Jump to content

donescobar2000

Members
  • Posts

    237
  • Joined

Everything posted by donescobar2000

  1. I would not even check her page or make any changes to your page(although I have been checking my "friends" page)...you have to look strong... The woman I let go yesterday changed her yahoo status to "one day I will find my true soulmate" a few moments after I signed in. I ignored it and she later changed it after she heard no peep from me. I refuse to show her that she is affecting me (although she is). She also deleted me from her friends list on myspace on Monday...I did not do any changes at all to my profile...she still holds the top spot on my page. All of sudden I am back on her friends list. Show no weakness...at least that is my advice.
  2. She was a woman scorned from past relationships and it poured onto me...had to leave her alone so she can find herself and clear her mind...I could not deal with the the bull$*$@. She was not my ex...we where friends that acted like a couple but we never took the title cause she was going through a divorce. I think she falls into the "crazies"...as much as I care for her.
  3. MAN! I got quite a few women wanting me now and I am freaking scared to even get close to a women cause of this last one I dealt with...you gotta do other things though...just to get your mind off of things.
  4. I broke NC...but I am back on it going on day 2...this time it is really for real.
  5. Well...I think my no contact will be broken on her B Day...I am just going to send her flowers in August. Just to let her know I have not forgotten her.
  6. Today was the last day of contact for me...*sigh* May 3rd...except she was not my ex...she was someone going through a divorce who is just not quite ready for me...but however she wants me in her life...
  7. I can relate...I too lost a ton of weight...I lost 100 lbs or so...go hear to see my pics. It is really funny because a lot of people do not recognize me...lol. It ok though...I love the attention I get. link removed
  8. Does it make sense to get this shot if someone already has the virus?
  9. I definitley give her the the courage award...It was SO TUFF for her to tell me...I guess she expected me to up and leave but I guess I am not that type of guy.
  10. She told me she had an abnormal test and the doctor gave her an additional test. This is when she was advised she had the HPV. She defintitley did not get the virus from me because we where never sexually active then...we only dated for about 2 months and nothing happened.
  11. I think I am going to talk to her about serious her condition may be...Maybe suggest we do not have sex until it's gone. However...I know this may not sit well with her. I saw some pics of genitial warts and it scared the crap out of me. Hopefully she has the type which eventually rids itself.
  12. Right I read that too...It seems like it is such a common thing from the readings online. I'd just hate for our thing to hit the fan and then I am the person giving it up to the next person or my future wife for that matter. In any case I will talk to my doc and protect myself if I decide to follow through with sex. I hope she has the type which "goes away" on it own. We will see though....
  13. Ok...I think I will do that...from what I read it look like the use of condoms may help...I'll see what information a doc can give me though.
  14. I see...I did read all the info you stated above. It was not me who gave it to her though...she had it prior to me talking to her. I started to talk to her again after not speaking with her for 7 years.
  15. Hello! Recently I have been dating an ex again for little over a month. Since things have been getting more serious she informed me she had HPV. She pretty much put the ball on my court stating wether I wanted to stay with her and deal with it. I really had no answer when she told me. I had to let it set in for a bit. A week or so prior to this we engaged in sexual activity for no more than 5 minutes until she stated we needed to stop. At that moment she stated she was not prepared to go all the way. I did use a condom but I am still afraid that I may have contracted the virus. Since then I have received oral from her on a few occasion but I have not done anything to her due to her being on her period. I really do like this girl A LOT and I am really in bind of what I should do. I fear of getting the virus (who knows if I have it already)...any advice?
  16. From what you are telling everything looks like it is in place...I would go for it.
  17. I don't have that problem...I can go up to an hour with me controlling myself...its about pleasing my partner with me.
  18. Thanks! I will see what happens...I just started talking to her so we will see...its been about a week and half since we started talking.
  19. 1. does she live at home with parents who may enforce a curfew (some parents still do on thier adult children living at home) Yea she does...I dont mind it though... 2. She cannot go to bars or clubs with you- is this a part of your life, and would you forsee it as an issue? I dont do bars or clubs... 3. Is she in college and are you done and in the workforce, and would that schedule difference be a factor? I work and I am a musican in the Washington D.C area. 4. Is she emotionally and intellectually mature- or on an equal level with you? What are her interests and hobbies? What are yours? Are they compatible? She literally teaches me new things I did not know on a daily basis. I feel like I am in school again when I talk to her on the phone. She is a huge gamer too...I am bit too. She loves too talk...I like to listen...lol. Thank you all for the advice!
  20. I hear you man...most definitley...I have given those things you stated a thought. How is your friend and her boyfriend doing? Is it acutally working out?
  21. I am a 25 year old male who has recently started talking to an 18 year old. We seem to have a lot in common basically just wanted to get peoples opinion on this situation. Does the age thing really matter? Trust me I have thought about this very much!
  22. Well we did settle are dispute today. I told her lets both relax and take it easy. We agreed to work things out. I know I need her support right now but she has enough issues of her own. So I guess I'll live.
×
×
  • Create New...