him. Because he wants to start living a good life and start all over again because its the only way his problems and guilt will go away, well hopefully. So i am willing to give this a try. But why is it so hard for me? In some ways, i feel like its a rejection of intimacy but i think that's just my reaction to it but inside i know its not...do you konw what i mean? I jsut feel like some how our relationship is goign to change...well ig uess when u're used to doing something for so long and then just stopping it so immediately its kinda like loosing a loved one who died...not that extreme, but that kind of thing... And the other thing is, i never knew but, according to religoius stuff, the only purpose to have sex is to bear children, not for pleasure or any other reason. And then it scared me that i'd never have sex except for when i wnated to have a child. And that may be only 2 times of the rest of my life. Am i being shallow? I love him to death.....i dont know how this will change our relationsihp because i know we both want it so bad....but i know this will help him but it's killing me inside..... I just dont know how our relationship will change ..for better/ for worse? i'm scared.. Please give me your two cents, i wouLD ABSOultely appreciate your thoughts.

I have a cousin i care lots about..I think she got herself in a situation...She had unprotected sex..but she thinks shes okay cos she did it 4 days after her period.....I told her ot take a preg test...but i know you have to wait about 2 weeks after having sex before taking it... Do any sex experts out here know or give your 2 cents about this if you think she is pregnant or not....like i'm pariod..i'm on the pill and i use protection..maybe i'm worryign too much about her? if anyone can give some advice

hey i know it can be pretty scary but id ont think you shoudl sweat telling her you like her...you should try just hanging out with her more and talking to her more during your practises and after a couple times and some laughs here and there ask her for her number when things are comfortable or just ask maybe if she wanted to do something later unless u're comfy enough to just say hey for awhile now i've really liked you and maybe i was wondering if you felt something back we could... yeah somethin like that!

Hey everyone! My question is about being on the pill. I realize that my topic may not be in the right forum but there was no other forum that related to my topic! Anyway, to be more straight forward! I'm on the pill Alesse, been on it for just a month. Now I was wondering, a couple times I've taken the pill an hour late because I'd forgotton- is that a seroius problem? How late can you take your pill for it to be considered a problem. And anohter question, (I'm on the 28 pack for Alesse) I know a woman's protected on the 1 week green pills but if you forget it one day and take it as soon as you rememeber the very next day and continue to take that day's pill at it's regular time, is that alright as well? The pill seems so confusing for me. If anyoen come get back to me as soon as possible that would be so great thanks for your time!

Hi... I couldn't help but reply to your story- it's heartbreaking. Here's the thing buddy. I'm a real positive person when it comes to relationships and I honestly think there is always worth it to give things a try but you must keep in mind the current situations and the consequences. Like I am so in love with my bf i've been with for 2 years and I could never dream of parting from him. I understand what you did, it was for good reason, and it was the best thing you could have done and good came from it in that you changed yourself as a person and learnt things about yourself that made you stronger. If you had not done what you had did at the time you would have went on miserable not having resolved your situation w/ your dad and your relationship would have suffered more. But listen to me, now that is all done and that you have figured out life and yourself a bit more..you now where you are going and have stable life...don't be afraid to make the attempt to just lose this girl for the rest of your life....I am so sure that you think about her just as much as she thinks of you....I know she has a bf but I wouldn't want either of you to go living apart not knowing for certain that you both dont want ot be with eachother..you have to find that out for youself or you might just regret it for the rest of your life...don't let special things go like that...and when you find out for certain the answer...atleast you're mentally prepared and ready and more so, you're more READY to heal...but first you need to know....so do yourself a favour...don't let those feelings run dry until u're sure... good luck!! You dont find true love often..when you do, the goal's to keep it!

there's never been anything physical in 3 years???

Hey you.... Yeah its' tough to give you advice b/c i know you're quite certain in staying with this guy. Setting all feelings aside, you must consider hte facts alone as is - Married man, 2 kids....In your position its tough for you and for him, he'snot going to jump out and tell his wife right away what is going on because he is squite in a triangle...i know it is possible for ppl to have affairs its on the same line as having a bf and seeing a hot guy down the street and going 'damnn' Except you need to understand the meanings of these words "Limits" "Conscience" "Morals".... When you're in love...the mind is clouded and you will never think clear because love will take you astray on a strong path you will die and fight for til the end to keep the love you have....But don't think of this short term feeling...Think down the road long term....Ask yourself, can you see this man leaving his beloved wife and kids for a kid who hasn't even begun "life"....Like i mean i am only 19 but ...i already see life in a different perspective.....and i'm sure it will keep changing as i get older but anyway...Keep your thoughts in Perspective and read facts as it is....he is married...Say if you were in his shoes..You were married to this guy you are so in love with you have kids ..u've begun your family just have begun your family u're only 30 things are sitll quit erelatively new and your husband is having an affair with a young school girl...like i dont know... Honestly in my opinion..I believe it is possible that he is in love with you but he is a man who can think for himself and what is best for hismelf and that is keeping his family together ..in teh end i have a feeling that is what it might be despite the love you have for eachother... Best of luck

Hey JayBoy... I've been kinda freaked out cos I thought or i think I was or am preg cos i havne't gotten my period yet but i guess i coudl still wait a couple days except that i'm really regular..I serouisly have only taken a preg test once and it was so long ago i can't remember how to read the results and wondering if you could help me.. I took one today and i think it's called Clear Blue...Two windows on the tube and only on ONE window a lined showed up and on the other window NO line...What does that mean? I dont know i'm stilll f-ing scared...Anyway, reading your message about your situation...I am admiring you so much for even bearing through this..as a girl i dont know how i would keep myself up adn going..i seroiusly dont' feel like i could ever tell my mum..we're not open in that way either.....i'm glad you're moving out...it's good and bad..good in that you're on your own and can have your space to breathe and deal with this without family nagging and bitching...well my family would..but bad financially and that ..i guess they oculd help if htey would right? Anyway the thing is if you wanted to talk and needed support you could message me whenever kay....Its porbably good idea to tell your mum...but how? Sooner the better but its easier sad than done...For myself...i think i would need my bf with me cos its never easy to feel alone doing things like this...so maybe if you and your girl went together to talk to your mum.....By the way, hows your gf's mum taking it? I hope things are going alright and that you're hanging in there i know it would be so hard..right now i'm just praying to god i'm not you know... I'm sorry to ask but how did your girl get preg..did you wrap your stuff up when you did it? i was wondering b/c i'm wondering how good condoms are compared to using birth control and that... anyway..get back to me kay? Or if anyone can answer my question about Reading a Preg test Best of luck Jayboy