strawberry_gashes17
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I'm meeting his children for the first time. yikes!
strawberry_gashes17 replied to sasha12's topic in Relationship Advice
sasha12, i kno that meeting your bf children is a scary thing, im sure that my stpemom was scared we she had to meet me for the first time but look at it this way, they are just children, and like every other child i kno if u are nice to them and play with them then they will like you and be nice right back. depending on how old they are it doesnt make one bit of differnece to them if you ar e married to their dad or just a strange lady in his house, as long as you are nice to them they will be nice right back. now after saying all that, if they are young children then expect them to not want to talk to you at first from the mere fact that you are a stranger and they arent sure if they can trust you and what not. i guess it helped that my stepmom already had kids that were about my age and younger but either way it took a little time for me to figure out that she was an ok person, and now i have a better relationship with her then with my own mother. so dont get nervous you will be fine. and good luck. let me kno how it turns out. -
Nikki, see i told you that they would like it! im not sure exactly y i like this poem so much... but u kno me, cant make my mind up about anything. i think its my favorite because i have always wanted to give it to my mom. ever since the first day that i red it i wanted to give it to her... but o well. thanks for puttin it on here... and keep up the good work! much love always, me
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To My dearest Nikki, that was one of the best poems that u have written. i kno that i tell u that a lot but its tru. i wish that i could write the way that u do. its amazing how well u kno the feelings of certain people and what they do when they are alone. thank you so mush for all your poetry. you always kno how to make me feel better... even though this isnt a "happy" poem it still makes me feel better to kno that others feel the same way that i do. well thats all for this poem... on to the others that i havent red yet... Love always, Me
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well thats good im happy for you. and your welcome. so have u called her back yet?? mabye u should do that( note the hint of sarcasim)... hey just cuz they were together for 7 months doesnt mean a thing... i dated a guy for three years then broke it off for a guy just like that so it could happen. let me kno how it works for you.
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well, if u think that ur both ready for it then i would go for it... theres only 2 ways it could turn out so y not? hope it all works well
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my question is how uneasy is ur relationship with your sister? how old is ur sister?? if u talk to her then mabye you could drop some little hints and see how she reacts to them. or you could start to talk to her more about other stuff and eventually work up to asking her bout it, she might be wanting someone to talk to about it and since you do it ur the perfect person. let me kno how it turns out.
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im not sure if i would... it might push the door open a little bit if you know what i mean. it could let her kno that u still like her and want to date her, or it could open up the friendshipt to where u can start to become close. well that tells me that she does like u if she keeps askin if ur dating someone else. espically if its one of her friends...she could have asked her friend but instead she asked you. i wouldnt play along with her game completely but i also would play completely hard to get either. i would play a little hard to get and see where it gets you. mabye you should drop little hints that u still like her but not big ones. thats good i hope that something does get started with the two of you.
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hey, this one is pretty good... not one of your best but still good. and i kno exactly what u are talkin about. well i think thats all for now, oh bye the way put "mommy" in, i kno that A LOT of ppl will like it. k thats all.
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mtastic, thank you. yeah she is the greatest person in the world. shes the only person in the entire world that can help me sometimes. thank you for ur prayers and thoughts it helps to kno that ppl care.
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ok heres my problem. in may one of my best friends died. she tried to commit suicide and failed, her parents found her and rushed her to the hospital. when she got there they were able to keep her breathing but she neve woke up. i guess i should tell you that she lived in rhode island, i live in washington d.c. well any ways her parents decided that they were going to pull the plug but not before i had a chance to get up there and say good bye to her. then her mother asked me if i wanted to be the one that pulled it, that made me so mad that one they were going to kill her and two that she wanted me to do it. then i thought about it and i could see where she was coming from but i was still upset. so any ways i went up there after my prom and said my good byes and was there when she died. that was 4 months ago. now every month on the day that she died i want to start cutting again even though i kno what happened to her and how much it hurt not just me but my b/f and other friends as well. so i guess my questions to you all is what can i do that will help me to not want to or do things like that every month? i should probablly add that for the last 2 yrs before i cut reall bad... i had to be hospitalized twice. any adivce that u might have is greatly appreciated. thanks again
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i think that you should send the letter. if nothing else it will tell her what your feelings are and mabye give closure to both of you. or it will make her see that you dont want to start dating her again and u can become firends... or Beec is right and she wont respond but at least you can say that you tried. if it was up to me i would send the letter.
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well, i can see how u would be confused. did you answer her questions? mabye she has decided that she does like you but she wants to get to know you a little better. how well do you know each other? mabye you should ask her whats going on, explaining that you are a little bit confused on why all of a sudden she wants to talk all the time. and hey mabye she does want to date you. well, hope it all works out for the best.
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dear, that was a great poem... it says so much and yet it says nothing at the same time. u kno that i enjoy all of your poems, and once again you've said it all. dont ever stop writing. and hey u should put "mommy" on here. im sure that many people would enjoy that one.
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for those about to die...read this first
strawberry_gashes17 replied to dpressedone89's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm
ive been cutting for about 2 yrs. now and i just lost my friend a couple of months ago. it took her dying to make me realize that what i was doin was hurting other people. today is the aniversry of her death and i wanted nothing more then to start cutting again. but readin ur post made me realize that if i start cutting again i will hurt more people. thank you so much.