zab

im not with this other girl, i may get with her in time but not yet but she's just very flirty round me

yo u sound perfect u should get with me na listen, ur not 2 much for them, they just aint enough for u, think about it like that dont stress just b the best Zab

i dunno how i feel about her, u no they say theres a thin line between love n hate, well im on that line, i love her still i wont deny that but i hate her more then any1 alive. Thing is saying, 'give it time' is all good, i no that i have to, but its finding something to do in that time 2 take my mind off her, im tryin the whole rebound wid a gurl thing but i dunno if thats gonna work either cuz she was just beautiful wid a wicked personality, imagine MYA with J-loz A*ss and the attitude of a best friend towards another best friend...lol...u see y im missin her?

Well basically its been about 2 and a half months since my ex of 10 months broke up with me. During our relationship it was non stop 'baby i love u so much i wanna marry u' n to be honest i agreed then out of the blue she broke up with me. After about 3 weeks of begging 2 get back with her i gave up because she had just turned into a total B*TCH n just wasnt how she used 2 b (even her cousin who i talk to cant stand her and those 2 are very close, lol). Anyways about 2 weeks after breaking with me on the grounds that 'we r 2 different and she cant see me in her future she is with another guy. Shes still with him now but has admitted to her cousin that she doesnt want to be with him and he is trying to stop her from moving to america (which is a sudden out of the blue thing). Lately i have been doing a lot better (as i was verrrrry down wen we broke up) but 4 some reason the past couple of weeks ive been thinkin about her non stop, we dont talk at all as we tried the whole friends thing but it was 100% effort from me n non from her so we left it after arguing a lot. I dunno im jealous of a guy i dont even no, i hate her for leaving me high n dry with stupid excuses (n breaking up with me while she was tipsy and on msn....wen two days prior it was still the same old 'baby i love u so much blah blah blah). I have somebody now who i may get with but im thinking maybe shes the reason im thinking of her, comparing her, i have memories of my ex everywhere yet shes forgotten about me, how do i just get over her? thats all i want, her out of my head n my heart cuz shes just a total B*TCH lol any advice would help, thanx Zab (sorry bout it being so long)

dont wait around and dont deny dates and also never believe a woman if she says there is no 1 else bcuz there usually is something small but its still there. Just live it up for now n she will realise what she wants Zab

Hey there, well if any 1 was following my story over the past couple of months then heres an update. Basically i found out my ex was goin 4 anutha guy only 2 weeks after she broke up with me n after like a month they are now together. At first i got angry but not like omg shes with sum 1 else i miss her angry, more like how can u hav moved on so quickly u B***H lol. But now ive simmered down but on the odd occasion i think of her n it gets 2 me. But as i chat 2 her cousin she told me that yesterday my ex told her that she didnt wanna be with this guy as she is going to america for 6 months so it could be because of that but she also said, she couldnt see herself with him in the future so im like u moved on for no reason then lol. Im just a lil confused on what to think, anyone have any answers? Zab

na i dont feel as though my self esteem has dropped or anything..after new years it went further up lol but im just confused on if maybe she does want me back and is testing me or something, i dunno, i guess the ladies may have better advice at this point but then again some guys may have done the same thing, wasup with it? Zab

hey everyone, happy new year. Right the problem is my ex broke up with me im very heart broken but now after a month or so we are talking as friends but shes giving me weird signs n its annoying me because i dunno if they are good things or bad things. Details of them can be found here link removed but id really like your opinions on what to do as i really want her back. Thanks Zab

so what do i do, what do you mean by not give her what she wants just do everything opposite? this is really confusing me and thats rare for me lol. Also if i stand my ground she gets pissed off so thats why i just ignore it, she thinks im childish if i stand my ground. Really i wanna know if these are signs that she may wants me back and whether i should go ahead with my plan of no contact because on 1 hand it may help but on the other she may think 'omg he said he loves me but he hasnt even bothered' i dunno which 1 to think

Hey everyone, first of all let jst say happy new year to everyone and i hope everybody has had a good one. Now to the problem, well basically my ex and i have been broken up for a month now over some stupid reasons and her telling me she doesnt love me anymore which now has sunk in and hurts but now im feeling slightly better although i get stressed at things, for example we are now talking as friends but when she called me to say 'lets just be friends for now' i acted really laid back and not bothered and this got 2 her but i dont know the details of how she reacted i just think she was shocked from what her friend tells me. Also when i talk to her on the phone she finds it 'weird' as she just expects me to say 'Oh i wnat you back so much' blah blah blah. Well im not doing this i just act laid back and actually have a good laugh with her on the phone but the thing is she doesnt make any effort to be my friend its as if she wants me to do the chasing but then wen i call her she tells her friends that im crowding her slightly and then when i dont call she is like 'hmmm he hasnt called me i wonder wassup?' (this im not 100% sure that shes thinking but maybe she is) Another thing is that when we first broke up she told 1 of my friends that she was with some next guy when she wasnt but she told him as she knew he would tell me and then on the phone shes saying 'ooohh we talked for 2 hours the other night' blah blah blah but then her cousin told me that she doesnt chat to this guy on the phone at all and she had to mention the network the guy was on (which is the same as mine, coincidence? i dont think so lol) Theres lots of things like this going on and i dont know what to do, i love her loads more then words can express and i really wanna get back with her but shes just so up herself at the moment and its like shes trying to make me jealous or see my reactions or even make me hate her and im just so confused its like why are you telling me you dont like me yet you are getting bothered about things and saying things that you know are gonna get to me (although i never show this) Also she went out the other night, got home and i called her and she had been drinking and was quite tipsy but on the phone she kept telling me what she was wearing n i told her to stop it and she carried on and then she was saying 'i no how u feel i honestly do dont think i dont' in a real nice n soft manner like she used to talk to me when she 'loved me'. Well basically now ive decided im just not gonna bother n see if she prefers life without me n also see if she gets in contact with me and if she does what does this mean? Im confused please help me, there are other things she does also but these are the main ones i suppose lol so any info you have for me fill me in please ladies and gents Zab

hey nuno thanx bro chat 2 u on msn most likely lol. And to AJK, well she never argued when she was drunk she rarely was etc she got more horny more then anything when she was tipsy lol. I dunno i guess i should leave her to divulge into her feelings herself and see where she comes out but do you think that she would come back, do they usually do that when they have these thoughts, i dunno Zab

well i hope she gets through everything fine and hope she gets back here soon, nuff love Zab

yeh well for all of those who have been keeping with my story heres whats happened now. Im still madly in love with my ex but she called me yesterday and said 'ive been thinking n maybe we should just be friends for now' so i said 'yeh cool whatever' (acting very laid back and not showing her how bothered i am). Anyways the other thing is i talk to her cousin a lot as they all think shes is stupid for breaking up with me, i found out she was drunk when she actually did it so that pissed me off a bit and she broke up with me when she got a new job which i pushed her into getting as she wanted it so much but im beating myself up about it as if she hadnt got that job she wouldnt have broken up with me. The reason for this is that she has begun to think of her ex (1st love) as she is working where they met etc etc easting where he worked before (he doesnt anymore) on her breaks and he is on her mind again for some reason, i dont know why exactly. I just wanna know if shes thinking of him as shes hurting over me or just because shes falling back in love with him again even though they have had no contact at all for like a year or so, its getting to me bad, have any other girls on this forum ever done that before? Zab

yeh bibora really sucks dont it, i dont do xmas but my bday is coming up soon and i had plans to spend it with her for a weekend jst me n her n thats ruined now =-(

hi i believe its natural, u will just know how to do it but make sure u hug and look in to her eyes first, it will help, she will go in to kiss mode aswel and it will just happen have fun hehe Zab