It seems like my friends only want to remember the old me, dont even know if there really my friends anymore im so confused and iv known most of them since i was 9. I dont even know what im asking, maybe its me,every relationship in my life is messed up, my sister is turning 18 soon and i still cant relate to her, my father and i until pretty recently would get in fist fights, i went to a program recently to help young adults get there lifes on track and the leader says our parents hold us back, that mine are "bible thumpers" and i hide who i am because.... until it explodes in a drunkin rage, but i have become..i rely on my parents so much, i was kicked out of high school because i was facing stat rape charges which goes back to my girlfriends parents finding out we had sex and they were on the board of decons at the church my parents worked and we went to same school that i had just switched to my sinior year and moved to new city yadda yada, so my parents lost there jobs and i droped out to avoid the charges, I lost myself big time somwhere in my life and i dont know what to say or do im a loser, i used to be smart, iv drinkin it away, i lost my socail life and so had no exersize i became bulimic! I have a hard time to this day almost 5 years later understanding what the hell happened to me i was messing up b4 that like a lot of kids do who party more than they should insted of study, but now iv gone from extrovert paty hardy play ball till 3am, to affraid to leave my room! i need help, this sight is enotalone but i have the filling i am and thats not even half of it, but hey if you have anything to say to me im all for it. i do lift weights and watch my weight some and i think im good looking but its not cutting it i have no reall self esteam i fake it, i fear my sister growing up and gowing to school and me just becoming this nasty old nobody who never even got along with her in the first place, i fear so much, help me. me lost.