this is so confusing, we have been living together for almost a year. at first we could talk to each other about anything, but that changed a few months ago. he started talking to me less and less, we do nothing together ever. he calls me from work and we talk breifly and that's about it as far as the communication goes. When he"s at home he's really moody, says he has his ex on his mind. he says he hate's her but the other day he said something about her that really bothered me. He likes long hair and when he left his ex her hair was short now she is growing it out. he says he never looks at his ex when he sees her but he made a comment about her hair that he likes it.