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    Broke no contact

    After 2 months of no-contact i decided to reach out. Everyone preaches no contact and i was foolish enough to break it thinking that it wouldn't be a big deal. The message I sent her was simple. "Hey!, how are you? I hope you're have a great summer so far." After sending it I felt a sense of relief but after a few hours of no response I felt even more confused than before. She never replied to my message but I realized that no response is a response. If you're reading this and are thinking about breaking no contact, don't do it! Move on. She's gone bro, She's gone!

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    She may have taken NC one step further and blocked you, thus not even possibly receiving your message.

    Either way, now you know, so you can fully move on.

    Been there. I get it. Hugs!

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    I think she saw it but it was in her best interest that she keep the past in the past! I'm sure she is super happy in her monkey branch relationship but i won't let her keep me down any longer.

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    Sometimes we need these moments for clarity: a clumsy step forward, not a step back. We have ALL been right where you are. Time to live fully in the present, with eyes toward the future, not the past.

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    is there ever a right time to re add an ex on social media?

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    Originally Posted by Bro32
    is there ever a right time to re add an ex on social media?
    When you are so indifferent that seeing photos or posts of her and her new boyfriend won't affect you much.

    Now is not the time. And if she hasn't replied to your message, she likely wouldn't accept a request to add you back on her social media either.

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    Originally Posted by Bro32
    is there ever a right time to re add an ex on social media?
    Why would you?

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    I agree with this one! wait until i am indifferent!

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    I have all my ex's on my social media! For now i think that it's best to keep her off!

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    Isn't this the second or third time you"ve broken no contact? And every time you post on here "I broke no contact! I shouldn't have! I won't do it again!" And then you do.

    Do you think it will sink in this time?

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