SarahVV Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 Hi guys!! Looking for advice please, I have been on two dates since Christmas with this guy I met online... Our dates have been fun and we end up spending long weekends together on our dates. As we live 3 hours apart we havent been able to spend much time together but we are planning to this weekend. The thing is he is normally great at contact during the week...Skype and continuous messaging then at the weekend he goes off the radar. I had an idea he might be spending weekends with someone else so on our last Skype I ask him if he was getting intimate with other people and he said no straight out, a couple of days later he messaged me to want to tell me that he lied and he doesnt want to mess me around that he has been with another girl since we met but he described her as a bootycall and has no interest in persuing her and he wants to be honest with me as he cares incase we do get serious. Bottom line is I know we have only been on two dates so he is entitled to sleep with who he wants and its great that he was open and honest with me but can you trust someone who is so quick to sleep with someone else? I am planning . on seeing him this weekend and was really looking forward to it! I am concerned now as I feel if I spend more time with him I will grow more attached to him and I don't want to get hurt. But now am I being to disrespectful to myself and is this a big red flag? (especially the distance apart and trust) Thank you for reading... 😕 Link to comment
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