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SeaBisquit

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  1. thank u for this post. i would like to say to him. why was it necassary for you to do the things you did to me. you cheated on me you lied to me. i did everything for you and you walked off with another woman.
  2. Is it really that bad being single? I can do whatever i want to now. I can date who i want to, dress how I want to...and it"s pissing my ex off because he can't control me anymore. I'm even thinking about going on "girls gone wild".. i'm liking it.
  3. locke, to bad for me my brothers has always taught me to go for a guys balls if they ever decide to hurt me. it may be funny, but true!
  4. We have been talking about it. He is pretty upset and doesn't understand why I hit him. He says that if I love him i wouldn't have done that. i told him i was sorry. that is really all i can do, I aploligized for everything.
  5. hello, I started seeing thia guy and we actually were living together for a short time. We got into a major fight one night. One of my friends told me that he cheated on me. I got really pissed off and I punched him in the nuts. I told him to take all his stuff and move out. He moved out and later I found out that he didn't cheat on me at all. That my friend was lying because she likes him and wanted to break us up. He says that it's not over between just that he needs a break from now. my question is 1. Can he get over the fact that i punched him? 2. Can a guy forgive me for kicking him out?
  6. last nite i went out with a few of my friends. i was really mad about some stuff i been going thru with my ex. i got really drunk and i started dancing to a song that was playing and i started taking off all my clothes. my ex's brother was there and saw what i was doing . now he thinks i'm a and said he's glad that i'm not with his brother and he hopes that we never get back together. he told me he is going to tell my ex everything i did last nite. my ex just called me and i din't answer the phone. i'm afraid to talk to him. what do i do?
  7. hi jaycee, there were married for nine years. they don't have any children together but have children from other marriages. he has been married four times.
  8. him and his wife both cheated. they got alot to work on. it probally won't work out. but are you willing to pick up the pieces? he may love you, but he has alot of baggage and that is something you have to think hard about. how long has he been married?
  9. hi, ok i asking this because i'm in a ldr and whenever my boyfriend comes to see me we end up having alot of sex. usually we go to his place he tells me how beatiful i am and we don't even talk for like 10 minutes and we end up in the bedroom. we do others things besides having alot of sex. but sometimes i think he might only be using me for sex. so how can i really tell?
  10. sorry... i can't get over it. I talked to my ex boyfriend for the first time in about two weeks. he says his marriage is crappy. he took off his wedding ring and says he doesn't wear it anymore. he said that he is really confused and some days are good and some days are bad. i asked him if he was happy being back with his wife he told me " yes and no" i asked him what that meant because it bothered me alot the way he said it. then he said yes if i find out she didn't cheat on me, no if she did. then i asked him why he went back with her. he didn't answer. i asked him if he loved her and he didn't answer again. so i told him he needed to give me some answers and i could handle what ever he told me. i asked him if he was in love with both of us . he said no it's the family thing and that his parents adore his wife. he said he is a family guy and that he is close to his parents and that he can't just divorce his wife for no reason and bring another women around them expecting them to except it. i then asked him if he loved me, and he said that he has always loved me but it could be months before he could leave her. he told me that it wasn't fair for me not to move on and to wait for him for all that time. i don't know what to do this breakup has been so hard. we have been broke up for a little over a month.
  11. this is harder than you think. he left her because she cheated on him. she had a affair with a guy she works with. i have a picture of her having a three-some with this guy. and after i broke up with him he asked me for the picture to use it to end his marriage. i won't give it to him because i don't want to be a part of him ending his marriage even tho i want him back. also, i directly asked him if he loves me or her. he said that he has always loved me.
  12. he is seeing 3 of the girls that are on his phone. he just said it nothing special. it's kinda casual. he called me yesterday and told me he has a new cell phone number... and i said jokingly," is this a secret cellphone so you can keep me separate from the other girls." ( yeah i'm jealous, i'm trying hard not to show it.)
  13. it may not be a healthy way to love someone . but i still think he loves her. sometimes people don't do all the right things when they love someone and sometimes things get crazy and confusing but i think that you know deep down in your gut Sea.
  14. i suspected that he had a few girls on there. and i feel i have the right to ask. i didn't searche through his phone without asking and i didn't give him a hard time about it. i just asked him who they were and if he was seeing any of them. i wanted to know what his intentions were.... and i din't want to get hurt if he serious about somebody else.
  15. i didn't invade his privacy by looking at his phone. we were joking around. he told me he wanted me to put my ex's phone number on his contact list. so he could tell my ex that i'm with him now. so i was doing it as a joke and i just said how many girls do you have on here.
  16. i believe this guy does love you. he sounds like he was quite possesive of you in the beginning and afraid to loose you. he also sounds like he is a family guy and he was stuck choosing between you and his family. I have to ask you what really broke you to up? and how soon did he go back to his wife?
  17. i asked him which girl he see's the most and he said no one in paticular.
  18. i know there is a reason he is staying with his wife and chose her over me. i don't know what it is but i don't believe it is because he loves her. he told me it has to do with alot of family pressure. i don't want to ruin his marriage and i want him to decide on his own who he wants to be with.
  19. it could mean alot of things. she's on her period or she's not ready to have sex yet. talk to her about it and make her feel more comfortable with it. sometimes just talking things over will help alot.
  20. hello, I'm in love with a guy that's married. I posted a few times about my relationship with him. He went back to his wife. He doesn't love her but he is married to her. we both think about each other alot but we know we can't be together. i'm dating someone else know and i'm trying to move on, but it's really hard to. the thing i think about is that he doesn't love his wife and she knows he doesn't. why do we all have to be with people we don't really love?
  21. he got back together with you after you had been with someone else. you have more explaining to do than he does and that might just be his point. why did you leave him for the other guy?
  22. ok, i just got back with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. this was our first weekend that we spent together since our breakup. we were sitting around watching television and goofing around. i got hold of his cell phone and said, just how many girls phone numbers do you have on here? i was joking and he said about eight. so i laughed and said allright i"m checking it out. he had like 6 girls name on his cell phone and i told him he had some explaining to do. he got mad and said he didn't have to explain anything and that he didn't care if i had 400 boyfriends. i think he might be kinda playing a game with me because i broke up with him before to be with someone else. plus he is always checking up on me and he comes to my house late at night to see if i'm with somebody. we were separated for 3 months and i know he was seeing people while we were separated. i don't know if i should worry about the girls on his cell phone or not. because he seems really jealous that i had been with someone else and why did he say he doesn't care if i have 400 boyfriends?
  23. too be truthful, usually when a girl see"s a really good looking guy they assume he is gay.
  24. i disagree with this somewhat. looks aren't really that important to me. i go more for their personality i like guys that are outgoing and really throw it all out there.
  25. hi papalazarou, yes he flirted with me like this before. as far as getting back together all it took for me was a phone call telling him i wanted to see him again.
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