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a week after an expensive gift? does that matter?
JuJu replied to Swiss_Chic's topic in Breaking Up Advice
There's no rule. She should have broken up with him at the time of the gift giving instead of accepting it though. If she knew she wanted to break things off then she shouldn't have kept leading him on. And she still shouldn't just because it hasn't been a week. An hour isn't exactly that long of a distance either. I think she should just break up with him when he comes to see her and give the charm back. He might insist that she keep it, which is fine. -
Well, like you said, you two were drunk. Things happen. I'm sure she didn't do it to use you and I'm sure she never meant to hurt you especially since you two have been such good friends for a while. It's good that you two aren't awkward after what had happened. Just stay friends with her and see if anything happens (more than friends) while you two are sober. Good Luck!!!
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It was obvious. I think you're exactly right. I don't like being "bought." I don't like when guys like to flash their cash like theres no tomorrow and try and buy me with their money. I don't want to make a guy broke either, so I'll go halves sometimes or just pay for everything. I honestly don't mind, and whoever said it was right...if its the right person and you're not just thinking about what you're getting at the end ("just a kiss") then money shouldn't be an issue.
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What do you mean? Like when you try to kiss him or do...other stuff with him??? Maybe he's shy, or doesn't know what he's doing. Did you ask HIM why he turns you down???
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So are you guys pulling a long distance then??? Why don't you ask HER about this and ask her why she's still pulling away? She probably still has feelings for you and is trying to get over you AGAIN so that's why she is acting that way.
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Well, in my opinion...when you keep on asking him when he's going to ask you to marry him, it only pushes him farther away. Why don't YOU just ask HIM to marry you?
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Oops! I noticed that me and goddess tend to do that! Sometimes we think alike! Must be the age!
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If you think she is worth the effort, than she is. Let me know how the story ends
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She may have been implying that. But seeing as she does have a boyfriend...maybe just become better friends with her and innocently ask about her bf one day. Long distance relationships don't always do so well, so maybe she'll be for the taking before you know it!
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Oh, I had no clue how old you were...by the sound of the situation, you sounded much younger than that! Well, either way...don't worry, things will work out!
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What do you mean you're tired of living with him? Why would you want to marry him if you don't even want to live with him??? How do you feel about him? Do you love him or do you want to marry him because you two have been together for a couple years??? It always takes longer for guys to grow to the idea of marriage than it does women, so maybe he just needs time. Hang in there!
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Write him and ask him if its okay for you to call him back and to leave his number. If he doesn't reply. Then hey...you tried. Maybe he was calling to tell you his computer is broken, thereforeeee he hasn't gotten the e-mails! Don't worry, I'm sure he'll catch ya one of these times and he won't hold it against you that you're not there when he calls!
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You didn't do anything wrong, but sometimes girls see kissing as something you do as a "couple" and you may have caught her off guard. I think its a good idea to wait to call her again. Just give her some space and I'm sure things will be fine! Good Luck!
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Oooo! Good Job goddess! I guess I can now see how you don't have to find your SOULMATE to be in TRUE love. Love is such a crazy wonderful thing!
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I think that was well put Roffler and now I understand! goddess23, I think you started your own topic too!! It happens!!
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It IS love when you are fifteen. But it's just not TRUE love. People can be in love so many times in their life, but they are in true love when they find their soul mate. They don't have to get married to love either.
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Yeah...what's wrong with out going and knowing what she wants???
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Why hair? And...do you like a certain kind of hair better than others? Straight, curly, wavy, long, short, brunette, red, blonde, etc...
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hardcore, I didn't say looks are the most important thing, and by the replies I got...other people don't think so either. And I was saying the very first time you set eyes on someone, not after you get to know them. When you look at someone, you must notice some things first before others, it just HAPPENS. Thanks for calling me "dum" though...very much appreciated.
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Poem read and reply thanks
JuJu replied to ang3l2004's topic in Poetry, Prose, Art & Photography's Topics
I like it. I think it's very good and very well written. Good Job! -
1. Guys, what are the top three things you notice (or look for) in a girl when you first meet her? 2. Girls, what are the top three things you notice (or look for) in a guy when you first meet him? For me, I first notice the eyes, teeth, and hands. Eyes are my top thing though, I find them fascinating and the most beautiful part of the body. They perform a most magnificent function and have the most unique colors.
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I'm curious also, as goddess23 is...you all like the shy quiet type??? A lot of guys I know like it just the opposite, but that's probably because the guys I know are the shy ones and want girls to make the first move so that way they don't make a "donkey" out of themselves. I like both, shy guys and flirtatious guys. The thing is...with shy guys, the girl pretty much has ALL the control (if she's an out going girl) and with out going guys the control is more shared.
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I go exactly with what goddess has said. And I especially like her "signature phrase." Don't be afraid you explore and HAVE relationships at a young age. It's all about learning what you want and what you like and what you are interested in. Life is just a huge learning experience, so just get out there and look, listen, and most importantly DO.
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Everyone has a first time once! Don't be scared, it's easy and comes naturally. I was so worked up and so worried about it too, but when the time came...I knew exactly what I was doing. Don't worry, you'll do great! Good Luck!!!
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Thanks everyone for your replies and thoughts on this subject. It's very much appreciated. I guess I'll just have to wait this one out!!!