poorlittlefish Posted June 20, 2017 Share Posted June 20, 2017 I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. For about the first 3 we got on brilliantly, but as time has gone on his behaviour has become more odd/erratic. He seems to have tics - shaking his head, wringing his hands and muttering expletives under his breath. He denies saying anything and laughs if I say it sounded like he just said ****. Mood-wise he can be fine one minute and the next I know something is up because he'll start driving dangerously, slamming doors or just being aggressive (not to me but to objects). When he gets like this nothing has happened that could have triggered it, but he scares me and again, denies that he's acting differently or that anything's wrong. He doesn't take drugs that I know of. I love this guy; he's fantastic company when he's "normal" but I just don't know how to cope with all this as the frequency is increasing. I told him that the next time he makes me feel fearful I will leave/tell him to leave and to contact me when he's ready to apologise but I don't know if that was right. I am happy to be supportive and understanding but it's difficult when he won't talk to me. Any ideas?? Link to comment
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