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  1. He has a class with Russell and they're accquaintences (spelling?), but he's never met Dave before.
  2. I feel bad. I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend a while ago and we were talking about our new classes this upcoming semester. I said something to the extent of "yeah, my second period will be awesome because it'll have Russell and Dave in it!" well, he didn't sound to happy about that...He said he had to go and just hung up. He sounded hurt...Was this the really wrong thing to say?
  3. My advice to you is to make a lists. First, make a list of the problems you have with your current school. See if those problems are fixable. If you find that you have some big problems that are stuck, you may want to consider homeschooling. I would then list out the pro's of homeschooling and the con's of homeschooling and see how your list weighs. This is just what I would do.... Good luck to you!
  4. I would take her aside on New Years and tell her. I think that kissing her on midnight in front of everyone would just be kind of awekward, and it may not send the message you want to send, because one of my sister's guy friends kissed her at midnight and she thought he had feelings for her but he said it was just the excitement. I say take her aside and talk to her. Tell her how you feel and how long you've felt this way. just make sure it's a private moment...you definatly don't want to put her on the spot in front of other people. Good luck!
  5. you definatly need to ask her yourself...It shows that you don't have a lot of confidence in yourself if you don't ask her. I met this guy once and he had his friend as me out for him...twice. And that didn't fly to well. You need to ask her yourself if you're going to pursue her!
  6. Exactly...He'll appreciate it if you spend time on it. If you still feel bad maybe you can make a little card or something. But as long as it's from you, he'll love it. Christmas isn't about money, it's supposed to just be a time to think of others. Don't worry about price tags. Cookies rule.
  7. Cookies are good...I made my boyfriend a fleece blanket, so that my be a good idea. I sewed his name and mine onto it too...It's a very personal gift which is why I'm sure he'll love it!
  8. He's my first boyfriend, and the only guy I've ever had to buy a present for is my brother so I was TOTALLY stumped on what to get my boyfriend of two months. I looked for his favorite CD's but the stores didn't have anything that I needed. I had some other ideas on what to get him, but his mother had thought of those before me! So I was pretty clueless on what to get him. I finally decided on making a blanket for him....I'm not sure how much he'll like it, but it's fleece and on one side it's blue and has some dudes playing football and on the other it's just plain white. I'm thinking of sewing his name into the white side. What do you think? He likes football, I'm just not sure how much he'll like the idea of a blaket. My mom and my sister talked me into getting it because I had no idea what else to buy, and my sister got one for her boyfriend too. What do yall think? Any guys have an opinion on this?
  9. I just wanted to hear some suggestions from people for some fun places to go on a date
  10. I'm so happy, I just have to tell someone!! Ok, before school started earlier this august my best friend decided that she wanted to go to a different school than the one I'm at. Well, she just recently learned that she has the opportunity to transfer back to the school that I'm at!! So next semester, she's going to be at my school!! After an entire semester apart, we're going to be able to be with each other again everyday!!! I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy!! This is the best christmas present I've ever gotten!! Of course, now the entire Winter Break I'm going to be dying for school to start again...
  11. My boyfriend and I are like this too...Just try as hard as you can to keep the conversation going-Say whatever pops into your mind. That's what I do, and it seems to be working for now =)
  12. It would depend on how you said it, how well she knows you, and the type of girl she is. personally, I wouldn't mind. Compliments are the greatest!
  13. I think he means the state of New York, not New York City
  14. I'm fourteen as well, but when my boyfriend and I go out our parents usually drive us. So that may be an option for you. it's a little embarressing, but it's better than nothing. As for low self-confidence, I used to suffer from the same thing. I was so depressed because I thought that barely anyone liked me. So one day I stood in front of the mirror and said to myself "It doesn't matter how many people like me. The people that do like me are true friends, and not everyone gets those. Besides, if those other people don't like me, it's their loss. I am a funny, intelligent, and beautiful person. I am awesome." I did that a few times a day and my confidence zoomed up. And people noticed too. When my confidence went up, my shyness started to go down. Am I still shy? Yes, but not as much as I was. As for the social classes, my advice would be that she's not worth chasing after if she can only see you for your social status, and not for your personality. You have to be willing to take risks for love. Almost everything you do you risk embarressment, but that's one of the best parts. The exhiliration, nervousness, and anticipation. I really hope this helps! And good luck with this girl!
  15. I get this all the time. When I'm not around my friends or people I'm comfortable with I'm very shy. Plus, I have a very sarcastice nature so when people even see me with my friends they think I'm just being mean. It's hard not to be bothered by this, and I got fed up with it one day. So I went to the corner of the class where there were a bunch of girls who seemed really nice and I introduced myself and asked if i could join in the conversation. Luckily they said yes, and from then on everyone knew that I was a nice person, just shy. just try and break out of your shell a little bit....Take a risk-Try and make a new friend. If you do, people will see that you're really a nice person.
  16. Just ask for a private moment....Then say something like "have you seen [recent movie]?" Then he'll say "No" then you can say something like "Do you want to come with me and see it?" Or you can be creative. My advice to you is just to go for it!
  17. How long into the relationship do you usually wait until you two share your first kiss of a new relationship? I have an estimate of when I want to----I'm just curious as to how many other people waited the same amount of time as me, and what's more common
  18. I'm worried about being a third wheel because nathan and I aren't really friends...he doesn't act himself when I'm around and there's a lot of awkwards silences when I'm there. But when I see just the two of them walking in the hallways in school and stuff they never shut up!
  19. oh---and this is kind of off topic---But does anyone know where you can buy a little thing of mistletoe?
  20. Ok I'm in a bit of a weird situation. My friend likes this guy. She's been trying to see if he likes her. They're very good friends. Well, she's told him that she and I are planning to go to a movie sometime and she's asked him if he wants to come. I'm kind of stuck in the middle because if I go, I'll just be a third wheel because like I said they're really good friends. I'm not sure if bringing my boyfriend is a good idea, because it might make the guy my friend likes uncomfortable, maybe make him feel like he and my friend are on a date. But I don't really know this guy that well, and I don't want to be a third wheel. I don't know what to do!! Go and be a third wheel--Say something came up last minute and then have them go by themselves--Bring my boyfriend to keep me company Any advice? I'm sorry if all that was confusing...Thanks in advance!!
  21. You can't go forcing something that's just not right. Squares don't fit into circles. Wait until you're ready and you find a guy you really want to be with. When you find him, you'll be fully willing to commit to him.
  22. Yeah, that's what I would do..Maybe as her if she's seen something that's out now, And when she says no ask her if she wants to see it with you this weekend (give her a timeframe...don't just say sometime. You don't have to be specific, but give her an estimation) You're parents will have to take you, and it's kind of embarressing, but that's how it is at 15. Nothing you can do, so no use worrying about it! Not sure what you mean about her and your parents...What are you asking?
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