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  1. SeaBisquit
    one final question I would like to ask of you all, I have posted a few times concerning my breakup with my bf, we still see each other even though we have broken up. I care about him alot and right now I am spending a few days at his place. I guess my question is have any of you still stayed in contact with your ex? and if you did, did things work out for you?
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    haha thanks guys i guess i am really naive when it comes to guys, technically i shouldn't have trusted the dude, even though he was my brother's friend. mostly i trusted him because he was my brother's friend but that just tells me that some guys out there still have to act like a little boy instead of a grown man. considering the age we are, you would think he would have grown up by now. that was my thinking. mostly, when i do talk to him on the phone i ask him why he said those things about me but he denys it. i live in a small town so the rumors have spread quickly, thats why i'm so upset. now his friends think i'm miss fun time and they want in on the fun too. the rumors he spread around about me are pretty bad.
  3. SeaBisquit
    my brother feels really bad about this. he's sorry he set us up and he has told his friend to knock it off.
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    i guess the biggest thing that i am worried about is that i broke up with my bf recently and were kinda going through a cooling off period and i don't want him to hear these lies this guy is saying about me because he might think it's true.
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    yes i know, i feel like i'm in high school again that is why i'm so mad, because of my age my reputation is important to me, i find it very childish for a guy at that age to make up such stories i'm tempted to type in what he said so that someone might be able to help me find a way to get him back or shut him up
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    dear drangongirl, i have no excuses i know i did something very wrong. i despise drinking and driving also. that is why i despise myself i don't hang out in bars and normally i never drink and drive and this has been a big lesson
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    um, his friends believe hin because they got my phone number from him and they have been trying to call me. so his little white lies about having sex with me have been a big boost to his ego and a big mess for me. i know alot of what he said and he made me sound like a (bleep)
  8. SeaBisquit
    it sounds like your bf is very depressed and doesn't even love his self that much which probably makes it hard for him to love someone else. he sounds very unhappy. he needs to become happy with his self first in order to have a healthy relationship with someone.
  9. SeaBisquit
    hello everyone, just wondered if someone could give me some advice on this. i just went through a breakup and a few weeks ago my brother set me up with one of his best friends who ended up to be a real jerk. i went over to this guys house for dinner and a movie, when i got there he had alot of his buddies over and they were all drunk and high. he had just broke up with his girlfriend and was on the rebound. while i was over there all his friends were hitting on me pretty bad. i couldn't leave because my brother had brought me over there and i really didn't know the area very well. anyways later that night everyone ended up staying at his place because they were to wasted to drive. so i ended up sleeping in the same room with my brothers friend. a few days later i found out that he had spread some really bad rumors around about me. i didn't do anything with him, but now my reputation is ruined. a few weeks later he got back together with his old girlfriend. now he has the balls to call me everytime he gets in a argument with her. i hate this guy and i want him to leave me alone, because of him i can't trust any guys, because he is my brothers best friend and look at the way he treated me.
  10. SeaBisquit
    ok, the reason for the breakup is because right before we met he had gotten a divorce. his ex wife is a big problem in our relationship. we use to live together, we lived together for about 8 months and knew each other for two years. i became very insecure because of his ex wife, i always felt like he was still in love with her. he told me he wasn't but it just bothered me cause she was always causing problems for us. i started drinking alot, got really drunk one night and got into a car accident and ended up in jail. now i'm on probation, have lot's of courts fees and these are the problems he wants resolved before we get back together. i agree to some extent that we should start off again on the right track, but then again , evewryone has problems and i believe we should stand by each other to get through them.
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    yeah I'm seeing the light and your point. i guess when you trust someone it's easy to be decieved.
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    my ex called me today after two weeks of NC, were suppose to be on a break from our relationship after a cooling off period. two weeks ago we talked and he told me he wanted to continue the relationship. he told me that he didn't want to be with anybody else that he only wanted to be with me. he told me that when things get better in our lives that we would be able to move in together. now today he tells me that he is getting a house of his own but he still wants to see me. I feel that he can't accept me the way I am, I have made alot of mistakes in the past but I'm trying to make myself better. he has alot of problems too that have also caused us to breakup. he says that he doesn't want to get back together until things are perfect. i don't know if he is just making up excuses and he says it's up to me if i want to wait for him or not. i honestly don't know what to do anymore.
  13. SeaBisquit
    yes chai, that is what i'm afraid of. i lost him once for not exactly being striaght with him. but, i didn't meant to hurt him, i love this guy, but it's just hard because i have never gotten into this kind of trouble before and i have alot of regrets and it's really hard for me to talk about. i'm surprised i even answered your question.
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    hello chai714, i knew someone would ask this question. I got into some trouble a few years ago, i ended up in jail, my ex bonded me out of jail. after i got out of jail, i promised him that i will take care of the mess that i have gotten myself into. i didn't exactly follow through and take care of things like i was supposed to. he found out about some of it but not all, that is why we broke up. but this has been eating me alive. I want to tell him the truth, but i'm scared and i don't like being dishonest because he is the one that helped me out of this mess to begin with.
  15. SeaBisquit
    finally after two weeks of NC my ex finally called me. I think about him all the time and the NC was driving me nuts. He finally called me today and we made plans to spend some time together this weekend. I miss him so much and their are so many things I want to tell him that I have kept hidden from him for a long time. My question is do I come clean and tell him what I have been hiding from him or should I wait and tell him a little later? this is partly the reason that we broke up in the first place.
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    I dated one of my brother's friends to make my ex bf jealous. My ex and I broke up a few months ago, instead of making my ex jealous he is very angry and probably won't forgive me. meanwhile, my brother's friend ( the guy I dated) likes me alot and won't leave me alone. i can't get him to stop calling me and he's even called when my ex was around. now my ex thinks that there was more going on between me and this guy that i just dated, and i'm told him the truth... nothing happened.
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    chai714, we live 3 hours away from each other. I saw him last weekend and we talked about the possibilities of getting back together. now that i know there is a chance of getting back together, i'm really impatient.
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    Hell sadCar, i DO want him back, i just don't see how the NC thing works when you are wanting to get back together. I want him back but I don't want to seem like I'm desperate by calling him all the time. I do have a chance at getting back together but I don't want to do anything stupid. I'm upset right now because I called im over the weekend and he never reurned my call. he always calls me back right away but this time he didn't. now i'm paranoid, and don't know what to do.
  19. SeaBisquit
    help, i'm going frickin nuts not calling him. We broke up about two months ago, i moved into my own place about three hours from where he lives. I have seen him twice since he breakup, we want to continue the relationship in hopes of getting back together but it is hard because of the distance we now have between each other. i think about him every minute of the day, I want to call him all the time. How in the"hell" do you people do this NC contact thing? It's drives me nuts when he doesn't call, and I wonder what he doing or what's he is up to. How do you do NC and keep your sanity at the same time? help plz
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    I think about my ex all the time, if consumes me everyday. i don't know how to stop thinking about him. Somedays are better than others, somedays i don't think about him to much. I try to do things to keep myself busy but then i find myself wishing he was with me to do all these things. I feel that life just isn't any fun without him being around.
  21. SeaBisquit
    it sounds like he just wants to fool around with a bunch of girls that he doesn't really care about. he may care about you alot, but can't handle a serious relationship right now. sounds like he wants to have some fun before leaving for the university.
  22. SeaBisquit
    ok, here's a quick question? How long would you wait to get back together with your ex before giving up? I'm in a long distance relationship with my ex, we only see each other once a month, we broke up 3 months ago after living together for almost a year. Now I only see him once a month, we talk on the phone alot, but he won't get back together with me until I take care of some things that are bothering him. how long should I wait?
  23. SeaBisquit
    I just needed to vent. I have posted a few time before about my breakup with my bf. My bf has asked for a break so that both of us can get our life in order. our problems seem to have caused many problems in our relationship and we both felt that we needed a short break. I on the other hand am regretting the breakup and am scared that it will end up being permanent. He keeps assuring me that he will continue to see me. For some reason he has been more into me than he was before he intiated this breakup. He says that he really cares for me alot but feels the break is for the best. I'm just exhausted with all the "why" is all this happening. I'm still in love with this guy and find it hard to detach. I am so scared of what life we be without him.
  24. SeaBisquit
    thankyou for your reply annie, I am hopeful that will make it back together, we have alot of history. Things have just gotten out of control in our lives as far as problems we both share. I will miss him alot and I do hope that thing work out. It's funny I haven't even left yet and I miss him already.
  25. SeaBisquit
    Recently my bf asked me for some space in the relationship, we are still living together. But I'm moving out this weekend. Everything is so confusing, he acts like nothing is even going on. He is more attentive to me now and acts like I'm not even going to be leaving. I don't get it, he the one that asked for the break but now it seems like he's denying everything that going to happen. I'm so confused, he calls me from work more and seems like he cares for me more now then he did before. I really don't understand.
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