KieranMc

Tell him to go eat his own eyebrows. Not worth it at all. He's nasty boyfriend mark #2. BIN BIN BIN.

Haven't really read the other posts, just yours. Can I ask you a few questions? Do you suffer Acne? Have you ever had a girlfriend? Do you wash your hair daily? They may seem weird questions but just humour me. I am going to be blunt and guess that you are not the sexiest guy in the world from what some people have said. But that doesn't have to be the end.. far from it. Some of the most lusted after guys in the world are just straight up U-GA-LEE! but they have women hanging off them like some sort of woman hangy hanger machine. I would advise getting a job as a paper boy or something to get a bit of cash, once you've done that try getting some products. If you have bad skin start drinking about 12 pints of water a day. Your spots may not go straight away but it will help. Then get some aftershave... but never wear too much.. just a hint.. girls will pick up the scent. Then try dressing in a way that YOU like.. not how everybody else dresses. All of this and more will make you feel much more at ease with yourself and you will become a bit more confident. Stick with it and peoples opinions will become irrelevant. Post a bit more about how you're feeling. It's a bit vague at the moment.

Best of luck to you my friend. I would encourage you to concentrate on yourself more but I've been where you are now. Nobody is going to change your mind. You will do well no matter what you decide to do. If she IS the one, you'll have no problems.

I found it to be both witty and informative. Anyhoo. Back to the thread. Don't want to go off topic now. I would say decide.. Decide what is more important to you. A happy life with the girl you love.. or a legacy.. children. I chose the girl I love (so far) but I can't predict the future. It's hard but.. I would rather stay with her than somebody I didn't love.. just because they want children too. I may just set up a charity or something, maybe for single dads? Feel I have a lot to give to a little lad but at the same time I know I have a lot to give to my partner. Hard work ain't it? incedentally.. the term immature is widely used and a bit of a cop out. I would prefer a better slurr on my character next time please

Cloaked arrogance seems to go untapped around here. A bit of honesty seems to cause endless amounts of shock factor. If it is as bad as you say.. I'll be banned eventually. If somebody can't take the time to read that which you've written.. especially when it is just a few lines.. then why sugar coat the reaction? I don't recall making any slights.. more pointing out that the poster above had obvious difficulties with reading. Also.. if I can't point out a persons inability to read.. why is it that you can point out my ignorance towards manners.. perhaps I have never been taught them? Is that my fault?.. hmm.. Do you know what hypocrisy is?

Not sure if your eyes are malfunctioning... perhaps if I make it a little easier to read. If you stay with her you are LIKELY choosing love over children.. SOMETIMES you can't have both. Now then... how can that be disagreed with? You're telling me that nobody on earth has chosen love with a partner over having a child? Nonsense methinks. Sometimes you can't have both... sometimes you can't have love with a partner AND a child... Both I and the chap to whom this post belongs are fair proof of that. Have you heard of specsavers? They are doing 2 for 1 on reading glasses.

I don't think the girl is a nut at all.. we all say weird things when we feel uncomfortable.. it may have even been a way of getting at you because she felt pressured. I have been going through the exact same thing with my Girlfriend. I love her more than anything and intend to spend my life with her... however.. she is in no way interested in children... My options were; A) Genetic surrogacy basically renting a Womb for your sperm and your wife's egg. B) Become a football coach in your spare time when you get older... C) End the relationship.. find somebody willing to have a child.. stay with them for a while.. then make sure she seems mad and take the child away from her. Now... as extreme as the third may be I'm only using it as an example to show how limited your options are. If you stay with her you are likely choosing love over children.. sometimes you can't have both. Kieran

Has anybody mentioned the fact that this child molesting freak is 18? And that there must be something wrong with him to want any type of relationship with a child? If he went near my daughter I would feed him to a bear.. or a badger or something.

Cover him in dog meat and release the hounds... He won't forget that Jokes aside, try telling him he's not allowed to touch you until you say.. give plenty of oral action.. and I know it sounds a bit gross.. but try giving oral to his "chocolate starfish".. that is often a turn on. Face sitting, doggy style and legs behind head infront of him so he sees everything are all great ones... but not always compatible with shyness. Try a glass (half pint lol) of vodka before you do it, to loosen up the old bravery zones. Sorry for the crude nature of the post btw

Just noticed how good the word "overcome" was as a freudian slip!.. comic genius. I'm sure sleeping together without sex can work in many circumstances... but what I'm saying is it's a BIG risk to take.. as I don't think I could handle that pressure if I was really attracted to the girl.. what am I saying... I can NEVER handle the pressure. I've taken more cold showers than the rainforest before today. Kieran

Yeah Isle... he'd have to be pretty well hung to overcome such a distance.

Some strange and interesting theories. All I can offer is how I feel. Society has brought me up to believe that girls that have sex with more than say two guys.. or too early are... well... "tramps" (please notice the inverted commas). I know this not to be true and I would not say that just because a guy as had a few partners he should be praised. STD's are not sexist! I have had a fair few partners with whom I have had sex on maybe the third night... I dropped them within a month.. mainly because the thought of them giving it up like that turned my stomach. In nature ALL females of the species run away like there is a fire if a Male tries to "get some". Monkeys... Lions.. Tigers.. you name it the female runs away when in season. The men have to CHASE. Why should it be different for humans? Men are hard wired to impregenate anything with a pulse... women are not. They "naturally" are there to give birth to a healthy offspring. Girls who give it up too quickly or to many partners in my eyes are going against nature and just being plain wrong. A point of contention I'm sure and much debate could be had... but these are just my feelings. My current partner almost drove me to the point of despair making me wait and I tell you what... now that she's mine I kiss the ground she walks on. Kieran

*Stealth post* Intrigue was never told she was ugly... nor was it implied. SHIFTY LOOK.. MODS!!! Nooo!!!

Yup, my tendency to stray doesn't mix well here.. but that's another thread entirely I stick with my original thought... don't do it.. you're putting you and your relationship under strain by doing so. It's not fair on the guy either as he will have natural feelings, urges and hormones pushing him to do things. I'd say stick to the couch if you really need to stay over.. or discuss whether or not you are ready yet. If not,... swerve the sheets.

Hmm methinks that the latter part of this conversation was removed for its irrelevance.. oops. SORRY MODS

I'm going to throw a guess out and say that you're under 17... Unfortunate thing is.. you're likely to be her first but not her last. Enjoy for what it is but be aware that young love is like school.. Once you've learned what you need... you leave. I could be wrong... you might be 63 and have a nice young 20 y/o... if so.. I bow down to thee as my master

Have you popped out a few kids or something?? Take the excercise advice and bin the vibrator... every time you use it you're making it harder for yourself to reach orgasm... Man are all women a bit "special" in the head? Women do this to themselves then moan that their man can'tgive them an orgasm. I made my girlfriend bin hers and she has never once had a problem with coming since. Bin it and Clench it. Motto of the day

I'm a bit concerned by the poster above me... he's 15 and sounds like he's had more women than I've had hot dinners Anyhoo.. I actually have virtually no sensation in that region been that way for as long as I remember, but I have a nightly sex life with my partner. We've managed to perfect it now so she orgasms within about 30 seconds (laugh at her and call her one minute man.. how mature of me lol). Anyway, in answer to your question, Yes,... I believe men do enjoy it because most of the time I don't even come myself, sex for me is purely about her happiness.. little else. As to Oral, I am of the mindset that if a girl is willing to stick one of the ugliest things on the planet in her mouth... and gobble it for half an hour.. then you should return the favour. Personally I don't like BJ's... for the same reason I don't feel anything during sex I suppose. Hope this helps

Hmm I'd say bad choice... I'll wait for you to post next week saying how you wish you hadn't slept with him.. or how it caused you to argue. *Holds Breath*

I disagree. I say don't. Men are very VERY smart when it comes to seducing a woman.. before you know it you will be doing something that deep down you really don't want to do. Even the nicest guys in the world have this urge.. it doesn't mean they are a bad person. Now then.. if you are even in the slightest bit attractive he will become aroused when in bed with you... then he will start being all Fonz-like and trying to lay down the moves... this can go one of two ways --> 1. You say no and stick to it.. he get's pissed, get's annoyed and get's in a mood speaking of how he just wants to show you how much he cares and you shouldn't get into bed with him if you don't want to perform. 2. You fall for his charms and think.. ok.. I'll try it.. then you'll wake up in the morning and regret it. Trust me.. I've done this to many girls and only now feel bad for it. Keep yourself away from his bed until you are ready to hit a home run. Regards Kieran

Don't want to seem cruel but this seems like a "third strike you're out" offense. In my eyes it would be an instant dumping for the guy. If my girlfriend was so much as FLIRTING with another guy.. apart from buying a new flamethrower.. I would end the relationship without hesitation. You were suspicious and obviously an intelligent young lady, showing your understanding of both male behaviour and web based technology. Dump his a5s... join a dating agency.

Ask her if she has ever experienced the love of flame... then melt it off.

Woah... Wow man.. I have to say, that's some * * * *ed up * * * * right there. 1st.. what reason do you have to think that she is one of your father's murderers? Is she a prostitute? 2nd.. If so WHY are you with a hooker? 3rd.. How do you know it was two hookers he was killed by.. if they never found the killers?

Do either of you watch Porn? I'd say throw some porn on or say "Dude you gotta see this" and just watch it for a while together. You'll likely get very aroused together and things will lead on from there.. broach the subject of masturbating in the same room.. I don't know.. Just say you really need to and he'll probably agree and do the same. As a Bi guy myself I have done this in the past and it works like a charm with straight guys.

Also the not masturbating tip is a good one.